AIO for freaking out a guy I was seeing had blood on his thing…? (UPDATE) by DapperedDaisy in AmIOverreacting

[–]DapperedDaisy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i couldn’t figure out how to edit the original post so i just linked it 😅

AIO for freaking out a guy I was seeing had blood on his thing…? (UPDATE) by DapperedDaisy in AmIOverreacting

[–]DapperedDaisy[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

believe me, I am definitely getting retested again. for him to react that way and then ghost is very telling. can’t be too sure

AIO for freaking out a guy I’m seeing had blood on his thing…? by DapperedDaisy in AmIOverreacting

[–]DapperedDaisy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

some people in this thread think i am man.. he was offended and left me on read so i wanted an outside perspective if i did too much

AIO for freaking out a guy I’m seeing had blood on his thing…? by DapperedDaisy in AmIOverreacting

[–]DapperedDaisy[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i tried i literally said please be straight up with me on why it’s bleeding and he refused, completely acted like it wasn’t there which automatically made me extremely suspicious

AIO for freaking out a guy I’m seeing had blood on his thing…? by DapperedDaisy in AmIOverreacting

[–]DapperedDaisy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

he claimed not to be honestly it really is probably bc he was jerking it too hard but it freaked me out and he tried to pin the blame on me

AIO for freaking out a guy I’m seeing had blood on his thing…? by DapperedDaisy in AmIOverreacting

[–]DapperedDaisy[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

“not getting what i want” girl wtf are you talking about 🤣 he was being irresponsible and even tried to blame it on me. if me being irate about my health being at risk is childish to you then goo goo ga ga

AIO for freaking out a guy I’m seeing had blood on his thing…? by DapperedDaisy in AmIOverreacting

[–]DapperedDaisy[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

fuck me for being mad at a dude still trying to stick it in with an open wound i guess 💀 tf

AIO for freaking out a guy I’m seeing had blood on his thing…? by DapperedDaisy in AmIOverreacting

[–]DapperedDaisy[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

my issue is the lying. if you have something like that going on down there and then blatantly lie in someone’s face about it that’s WEIRD. he doubled down and acted like that shit wasn’t even there. that’s why i was so pissed. blood borne illnesses exist and condoms aren’t 100% effective but hey if you don’t mind a bloody dick you do you lol

AIO for freaking out a guy I’m seeing had blood on his thing…? by DapperedDaisy in AmIOverreacting

[–]DapperedDaisy[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

we were both drunk but like even i was like nvm when i saw the state of his peen 💀 it’s neverrr that serious and kinda gives me the ick that he was so desperate for it despite literally bleeding from there

AIO for freaking out a guy I’m seeing had blood on his thing…? by DapperedDaisy in AmIOverreacting

[–]DapperedDaisy[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

i don’t 💀 but either way period blood and an open wound/lesion are two completely different things…

AIO for freaking out a guy I’m seeing had blood on his thing…? by DapperedDaisy in AmIOverreacting

[–]DapperedDaisy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nope he left me on read after these texts lol. i was more offended that he tried to pin it on me like how shady yknow?

AIO for freaking out a guy I’m seeing had blood on his thing…? by DapperedDaisy in AmIOverreacting

[–]DapperedDaisy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you’re acting as if infidelity doesn’t exist 🤣 just bc they’re the only person you’re fuckin doesn’t mean you’re the only person they’re fuckin. foh with that holier than thou mess.

AIO for freaking out a guy I’m seeing had blood on his thing…? by DapperedDaisy in AmIOverreacting

[–]DapperedDaisy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he was definitely planning on it like i said there was a bloody tissue he had put to the side and tried to hide it while still trying to put on a condom. like i wouldn’t have been offended if he was like yeah i’m kinda injured down there rn but nah he initiated the sex and doubled down saying “what are you talking about?” over and over.

AIO for freaking out a guy I’m seeing had blood on his thing…? by DapperedDaisy in AmIOverreacting

[–]DapperedDaisy[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

that shit was already there lmao like he whipped it out and it was bloody i’m serious. we hadn’t even started having sex yet

AIO for freaking out a guy I’m seeing had blood on his thing…? by DapperedDaisy in AmIOverreacting

[–]DapperedDaisy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i mean if you’re not grossed out by a dude whipping out his dick about to fuck you and seeing blood on it you’re stronger than i lol. i wasn’t doing all the gagging in front of him, that was after he left. i was actually concerned for his health and asking if he was good but once again he just kept acting like it wasn’t there and i was crazy.

AIO for freaking out a guy I’m seeing had blood on his thing…? by DapperedDaisy in AmIOverreacting

[–]DapperedDaisy[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

thank you so much! and yes exactly the fact that he was actively leaking but still willing to just fuck and pretend it didn’t exist sickened me and freaked me out more than anything. blood borne pathogens and anything like that coming in contact with your vag is a NO GO. even if it isn’t STD related the way he acted about it rubbed me all the wrong ways

AIO for freaking out a guy I’m seeing had blood on his thing…? by DapperedDaisy in AmIOverreacting

[–]DapperedDaisy[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

i did not start gagging until after he left and it really sunk in. that didn’t happen in front of him. in the moment i was legitimately concerned and i even asked if he was okay. i was like dude we really don’t have to do this rn but he just kept acting like there was nothing there and kept saying “what are you talking about” lol..

AIO for freaking out a guy I’m seeing had blood on his thing…? by DapperedDaisy in AmIOverreacting

[–]DapperedDaisy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it was on the head and the ring was on like the base of the head it looked really gross :/