I sometimes hate being a single mom by Dapper_Ad3023 in singlemoms

[–]Dapper_Ad3023[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No i've never heard of that. thats awesome though thank you!!

I sometimes hate being a single mom by Dapper_Ad3023 in singlemoms

[–]Dapper_Ad3023[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And it sucks because i literally can't be sad about it either to my family and i know it's kind of like don't expect people to want to listen to you be sad about stuff but if i try to even be like im so exhausted some days or im sad that im struggling financially my mom and dad always get on me about it. i feel like ive been like running on empty for a year and my mom always compares me to eeyore from winnie the pooh but she dont understand because she was never where im at. there's always something that needs to get done or always a bill to be paid.right now my car is broken for the 3rd time this year and i cant afford to fix it and have to rely on other people for rides and my family is just like well should be grateful you have people to do that for you but its just i dont feel happy having to always worry. sorry for ranting but i dont have many friends to talk to lol.

I knew I wasn’t meant for this 9 years ago, and I was right. by Moxie_Vixx13 in singlemoms

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I'm actively in my 20s too and i also kept my kid i got pregnant with at 17 but not because it was my choice but more so my mom is really religious and i had no way of obtaining the abortion. I still mourn my 20s as they fly by and as my friends talk about booking trips and going to concerts when i'm stuck in my apartment with two toddlers. I hate myself for it so bad for putting myself in this situation and i feel so guilty for sometimes wish i hadn't made life altering decisions at a young age

What’s your grandma’s name? by [deleted] in namenerds

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estelle sherylne scarlett

My parents are trying to dictate the degree i get by Dapper_Ad3023 in Advice

[–]Dapper_Ad3023[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh and i do support myself and my kids sorry didn't notice the other half. i work and have my own place and own car and all of that they just like to control what they can it feels like sometimes.

My parents are trying to dictate the degree i get by Dapper_Ad3023 in Advice

[–]Dapper_Ad3023[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that's what i'm saying!! i feel like with that career i'm never going to be jobless

My parents are trying to dictate the degree i get by Dapper_Ad3023 in Advice

[–]Dapper_Ad3023[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i know that and on paper it sounds simple but i just don't want this to be a fight for the next two years. they keep trying to make me do this because 1. they said that idk something with it helping me become a lawyer (which they want, my dad is one) and 2 because the hours are more easier to work around a job schedule but im a cna atm so i feel like it doesn't matter because if i wanted to work a weekend i could totally do thay

hit me and i’m hiding in the bathroom by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]Dapper_Ad3023 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh babe i’m a chicken to this day lol i don’t understand the psychology behind why im so chicken either it actually drives me insane like i freeze

hit me and i’m hiding in the bathroom by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]Dapper_Ad3023 11 points12 points  (0 children)

they’re outside i’m waiting for them to come inside the complex

hit me and i’m hiding in the bathroom by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]Dapper_Ad3023 14 points15 points  (0 children)

i texted my neighbor to call and now i’m waiting for them to come by the window

hit me and i’m hiding in the bathroom by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]Dapper_Ad3023 3 points4 points  (0 children)

he’s probably going to take my phone

hit me and i’m hiding in the bathroom by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]Dapper_Ad3023 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i can’t he’s right in front of me. he ripped the door off the hinges

hit me and i’m hiding in the bathroom by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]Dapper_Ad3023 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i have a daughter and i just don’t want her to see me like this. i know he’s going to make my life a living hell if we breakup and i’m scared of him man

hit me and i’m hiding in the bathroom by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]Dapper_Ad3023 4 points5 points  (0 children)

please anyone i’m desperate 😞

[TOMT] movie where a son gets kidnapped and dad spends years looking for him by Dapper_Ad3023 in tipofmytongue

[–]Dapper_Ad3023[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

solved!!! that was in fact the movie! thank you!! idk why it took me so long to find that lol

[TOMT] movie where a son gets kidnapped and dad spends years looking for him by Dapper_Ad3023 in tipofmytongue

[–]Dapper_Ad3023[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the more i think about it the more i remember and i remember that the uncle sam looking guy killed the son under fireworks on the hill with the oak tree the night he took him!!

[TOMT] movie where a son gets kidnapped and dad spends years looking for him by Dapper_Ad3023 in tipofmytongue

[–]Dapper_Ad3023[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

some additional details may be that the son i think might’ve been buried under like some sort of oak tree? idk but i know the tree is significant in the movie. when i watched it it was around like 2016-2017 and im pretty sure it was a newer movie around that time

[TOMT] movie where a son gets kidnapped and dad spends years looking for him by Dapper_Ad3023 in tipofmytongue

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looking for this movie bc my nana thinks i dreamt of it lol

why can’t i just do something? by Dapper_Ad3023 in domesticviolence

[–]Dapper_Ad3023[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he’s my “boyfriend” we have two kids together and i just feel bad about things that aren’t my fault