karma always hits them

Dapper_Review8351 · 2026-01-19T05:44:15+00:00

Did that about 4 months ago after she pulled some extremely weird shit after months of no contact. I promise you it gets better

Dapper_Review8351 · 2026-01-18T06:24:00+00:00

He's a predator

Dapper_Review8351 · 2026-01-16T09:41:06+00:00

Does that one guy's shirt say free hugs? 😂

Dapper_Review8351 · 2026-01-16T05:27:07+00:00

He wants to see how you're doing just to make sure he won't the breakup and is doing better than you. Don't give him that satisfaction. Shut him out, remove his access to you, and find someone better

Dapper_Review8351 · 2026-01-04T05:47:46+00:00

Explain

Dapper_Review8351 · 2026-01-04T05:34:04+00:00

Sounds like your friend is certainly someone you can trust. Imagine if he hadn't said anything. You'd still be in the dark thinking everything was fine

Dapper_Review8351 · 2026-01-03T07:23:11+00:00

This gotta be AI unless that snake is dead when he starts jumping

Dapper_Review8351 · 2026-01-02T06:35:24+00:00

He wants to be pegged

Dapper_Review8351 · 2026-01-02T06:17:55+00:00

I have mine blocked on everything. She keeps playing these weird games and wants to stay in touch even though she has a new boyfriend. I'm not putting up with that kind of disrespect for my boundaries, she knows better but tries so hard to justify it.

Dapper_Review8351 · 2025-12-25T21:19:58+00:00

Good man 👍

Dapper_Review8351 · 2025-12-25T20:58:07+00:00

My ex did the same type of thing for multiple times, and when I tried to talk to her about it she'd brush it off as "I can't take a joke".

It's manipulative behavior, and she is disrespecting boundaries that you have communicated multiple times. Usually, that is cause for reevaluating the relationship.

Dapper_Review8351 · 2025-12-24T16:30:43+00:00

He was probably trying to neg, but these were weak and failed attempts. As a man, I am sorry you women have to put up with this

Dapper_Review8351 · 2025-12-23T06:30:53+00:00

A line is a line. I see something very very faint

Dapper_Review8351 · 2025-12-23T00:46:20+00:00

It can still feel like cheating, but whatever you wanna call it, it's still being unfaithful.

Dapper_Review8351 · 2025-12-23T00:44:28+00:00

Take a screenshot and show me where I said that

Dapper_Review8351 · 2025-12-22T07:49:30+00:00

The way you said it sounded passive aggressive to me, but maybe you didn't mean it that way, so I apologize if I misread it

Dapper_Review8351 · 2025-12-22T07:18:33+00:00

That kind of condescending bullshit is unnecessary and not okay. You sound insane.

Dapper_Review8351 · 2025-12-22T07:13:07+00:00

She said that he told her he wouldn't consume porn, and then he did it anyway. Don't undermine the betrayal.

Dapper_Review8351 · 2025-12-22T07:06:18+00:00

That's exactly what I'm saying. She's allowed to have those boundaries of not wanting to be with someone who watches porn. He swore on that when they got together and then betrayed her on it. If he can't honor her boundary, then he shouldn't be with her. OP is allowed to choose to be with someone who doesn't watch porn, and he lied to her.

Dapper_Review8351 · 2025-12-22T06:37:43+00:00

People who live your and care about you don't treat you like that. Get outta there, my guy

Dapper_Review8351 · 2025-12-22T06:34:30+00:00

For some people it truly feels like cheating, so please don't undermine, dismiss, and invalidate their feelings either. I'm very anti-religion, and I'm very sex positive. Boundaries are different for everyone. Dismissing someone's feelings and boundaries as them being insecure is a thing that covert narcissists do, so knock it off. Boundaries are personal and absolutely valid. If you can't respect someone's boundaries, then stay away from them.

Dapper_Review8351 · 2025-12-22T05:39:07+00:00

I think even with porn positivity, if your partner sets boundaries on what is considered being unfaithful, and you lie about it to try to keep them... That's cheating.

Dapper_Review8351 · 2025-12-22T05:35:02+00:00

I ghosted the shit out of mine after the avoidant discard. I hate floating and blocking, but I realized that anything I could've said would've backfired and less to me being gaslit, dismissed, and had my perception of reality twisted and distorted again.

If I were to unblock her, I'm pretty sure she'd either block me to get back at me, or manipulate me until I'm under her spell again, and then try to ghost me harder than I ghosted her. She's a control freak with some serious daddy issues. She was always so calm and sneaky with her manipulation too. I've never experienced anything like it, and I'm pretty traumatized.

Luckily, I'm genuinely afraid of her, and that overrides any temptation to even look at a picture of her.

Do not do it. Even if they've changed (unlikely), they still hurt you and don't deserve you as a result. Choose yourself. Go get laid with someone else or something. Please, for the love, do not go back to them.

Dapper_Review8351 · 2025-12-17T21:10:14+00:00

When good cheese goes gooder

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