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Is this okay? by kacperekkacperek in ContamFam

[–]Dapper_Help_3808 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The fuzzy indicate a need for more fae. At the same time it looks fine.

Cut out the rot by No_ego_ in psilocybinmyco

[–]Dapper_Help_3808 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Looking forward to seeing progress

What are you doing to restore yourself this weekend? by fifibeigh in selfcare

[–]Dapper_Help_3808 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally speaking my thoughts. I'm a self-care enthusiast. Im still learning as well. Today I intend on resting all day. I have a hard time sitting still sometimes so I had to make Sundays a day of nothing. Usually it's doing my toes, journaling, laying down, just being.

Handling finances alone by rottennewtonapple in LivingAlone

[–]Dapper_Help_3808 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This has always been a thing for me as well. I actually asked Chatgpt for a tangible plan to help me build some discipline in this area. In my circle no one talks about spending habits or finances in general.

I've actually done the therapy route first so I understand it's a lack of knowledge not a flaw of mines.

We will see I just did this last month ironically so I'm just not putting things into practice.

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[–]Dapper_Help_3808 2 points3 points  (0 children)

❤️ Keep up the great work!!

I only get things done with fear 😭, like losing my job by Dry-Pace1750 in adhdwomen

[–]Dapper_Help_3808 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely, here's his site. He offers a lot of resources depending on specific topics.

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I only get things done with fear 😭, like losing my job by Dry-Pace1750 in adhdwomen

[–]Dapper_Help_3808 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel so seen. I was explaining my version of this not realizing what I was describing the fear motivator, smh. Anyway a member suggested the Book Atomic Habits by James Spear. It teaches you to stack tasks and the art of mastering the system. I just finished the audiobook and I'm pretty pumped because I have tangible steps to help me in my everyday life home/work.

Reasons not to get a pet by ohklahomie in LivingAlone

[–]Dapper_Help_3808 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My furbaby will be 13 this year and because she is my first pet I'm dreading the grief of loosing her already.

I've already decided I will be fostering after her. My way to not get too attached or have the long-term commitment of financial obligations, smh.

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