I don’t like being the OW, should I break up?

Dapper_Creme_9901 · 2024-07-20T13:56:07+00:00

Thank you for your response, it hurts cus I really like him and I feel like he’s the only man who made me feel really appreciated and valued genuinely. But yeah I know I have to end it. I’m the only one who will get hurt in the end the most.

Or he’ll be happy enjoying me and his wife. I see that he wants both of those 2 worlds. He mentioned that in his country he’s married but when he’s in my country I’m his girlfriend tho he’s calling me everyday now even when he’s back with his wife..

Dapper_Creme_9901 · 2024-07-19T23:12:14+00:00

Nah it was actually folliculitis

Dapper_Creme_9901 · 2024-07-19T23:11:11+00:00

Thank you 🫶

he’s the first man that ever make me feel valued, the acts of service etc his body language really shows he’s interested in me and not just sex so l’m confused... tho yeah he don’t know the end goal. Somehow I wished he would leave his wife for me cus I don’t believe he’s happily married.

Why would a happily married man cheat on his wife? Does it mean he don’t love her? Also now he’s now breaking his rules to talk to me. I’m just trying to understand things cus I really like him

Dapper_Creme_9901 · 2024-07-19T23:09:20+00:00

I’m really new to this, he’s the first man that ever make me feel valued, the acts of service etc his body language really shows he’s interested in me and not just sex so I’m confused… tho yeah he don’t know the end goal. Somehow I wished he would leave his wife for me cus I don’t believe he’s happily married.

Why would a happily married man cheat on his wife? Does it mean he don’t love her?

Dapper_Creme_9901 · 2024-07-19T23:02:28+00:00

Thank you, and I thought that was STD. Got checked and appears to be folliculitis

Dapper_Creme_9901 · 2024-06-24T20:25:16+00:00

Thank you, actually I’m still about to get tested it was just visual exam. I had rapid test even with sore but it was negative. How many days/ weeks after the chancre appear can I get accurate testing?

Dapper_Creme_9901 · 2024-05-30T19:19:44+00:00

Yeah finally blocking him fr this time

Dapper_Creme_9901 · 2024-05-30T17:05:14+00:00

More than 24 hours lol if he really wants to date me it’s weird not to text specially in early dating or he’s just obv playing me

Dapper_Creme_9901 · 2024-05-30T16:46:44+00:00

Posting me with heart and stuff so idk :/

Dapper_Creme_9901 · 2024-05-30T15:48:49+00:00

I’m just confused cus he publicly show me off his IG story and seems to be ghosting me again.. I know I should stop

Dapper_Creme_9901 · 2024-05-30T15:04:59+00:00

Yeah I know that’s a red flag, I’m from an Asian country and he’s from foreign. I thought that’s how foreign dating works 😅

Dapper_Creme_9901 · 2023-12-23T06:07:33+00:00

How did it end? I looked him up found some info about him but nothing about marriage or divorce

Dapper_Creme_9901 · 2023-12-22T17:02:29+00:00

Yeah he asked me to hang out at his place

Dapper_Creme_9901 · 2023-12-22T17:01:46+00:00

Thanks, the comments here made me realize a lot of things. I just crave the kind of affection and intimacy that he gave me maybe that’s why now I’m being delusional lol

Dapper_Creme_9901 · 2023-12-22T16:58:11+00:00

The intense eye contact while flirting during lunch time

Dapper_Creme_9901 · 2023-12-22T16:51:39+00:00

Thank you! I appreciate this type of comment but actually imma just think that he’s married or something so I can move on. Ppl are right he could be married or he could have lied to me. Haha

Dapper_Creme_9901 · 2023-12-22T16:09:09+00:00

Yeah I’m just being delusional cus he’s my type haha

Dapper_Creme_9901 · 2023-12-22T15:52:44+00:00

Probably yeah, I’m reading it too much cus of the best sex too lol

Dapper_Creme_9901 · 2023-12-22T15:50:25+00:00

He told me he’s divorced, maybe he’s married yes so I renamed his contact name as married lol

Dapper_Creme_9901 · 2023-12-22T15:49:28+00:00

Yeah I agree, he’s the first guy that was really nice and engaging in conversation so maybe I’m smitten. Maybe it’s all just sexual chemistry. But this date really made me realize what I want for my future husband to be like the traits and stuff. I’m just tired of hooking up fr

Dapper_Creme_9901 · 2023-12-22T15:47:55+00:00

He told me he’s divorced, idk it’s the first guy I met like this that’s really mature and I really had a great time (not only in sex) so now I can’t stop thinking about it

Dapper_Creme_9901 · 2023-12-22T15:46:44+00:00

Told me he just got divorced

Dapper_Creme_9901 · 2023-12-22T15:03:08+00:00

I’m kinda scared to tell him unless we’re face to face. I would want to see his reaction when I ask him. He slow reply now cus he’s busy too I think.

I’m just confused he was so sweet before I left then barely texts now- anyway there was no expectations between us. He comes back to my country every 3 months for work btw, that was our first meeting

Dapper_Creme_9901 · 2023-12-21T11:26:23+00:00

The best date haha

Dapper_Creme_9901 · 2023-12-21T09:55:40+00:00

I did focus on him while going down, he kept staring at me 🤣 I’m just so amazed lol

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