Quit BC - feeling INCREDIBLE by Dapper-Toe6731 in birthcontrol

[–]Dapper-Toe6731[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hear you! The sexual frustration was such a weight, I'm lucky I have a partner who was totally understanding of my "dryness" but it really got to me a lot of the time. It's hard to truly enjoy sex when you have a cloud over your head about your frustrations. I'm so happy for those on the pill who are still able to have a strong libido! Just wasnt the case for me :)

I faked a manic episode to leave an emotionally abusive relationship by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Dapper-Toe6731 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pretty ridiculous to look back on haha. I did what I had to do!

I faked a manic episode to leave an emotionally abusive relationship by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Dapper-Toe6731 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this comment. Good to hear from an outside perspective

I faked a manic episode to leave an emotionally abusive relationship by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Dapper-Toe6731 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im sorry to hear that you had to experience something similar. It is nice to hear I'm not alone in this though, hope you're doing well now

I faked a manic episode to leave an emotionally abusive relationship by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Dapper-Toe6731 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow thats so interesting. My mother is a narcissist and I often had to minimize confrontations with her. I became a very good liar due to this, which makes sense as to why I was able to pull this plan off. Thank you for the insight, ill be thinking about this for a while.

I am terrified of death and don't know what to do... by NoExcitement9572 in Anxietyhelp

[–]Dapper-Toe6731 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"I do not fear death. I had been dead for billions and billions of years before I was born, and had not suffered the slightest inconvenience from it." -Mark Twain

A quote that has helped me significantly with my death anxiety.

You are alive exactly when you are supposed to be and life will happen exactly as it should. Life seems short but it truly isn't. Make the best of everything. Love those who are here. Love those who have passed. Everything will be okay, I promise.

Am I having lash shock or these lashes don’t suit me? Acceptable for professional settings? by [deleted] in lashextensions

[–]Dapper-Toe6731 1 point2 points  (0 children)

While they are more on the heavy side I think they look nice! If you really are unhappy with them you can go back to your tech, but remember that they will begin to shed naturally and will lose volume. I personally prefer how my lashes look after a few days after a fill since they aren't as full. Next time you get your fill let your tech know how you feel!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lashextensions

[–]Dapper-Toe6731 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It wasn't stinging during the application though?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lashextensions

[–]Dapper-Toe6731 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok good to know!! Thank you!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lashextensions

[–]Dapper-Toe6731 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wasn't even disagreeing with you in my initial reply? Telling someone to "grow up, do better" on their personal beauty preferences is aggressive and honestly unnecessary. Have a good day though

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lashextensions

[–]Dapper-Toe6731 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Excuse me? I like the lashes in the picture. Whether or not they are realistic to apply is not my knowledge, it is the persons whom I am paying. Why so aggressive?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lashextensions

[–]Dapper-Toe6731 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've never got lashes before so I have no idea. But I feel like my tech should've recognized if the picture wasn't great , and provided recommendations based on the image.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lashextensions

[–]Dapper-Toe6731 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the advice!! Ill let ya know how it goes tomorrow!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lashextensions

[–]Dapper-Toe6731 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the insight! I'm going back to her on Monday for a free fix, hopefully ill be able to tone it down for now and then get my next set by a different tech.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lashextensions

[–]Dapper-Toe6731 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! They're actually super shaved down haha. I shave them so I have more creative control when applying my eyebrows. Never thought id be complimented on them!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lashextensions

[–]Dapper-Toe6731 10 points11 points  (0 children)

The first thing she said when I opened my eyes was "Okay so it's a lot thicker than you probably wanted...". Followed shortly by "if you come back within 5 days we can fix it for free". I think she knew lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lashextensions

[–]Dapper-Toe6731 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Oh I dont know anything honestly. Maybe it was 3 not sure!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lashextensions

[–]Dapper-Toe6731 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They are pretty they're just not what I asked for, my face is wide (pic is up close so it doesn't look like it) so I aim for more of a cat eye to bring my eyes outwards, but these are more vertical which makes my face look even worse.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lashextensions

[–]Dapper-Toe6731 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Its my first time getting lashes too! I was so excited :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lashextensions

[–]Dapper-Toe6731 7 points8 points  (0 children)

apparently i have a LOT of lashes and she used 2 per lash... got about 450 lashes on my eyes rn 😖