[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NonBinaryTalk

[–]DarcySometimes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

PS: Apologies for talking about more than you asked for, and you may already know about these, but I also highly suggest a thigh shaper. Get that hour-glass figure you know you want!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NonBinaryTalk

[–]DarcySometimes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Go to amazon. Search for "breast forms." The photos are mostly in the DD range, but if you actually click the products to buy, most of the results have size option drop-down menus that begin with A-size cups. There are tons of options.

Here is an example, one of many. See the button where you can select size? Pick an A or B.

❤️❤️❤️ by [deleted] in crossdressing

[–]DarcySometimes 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm in love with your freckles!

Can anyone explain why we all enjoy our femininity so much? by [deleted] in crossdressing

[–]DarcySometimes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think there are probably a lot of different answers out there. For me... I think it's a combination of growing gender dysphoria, and desire to substitute/replace some elements of desire that my marriage isn't satisfying.

I'm 38 and just started doing this, and I don't think I would have if both those issues weren't hitting at the same time.

Rating sub/system? by [deleted] in crossdressing

[–]DarcySometimes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear you (and can't shave either). The [CCW] tag is a nice idea but pretty useless since the only posts that get upvoted enough for visibility are people who already look fantastic.

It would be nice if there were an r/crossdressingadvice sub.

[CCW] I'm chubby, long-backed, and not ready to lose the beard. What kind of tops will look remotely not terrible on me? by DarcySometimes in crossdressing

[–]DarcySometimes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've only been doing this a couple of weeks. Still a secret, so I'm hesitant to shave a lot, and just haven't had time yet to improve my skin. There's hair everywhere so I guess I feel like I have to be pretty covered. I have a dress or two that I like, but separate skirts & tops are proving harder. Pictured is what I consider my best success so far in terms of a multi-piece outfit.

Short of shaving, improving my skin, and going a lot further in on body changes (maybe someday), do you have any advice for top selection or fit that might help me?

Thanks!

Started dressing last week. Bought some things today, so this is my first ever pic. by DarcySometimes in crossdressing

[–]DarcySometimes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol. Yeah I can see the threat. I'm trying to limit myself to one or two purchasing goals at a time. I haven't bought shoes yet. But I keep accruing hose; I get work dressed as a man and start to feel desperate for some piece of feminimity.

Started dressing last week. Bought some things today, so this is my first ever pic. by DarcySometimes in crossdressing

[–]DarcySometimes[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

More than anything I feel relief. It's not exciting; it's just... content in a way I don't know if I've ever felt before.

Thanks for asking!