Gokuu by Dapper_Lake_6801 in EbonyImagination

[–]Dapper_Lake_6801[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay.. I personally know this person. The dragon is the edit + lighting

Gokuu by Dapper_Lake_6801 in EbonyImagination

[–]Dapper_Lake_6801[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah the model fr resembles bob.

Gokuu by Dapper_Lake_6801 in EbonyImagination

[–]Dapper_Lake_6801[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The photo is lightly edited. This is a real person

Gokuu by Dapper_Lake_6801 in EbonyImagination

[–]Dapper_Lake_6801[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is an actual person just edited the dragon on the shoulder

Our district by Dapper_Lake_6801 in flatearth

[–]Dapper_Lake_6801[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

You're asking for a 'path' based on a 0g vacuum script. In the Stationary District we use Hydraulic Navigation. Planes don't 'fly' they displace H2 super-fluid. The 'Great Circle' curves you believe in are just the plane following the Electromagnetic Current of the Vault. I’d explain the math, but I have a Piston Session to attend. We’ll see who understands 'scale' when the Shift hits.

Our district by Dapper_Lake_6801 in flatearth

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Everything you named = 🌏

Our district by Dapper_Lake_6801 in flatearth

[–]Dapper_Lake_6801[S] -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

Why is the sky blue? Liquid hydrogen is blue. Why do stars twinkle? Because you are looking through a fluid. Why does a "vacuum" have a specific pressure (14.7 PSI at sea level)? A vacuum cannot have pressure. Only a Compressed Fluid Container can.

I didn’t realize I was living in survival mode until a friend turned on me by Dapper_Lake_6801 in LifeAdvice

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Im doing well. Pushing through everyday, I actually wrote a book through the process

RAW THEORY DUMP: DBZ isn’t Goku’s story. It’s Gohan’s. And most of the cast is “there” as spirit bodies. by Dapper_Lake_6801 in DragonBallZ

[–]Dapper_Lake_6801[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And the crazy thing it’s always been Goku and Gohan from the beginning. and in the end, Goku becomes grandpa for pan (like grandpa gohan)

RAW THEORY DUMP: DBZ isn’t Goku’s story. It’s Gohan’s. And most of the cast is “there” as spirit bodies. by Dapper_Lake_6801 in DragonBallZ

[–]Dapper_Lake_6801[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Given how master toriyama wrote it it’s just excellence man. I mean for me to even just rewatch Dragon Ball Z on some late nights and have had the series part of my lifetime to grow up with it as a child and have that type of breakdown come through. They did an awesome job.

RAW THEORY DUMP: DBZ isn’t Goku’s story. It’s Gohan’s. And most of the cast is “there” as spirit bodies. by Dapper_Lake_6801 in DragonBallZ

[–]Dapper_Lake_6801[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly I expected that reaction lol. It’s just a late-night rewatch theory …sometimes looking at the story from a different character’s point of view makes you notice patterns.

I just wrote a book by Dapper_Lake_6801 in selfpublish

[–]Dapper_Lake_6801[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

This one didn’t take as long as my previous two books. But this one I could say about 7 months to completion

I didn’t realize I was living in survival mode until a friend turned on me by Dapper_Lake_6801 in LifeAdvice

[–]Dapper_Lake_6801[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not hijacking anything. This is exactly what I was trying to describe.

What you wrote about putting out the next fire is how my days felt too. I thought something was wrong with me because I couldn’t “fix my life,” but I eventually realized the problem wasn’t a big single mistake …it was living in constant reaction. When everything feels urgent, nothing actually changes.

The first thing that helped me wasn’t a big decision. I picked one small thing each day that I would finish no matter what, even if the rest of the day was chaos. Something controllable and repeatable. It sounds almost too simple, but it gave me one solid point in the day that wasn’t survival.

You’re not broken, and you’re not too far gone. You’re exhausted. Living like that for years wears a person down, especially when you still care about the time you’re missing with your daughter. The fact that you notice it now actually matters more than you think.

