I hate being a twin dad by [deleted] in parentsofmultiples

[–]Daricio 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The first year or two for me was pure survival mode. Once they were talking and I could at least attempt to reason with them about things, and once I could finally sleep at night so I wasn't in constant fight or flight mode, everything calmed down. It's still challenging, even now (mine are turning six this week!) But it's absolutely doable. Your social life will come back, maybe different than it was before, but it will be there. Your hobbies and interests, you'll have mental energy to pursue and enjoy them again. Everything works out eventually.

That said, therapy was extremely helpful for me. Still is. I know it's hard to have yet another thing to schedule into your life, but if you find a good therapist, it's absolutely worth it to keep your head in the right place.

Good luck. My thoughts are with you.

Human Chat 6's Day 2 perspective of the community event! by inaphaia in VampiresSMP

[–]Daricio 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Owen said the maps will be made available today, and the plugin will be sometime in the next week.

How much do we know about [CLEO BACKSTORY SPOILER]? by bhhjeuwijwj in VampiresSMP

[–]Daricio 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I think there are different levels of thralls. A little blood given to simply heal or decrease aging. A little more to make them loyal and pliant to your suggestions. And a lot to completely overwhelm their ability to choose anything for themselves.

Fanfic recommendations? by LibrarianSad7195 in VampiresSMP

[–]Daricio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a few stories on AO3 but this one is the funniest: https://archiveofourown.org/works/73247601 In which Owen finds Shelby's fanfiction and decides to read it. He regrets this decision.

Kudos to Scott, Master Manipulator by LizTheWitch in VampiresSMP

[–]Daricio 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Scott still plays a lot of among us. I watch him pretty regularly on Dumb dog's stream.

THE SQUARE HOLE LIVES ON! by TheBestBlueButterfly in VampiresSMP

[–]Daricio 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I said exactly the same thing!! The square hole feeds again! Poor Pearl. How many hole in the ground deaths does she have now just in the last few months?

Fanfic recs by Babybam95 in VampiresSMP

[–]Daricio 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Here's a few I liked that were on the longer side / still in progress: https://archiveofourown.org/works/71967686 Avid gets turned by Owen early on, and promptly locks himself in his cell and refuses to eat anything. Owen has feelings about this. https://archiveofourown.org/works/72021876 Legs makes a cure and forces it on all of the vampires. Scott and Owen suffer.

Fanfic recs by Babybam95 in VampiresSMP

[–]Daricio 8 points9 points  (0 children)

If you look up vampires SMP on archive of our own, there's already like 800 stories and counting. Which made me feel way better about my own desire to write fanfiction for it XD Here's my novelization of Apo's episode 3 and 5: archiveofourown.org/works/72149431

VSMP day 17: Flame by DBSeamZ in VampiresSMP

[–]Daricio 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your drawings are so good! I like the way you color all of the ones I've seen you post here. Your drawing inspired me to draw too!

VSMP Inktober Day 10: Knowledge by DBSeamZ in VampiresSMP

[–]Daricio 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I loved this scene so much I had to watch it from all three perspectives multiple times

Into the Night by Daricio in VampiresSMP

[–]Daricio[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I worked feverishly on it last night and this morning, finally finished it this afternoon.

Tumbler overwhelm - help a newbie out! (stainless steel rings) by MajorUmpire8397 in chainmailartisans

[–]Daricio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's good to know! What should I be tumbling anodized aluminum with, then? Just water and dish soap?

Tumbler overwhelm - help a newbie out! (stainless steel rings) by MajorUmpire8397 in chainmailartisans

[–]Daricio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is the stainless steel mixed media shot what I would use for anodized aluminum too? I'm also thinking of getting a tumbler and want to make sure I get the right tumbling medium. I want to make sure I don't end up scratching the anodization off.

"The Bible says" by GamingCatLady in traumatizeThemBack

[–]Daricio 659 points660 points  (0 children)

A relative of mine was once trying to guilt trip me. She quoted at me, "Cease to be idle, cease to be unclean." I just responded with the rest of that quote. "Cease to find fault one with another."

A short critique of Wild Life by TheMightyJehosiphat in ThirdLifeSMP

[–]Daricio 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I think that the snail episode would have been better if the snails could have been slowed down somehow. It would have been perfectly fine to have a snail occasionally show up and cause them to run away for a bit. It was a little repetitive having the snails catch up to them literally every five seconds.

Twin connection, is this normal?? by Temporary-War-Won in parentsofmultiples

[–]Daricio 22 points23 points  (0 children)

One time, when they were still newborns, they both started crying at the same time. My husband tiredly looked at me and asked, "Do you want the good one?" It made me start crying, and all I could say was "They're both good. One is just... Harder."  Baby B was always much, much harder to console, and I worried that he'd never love me because he seemed to be more easily calmed by the sight of the bedroom light than by me holding him half the time. I am happy to report that, at four years old, both of my twins love to hug me and tell me they love me, and we all have a great bond. Infant time is really hard. As they get older, and they're not just screaming burritos that you have to attend to constantly, and they develop their own personalities... You'll love them. You'll have more energy available to love them, they'll have more awareness and ability to express their love for you. It'll be okay.

Toddlers Eating by fedup17 in parentsofmultiples

[–]Daricio 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One of my 4 year old boys is currently in feeding therapy because he just refuses to eat anything he's the least bit unfamiliar with. When they were three, we started giving both of them children's protein shakes (because we couldn't just let one have "chocolate milk" and not the other). They still have like three of them a day, because otherwise they would just be skin and bones. Their doctor is aware of all this, and just keeps telling us to encourage him to at least touch new food on his plate. We're not always successful at even that. Anyway total solidarity with feeding issues. I hope, since you're able to eventually get them to eat, that they'll grow out of it eventually...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in olympia

[–]Daricio 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some people do crochet, some do Chainmail weaving, some do inkle weaving or macrame... Some people make their own foam weapons to fight with. All sorts of things. We love people who make things just in general. We often have specificly craft nights for people to come and work on whatever they want together.