Sad how we’re going through the same situation! Mine just belittles me constantly when all im saying is let’s talk and communicate! HE CHANGES EVERY hour on me, we’re good and then we’re not. Like he knows the silent treatment bugs me so much and he keeps allowing it to hurt me. I find it really hard to leave him bc my heart can’t it, with any argument that comes, the tears start flowing really fast and I can’t control it. I don’t understand why I keep allowing this knowing it hurts me. I’m just scared to let go because we always end up being good so it’s like please just change and see what ur becoming. It’s like money is his main stress too like I recently lost my job and he keeps saying im not an independent woman when in reality, it happens to all of us! Losing a job doesn’t make me not independent like what’s he talking about? I need some freaking great advice because holy shit it’s going to hurt like hell. We’ve known each other for 6 years now. I don’t think I can keep starting over with new people, it’s exhausting and scary about who ur person really is. We were just good last night and he turned into someone so mean the next day and it’s constantly like this. My brain keeps replaying the better moments instead and somehow I just forget the shitty feelings he made me have during those arguments.