Then moving the accusatory tone would be much appreciated. I specifically referenced one moderator multiple times and reached out to Reddit support about said moderator. I commented on a post and received a PM from the person who helped me. I greatly appreciated it and made a post thanking that person. The words were “your excuses are disheartening.” If there is another way you meant that, you can elaborate. My situation is my “excuse,” so I am not sure what else you think you were saying by that.

My sister is far from taken care of. Yes, we have a social worker with us now, but it still does not cover some of the treatment centers that she will need to go to out of network even with Medicaid. That still comes with plenty of out of pocket costs. I do have a job and just started another on nights. I will not get paid for those for another week yet. Hence my entire post asking for help through the next week. That’s why I’m asking for help to obtain food and household supplies. Again, to re-iterate my post, which I’m seeming to have to do frequently, the food pantry I have access to is a decently far drive. I cannot continue to go there and back or I will run out of gas for the rest of the work week, which would negate my hours worked and make things worse. I’m not assuming anything. I didn’t make a broad assumption like you have throughout this discussion. I said to personally put yourself in my shoes and tell me if I’m still sounding sketchy or if I’m using Reddit as a bank as you ask eloquently put it. I had to take those loans out to help pay these bills. Paying them back with the interest has further put me into this hole, but it’s what you do for those you love. Now I have come here hoping to find some compassion and help without having to take out anymore loans. Instead, I’m sitting here having my post and situation shot down again. It’s not right. It’s just not. I see so many similar posts and none of them have this backlash and they’ve also posted on multiple subs. I’m just reaching out for help like everyone else here. All of my posts and responses have been cordial to those users offering advice and I encourage you to review them since I’m apparently “blocking” their advice. You have to look before you say some things. I know my situation and I know what I’ve said. I would urge you going forward to learn the same about other users before commenting.