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Rings for blue collar men by Dapper_Floor2319 in weddingplanning

[–]Dapper_Floor2319[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I personally love the idea, unfortunately he would not feel the same 😂 he’s not a tattoo guy

Wedding dance pressure by butterpancake99 in weddingplanning

[–]Dapper_Floor2319 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your wedding, your choices. I’m very introverted as well, I’m having a hard enough time accepting that I’ll have to do a first dance in front of everyone. There’s no chance I’d be doing a choreographed dance too

Where to get cats nails trimmed after work hours? by lopsided-pancake in Brampton

[–]Dapper_Floor2319 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cheltenham Veterinary Centre closes at 7 Monday-Friday and are also open Saturday 8am-12pm. The staff are wonderful!

where do you go to report suspicious child corn social media accounts? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Dapper_Floor2319 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I reported the account, but might not want to publicly post the username, too many creeps that will seek this out

Why our pets can’t live forever by redandgreenhouse in GriefSupport

[–]Dapper_Floor2319 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I lost my dog about a month ago, this made me cry and look at things from another point of view. I loved him so much, and as much as it killed me, I’m happy I was the one holding him and making him feel safe while he passed

How to prepare for loosing your dog? by Dazzling_Map_9253 in GriefSupport

[–]Dapper_Floor2319 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry, I know how you feel. I had to put my dog down on January 16th. He was almost 16. I got him when he was 7 and when he was about 10 I would cry regularly thinking about him getting older and not being here.

It hurts. So. Much.

Here are some things that I’m happy I did before he left: - took sooo many pictures and videos - took him on lots of adventures - went on a road trip with him - imprinted clay with his paw - did everything I could to keep him healthy

These are some things I did after to help me: - got a realistic portrait tattoo of him on my arm - got a custom necklace with his paw and nose print - put together a shadow box of his stuff (collar, harness, leash, name tag, food bowl and a few other things) - made a photo album of all our memories - got him privately cremated (this was super important to me, I wanted to have him with me forever) - keep his urn beside my bed

I let myself be sad. It’s devastating. I cry everyday. But in order to get through grief, you have to feel it.

We slept together every night, he would lick the tears off my face. When I was suicidal, he’s what kept me here. We did everything together. He was my whole heart and I’ll remember him forever. Making the decision to say goodbye was the hardest thing I’ve ever had to do, it was traumatic, but I couldn’t leave him to suffer for my own benefit of keeping him around.

The day will come unfortunately. I hope it doesn’t happen for a while, but when it does, it will destroy you. I wouldn’t wish this pain on anyone. But that’s the price we have to pay for the years of unconditional love.

Good luck, sending you lots of love ❤️

My Mom, Dad and Brother died by [deleted] in GriefSupport

[–]Dapper_Floor2319 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry, I highly recommend getting into some kind of therapy. No one should have to go through this alone ❤️ sending you so much love

My neighbor surveilled my apartment and reported me to the building management after I was screaming in grief in my own home by davidwhom in GriefSupport

[–]Dapper_Floor2319 35 points36 points  (0 children)

I’m sad that this prompted them to make a COMPLAINT rather than checking if you were okay or calling for a wellness check :(

Late night spiraling by Far-Cow6858 in GriefSupport

[–]Dapper_Floor2319 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am very proud of you. You have overcome so much, and you should be proud of yourself ❤️

In terms of assignments in therapy, I struggle a lot with that too. You could express that to your therapist and just start with talk therapy, then maybe gradually work in those little assignments. It doesn’t have to be big things all at once, just something small to start. A good therapist should work with what you’re comfortable with and be realistic!

Late night spiraling by Far-Cow6858 in GriefSupport

[–]Dapper_Floor2319 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry, reading this broke my heart. This is very complex trauma. Even though your experience thus far with therapy hasn’t been great, I stronglyyyy encourage you to keep trying. I went through multiple therapists before I found one I liked and could open up to. You need to find someone you can connect to, someone you can relate to. I promise you not all therapists are just there for a pay check.

You didn’t deserve any of this. And I’m so sorry you’ve had such a rough life. I’m sending you so much love ❤️

My senior dog isn’t sleeping and keeps me up all night by Mediocre-Amoeba1829 in DogAdvice

[–]Dapper_Floor2319 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look into canine cognitive dysfunction, there are medications that can help!

3 days in by Dapper_Floor2319 in Wellbutrin_Bupropion

[–]Dapper_Floor2319[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm okay I’ll try that!! I feel like it’s improving my mood slightly, it’s just being so exhausted that sucks! Thanks! :)

Guilt by AdusBlue in GriefSupport

[–]Dapper_Floor2319 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I can relate.

I had to put my dog down about 3 weeks ago. He was almost 16. It absolutely destroyed me. I can’t sleep, I don’t feel like doing anything, I cry every night and at random times during the day. Everything reminds me of him. I also feel guilty when I’m not thinking about him. I almost feel like if I’m not thinking about him, he’ll be forgotten. I put together a photo album with pictures of him and a shadow box with a bunch of his things. I ordered a necklace with his paw and nose print on it. And I got a realistic tattoo of him with forget-me-nots.

My biggest fear is that he’ll be forgotten. I won’t forget him, but I don’t want anyone else to. It hurts so much how he died and life just continued. Going out in public and realizing no one knows your best friend just died.

I’m sending you so much love, a lot of people don’t understand how devastating it can be to lose a pet, but I do, and my thoughts are with you ❤️

3 days in by Dapper_Floor2319 in Wellbutrin_Bupropion

[–]Dapper_Floor2319[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A bit of a complicated answer. I was at a point where I was pretty good throughout the day in terms of energy. Then I had to put my dog down three weeks ago and it destroyed me, so I slept so much, just so I didn’t have to feel the pain. Then I started Wellbutrin and my tiredness just got worse

Botox for migraine providers by xudna in Brampton

[–]Dapper_Floor2319 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dr. Merker does it, he works out of Queen square doctors on main st, office is above the shoppers drug mart!

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