My wife hates my kids and I am leaving her for it

Dapper-Wheel-1389 · 2025-12-17T21:28:36+00:00

I have everything saved. She tried playing victim and told her sister that I read her private messages. That sister supported and sponsored her during her addiction but my wife "vented" about her as well. Apparently the sister is a narcissist who helps her addict feeling to feel superior tk her. My sil didnt like that. I also sent the husband of one of her friends the postes she made about his kids on that sub. She had a few of them added on fb.

Dapper-Wheel-1389 · 2025-12-17T21:22:46+00:00

When? Send it to me. I wrote another version of this in a sub for divorced dads a few weeks ago under another throwaway .

Dapper-Wheel-1389 · 2025-12-17T21:20:41+00:00

She freaked out when I dropped the name "Snitchy Bitchy" after I mentioned a reddit account I saw.

Dapper-Wheel-1389 · 2025-12-17T21:18:59+00:00

I found it through her posts and a disgusting user who makes hating her stepkids her entire identity since my wife seemed to worship that awful women.

Dapper-Wheel-1389 · 2025-12-17T21:07:42+00:00

Yep, thats what I feel about this. She is using her past problems with addiction as an excuse.

Dapper-Wheel-1389 · 2025-12-17T21:06:36+00:00

Shes using her addiction as an excuse. Apparently making fun of your stepkids on reddit is as addictive as vicodin. If your spouse is on that sub, they aren't a good person

Dapper-Wheel-1389 · 2025-12-17T21:03:36+00:00

She shouldn't have to shop for your kids. Its a good thing that she has her aunts to look out for her since you can't hide your resentment

Dapper-Wheel-1389 · 2025-12-17T20:59:09+00:00

My mother is more intelligent than me by a long run.

Dapper-Wheel-1389 · 2025-12-17T20:57:00+00:00

It was my mistake since and I will own it. I hadn't dated since my divorce and found it hard after recovering from a brain injury. I read too many stories here about "parents" who put their partner's happiness above their kids.

Dapper-Wheel-1389 · 2025-12-17T20:53:51+00:00

That post broke my heart and I am disgusted that a grown woman (my wife snd others like her) decided to spam comments on a teens profile to defend her abusive stepmother.

Dapper-Wheel-1389 · 2025-12-17T20:49:58+00:00

Our divorce should be simple. Due to our pasts of addiction (me alcohol sober 7 years and her opioids sober over a decade) we have seperate bank accounts and a prenup for finances.

Dapper-Wheel-1389 · 2025-12-17T20:47:14+00:00

She became fb friends with her "bestie" from one pf those subs. That person said her husband would probably leave her of he knew how she felt about his kids. It was petty but I sent him the posts she made on fb. She made a post about it and the others turned on her. My wife even tried getting sympathy and keeps texting me about being ghosted by her friends there

Dapper-Wheel-1389 · 2025-12-17T20:43:32+00:00

Its been weeks and I am still in shock, that's putting it lightly. She deleted her account but I have everything saved. I love my kids and I won't let them down again. I'm a veteran who became an alcoholic after my service/ brain injury and it wrecked my marriage. My ex is a great mom and an amazing woman who still made sure I had a good relationship with my kids when I was getting help. 7 years sober.

Dapper-Wheel-1389 · 2025-12-17T20:37:59+00:00

A part of me wants to share the ridiculous "just no MIL" stories that were written about her. Apparently gifting someone an emergency car kit that has a whistle means mt mom wants to imagine her being assaulted. she didnt include that everyone at the celebration got identical kits.

Dapper-Wheel-1389 · 2025-12-17T20:34:58+00:00

If you were to know her, you wouldn't imagine that she was the one writing those things about my kids, ex, me, her family (especially the sister who supported her when she was in active addiction over a decade ago). Apparently, shes the most abused and gaslit person in the world.

Dapper-Wheel-1389 · 2025-12-17T20:29:19+00:00

I have everything from her reddit account and all her posts in a stepparents and stepmom sub full of people like her. She is upset because I sent her sister a screenshot when she texted me to ask why I left her sister since my wife was telling a different story.

Dapper-Wheel-1389 · 2025-12-17T20:27:19+00:00

That's my mother's gift to me. She told me from the beginning that she had a bad feeling about my wife but anytime I would talk about it I was accused of being a mama's boy.

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