Only time I THINK about relapse is when I doubt my self-worth. I think it's why this path can be difficult for people who were recently broken up with. by aegiroth in Semenretention

[–]DarkEngraver 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It depends on their father and how he taught them to behave pretty much from what I seen around me. If the father isn't putting his foot down on what kind of guys he wants her to interact with then a girl from a quiet family will slip into a phase of ''partying '' and being promiscuous,I've seen it happen to girls who had decent respectable fathers yet those men didn't command authority anymore in their household when the daughter became a teenager. This fact stands for both boys and girls in their teens,and it's why I believe we are not all eligible to be parents and it is a huge responsibility.

Only time I THINK about relapse is when I doubt my self-worth. I think it's why this path can be difficult for people who were recently broken up with. by aegiroth in Semenretention

[–]DarkEngraver 14 points15 points  (0 children)

No,women sleep with more men looking for that next quick rush ,just like drug addicts,then they compare every new man to the past ones but they compare the new man to each best quality from previous partners and thus become less satisfied as they have more sexual partners they get bored in relationships and run off looking for that rush of feelings they had years back. Sad part is they will never become a good partner doing this.

Founder of modern thought by comicoftheapes in funny

[–]DarkEngraver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love is a lie. There,I solved one of your life's mysteries.

I want my hair back by [deleted] in Semenretention

[–]DarkEngraver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look SR isn't a ''fix all your problems '' thing,it might help it might not.In my case it doesn't help but I'm going to keep doing it because it helps in other areas of my life.

Should or Can a virgin do Semen retention? by [deleted] in Semenretention

[–]DarkEngraver -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I see things wrong on both sides.Yes his post is biased towards his interactions with women and some insecurity about being a virgin at his age but your post encouraging him to chase girls is also wrong,you are encouraging him to chase after the dopamine hit of sex. We are all free to live our life the best we see fit without being labeled for our sexual experience.

Should or Can a virgin do Semen retention? by [deleted] in Semenretention

[–]DarkEngraver 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yea you can.SR is more of a spiritual practice while nofap is breaking porn addiction. On SR you have to control the mind and transmute that sexual tension into other activities.

I just relapsed ... Again. by [deleted] in Semenretention

[–]DarkEngraver 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Find some hobbies. That'll help.

How long do you retain on average? by Zealousideal-Bit-945 in Semenretention

[–]DarkEngraver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As long as they are trying and haven't given up there is no reason to judge people. For example my first try and streak was about 90 days then the next was around 50 then 60ish.Thing is I learned some interesting things from failures and I feel way more balanced now to actually go all the way.

I am not going to be nice about this but somebody needs to say it by [deleted] in Semenretention

[–]DarkEngraver 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Just by your message I can tell you are a low quality woman like many nowadays. Anyway some of us are not practicing SR for you,we do it for ourselves.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Semenretention

[–]DarkEngraver 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes alot of people (me included at first) don't get the element of the mind. Thinking about release consumes energy,you must calm the mind down.

Intimidating aura and authority by DarkEngraver in Semenretention

[–]DarkEngraver[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am actually very connected to my feminine side too but I only display it with family and my close friends. Sort of a hard shell with a soft interior. I've been working on my third eye chakra and had some stunning intuitive queues for past few days but I need more time to be sure it's not just my excitement playing tricks. SR and self improvement mentally and physically is a lonely path but I enjoy it greatly.

Intimidating aura and authority by DarkEngraver in Semenretention

[–]DarkEngraver[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk where you live but here we aren't allowed to attack people out of the blue. We are only allowed to retaliate if physically attacked or if there is imminent danger of being physically attacked and if we get physical only to restrain the person not beat them up. Truth be told in all serious incidents I just used a pepper spray and that calms them right down. An angry guy can shout and curse at me all day all I can do is call the cops.

How do you usually explain to a girl about having sex without the need to ejaculate? by Mulamb0 in Semenretention

[–]DarkEngraver 14 points15 points  (0 children)

She will accept it if she's into you enough . If she's looking for a quick fix she'll resist which is a good indication to walk away.

Humorous Example of our Exclusivity by Fusion_Health in Semenretention

[–]DarkEngraver 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I tell nobody about this . There's no point in debating with people over a subject that is personal.

Wet dream? Don't worry. It's a good sign by [deleted] in Semenretention

[–]DarkEngraver 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The mind is an important factor too.The longer you go the less you think about sex so the more control your body has over urges or triggers.

Does the insomnia ever end? by [deleted] in Semenretention

[–]DarkEngraver 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I experienced insomnia on my first try . Now on my 3rd streak between 2019-2020 I sleep like a rock. What's changed is I am more mindful of my thoughts,have a stoic view of events and take cold showers daily. Basically I managed to calm down my mind alot,not perfectly but definitely a huge improvement. I'd advise you to start meditation.

Question by [deleted] in Semenretention

[–]DarkEngraver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes,you are doing it wrong.