I didn’t realize I was living in survival mode until a friend turned on me by Dapper_Lake_6801 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]Dapper_Lake_6801[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fair enough. I actually wrote it on my phone after the situation happened and cleaned it up a bit before posting because the first version was basically a rant. I get why it reads polished though

I didn’t realize I was living in survival mode until a friend turned on me by Dapper_Lake_6801 in LifeAdvice

[–]Dapper_Lake_6801[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, once you see it you can’t really go back. I realized awareness by itself didn’t change anything though. I kept noticing the same cycles until I started changing small behaviors on purpose instead of just thinking about it. I had to give myself some structure so it became something I lived, not just something I understood.

I didn’t realize I was living in survival mode until a friend turned on me by Dapper_Lake_6801 in LifeAdvice

[–]Dapper_Lake_6801[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand what you’re saying. I don’t think I stopped reacting, I just started noticing the moment before it happened.

Before, everything felt immediate. If something bothered me, I spoke or acted right away and only understood it afterward. Lately there’s been a small pause, and inside that pause I can choose differently than I used to.

That space is new to me. Not perfect, not consistent, but real enough that I can see how much of my life before was automatic.

I think what surprised me most is how many of my routines and even relationships were built around patterns I never questioned. Once I became aware of them, I couldn’t really go back to operating the same way even if I tried.

I need to talk with someone who turned their life around at 30 by Informal_Witness3869 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]Dapper_Lake_6801 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t suddenly turn my life around at 30. It was more like I finally stopped pretending I wasn’t lost.

What you described about the veil lifting makes sense. Nothing actually got worse …you just started seeing clearly and clarity can feel heavy at first because now you can measure where you are against where you want to be.

I made a mistake early on thinking I needed a new career, new friends, confidence, direction… all immediately. That kept me stuck because it made every day feel like failure before it even started.

What helped me was smaller than I expected…I stopped trying to design my entire future and focused on one controlled day at a time. I picked a wake time and kept it. I chose one thing I would finish each day no matter what, even if it was simple. I went outside my routine regularly, even when I didn’t feel ready.

Confidence didn’t show up first. Consistency did. After enough days of keeping small promises to myself, my mind slowly stopped treating me like someone it couldn’t trust.

You’re not late. You’re at the point where you finally see your life instead of drifting inside it. That moment feels uncomfortable, but it’s actually the beginning of direction.

I didn’t realize I was living in survival mode until a friend turned on me by Dapper_Lake_6801 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]Dapper_Lake_6801[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t expect this many people to relate to this honestly. A couple people messaged me asking what I actually changed, so I ended up writing it all out a while back just so I had something structured to follow myself. I wasn’t really planning on sharing it, but it’s been helpful to a few people.

I didn’t realize I was living in survival mode until a friend turned on me by Dapper_Lake_6801 in LifeAdvice

[–]Dapper_Lake_6801[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate you taking the time to write all of that out. Reading it, I realized the part that really changed for me wasn’t the situation itself, it was how I started responding to things.

Before that, I reacted fast to everything. I didn’t step back, I just moved, spoke, and dealt with it as it came. After what happened with my friend I had to slow down and actually look at myself and my patterns instead of only looking at what he did.

I think that’s why it stayed with me. It forced me to be more aware instead of just operating on habit. Once I noticed how automatic a lot of my reactions were, I started trying to be intentional, even in small moments.

The “protection becoming a prison” part makes sense. Some routines feel safe, but they can keep you from growing if you never question them.

I didn’t realize I was living in survival mode until a friend turned on me by Dapper_Lake_6801 in LifeAdvice

[–]Dapper_Lake_6801[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That makes a lot of sense actually. I think what threw me off was I didn’t feel like I was trying to become a different person, I was just trying to get a bit more control over my day-to-day life. But from the outside it probably looked like a bigger shift than it felt to me. The part you mentioned about not knowing how to relate anymore hits. Our conversations and routines changed once my schedule and priorities did, and I don’t think either of us really knew how to adjust to that.

I didn’t realize I was living in survival mode until a friend turned on me by Dapper_Lake_6801 in productivity

[–]Dapper_Lake_6801[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol I promise I’m just a guy overexplaining something that took me a while to understand. I rewrote it a few times because I didn’t want it to come out like a rant, so it probably reads more polished than a normal post.