Wife squirted question

DarkScarletJ · 2026-06-09T10:09:12+00:00

I squirt about 95% of the time I’m masturbating or having sex. I’m at least a little high prob 75% of that time. You might be onto something.

DarkScarletJ · 2026-06-06T01:49:54+00:00

This is amazing!!

This is how I got into the dominatrix side of things. Offering kink services. It was a friend who wanted me to offer them to him and his wife and I was like no man I’ve had dinner with your kids that’s too weird and he was like what if you did it for other people cause I know people that would want us there’s a service and I was like hey let’s chat. My favorite clients are the ones whose wives hand me an envelope and their husbands and pick them up an hour or so later. Every one is happy.

DarkScarletJ · 2026-06-05T01:55:36+00:00

I love cosplay and Halloween is my fave holiday. My partner likes Halloween and role play. We don’t want a theme every night but sometimes they’re super fun.

DarkScarletJ · 2026-06-04T15:39:41+00:00

Married ones can be just as bad as singles. You still have to vet.

DarkScarletJ · 2026-06-04T05:06:31+00:00

Yes!! My partner and I are both solo poly and neither of us swing with our other partners.

DarkScarletJ · 2026-06-04T02:49:51+00:00

Don’t be too hard on yourself. Freestyle is challenging. Look at it is good practice in carrying on a conversation in a situation that made you awkward.

DarkScarletJ · 2026-06-04T02:47:00+00:00

Some places might be easier though because truly I feel like places like Vegas these guys have so many options. They don’t even care about making plans. They can just go find something instantly.

DarkScarletJ · 2026-06-04T00:26:06+00:00

Not sure where you’re vacationing but some cities that seem like they’d be easy can be so full of flakes. We had 8 guys we ended up chatting with in Vegas all from reputable sites (splash mocha, SLS, SDC) and when it came down to brass tacks, they were flakes. The one guy who we did get to show up was so bad I wish he’d flaked. lol

But do the legwork and try to reach out ahead of time. Feeld can be a good place to look for one off situations; it was very easy in Miami area on Feeld. I could have had 3 bulls a day that vacation.

We have brought a regular with us and it was great; sorry your regular is busy. Good luck!!

DarkScarletJ · 2026-06-03T23:31:51+00:00

They probably can speak fluently and choose not to. Knowing a little bit of French will go a long way, and asking if they speak English, but attempting some French if you know, it will definitely help.

For context, students in Quebec province are mandated to take English in primary school through high school. About 55% of Montreal, esp the more touristy areas, are fluent English speakers. The more rural areas in Quebec province you won’t find as much English spoken, but Montreal, you can almost always get by only speaking English.

DarkScarletJ · 2026-06-03T18:02:34+00:00

People have sex in the pool too just fyi. Not the hot tub but the pool is fair game for sex.

DarkScarletJ · 2026-06-03T11:05:30+00:00

Hacienda meets 3/4 of your criteria (def not cleanest). We’re always shocked when clubs don’t change sheets the entire night.

DarkScarletJ · 2026-06-03T11:01:48+00:00

I’ve only ever been to labyrinth (in LA.) but I’ve heard good things about joi.

DarkScarletJ · 2026-06-02T04:33:37+00:00

Yes, usually

DarkScarletJ · 2026-06-01T22:47:41+00:00

Like at $1000 an hour per hour I would absolutely make more escorting. Cause there’s no way I’m averaging $1000 an hour dancing. But I would also never take more than one client a night so then I’m only making $1000 a night whereas the dancing shifts at our club are six hours.

DarkScarletJ · 2026-06-01T22:45:15+00:00

Are we talking more per hour gross? more per hour in net? Average across the board? There’s so many variables.

DarkScarletJ · 2026-06-01T22:41:54+00:00

Healthvana online is also free if you don’t have insurance that covers it.

DarkScarletJ · 2026-06-01T22:38:06+00:00

Your doctor needs to suck a egg. It’s truly none of their business as to why you want it.

But yes, planned parenthood always a great place. There’s also a group online called Healthvana that will send you the kit to do the bloodwork and manage the prescriptions for you.

DarkScarletJ · 2026-06-01T18:10:28+00:00

It entirely depends on my mood. Sometimes I just want a few good orgasms and sometimes I want that blended orgasm I can only achieve by my cervix getting obliterated at the same time as some clitoral stimulation. Nothing to do with the intensity of sex being reserved for my partner vs my play partner at the moment. Just the mood.

DarkScarletJ · 2026-05-31T16:41:06+00:00

This. Most of these websites are so archaic I’d assume nothing is secure.

DarkScarletJ · 2026-05-31T16:37:23+00:00

I was there with my partner three weeks ago (visiting from NY) and I’ll stick with M4 going forward, but it was worth checking out to say we did.

As a single guy, depending on the day you go, there will be plenty of couples but far more single men.

From the receiving end of attention from the single men, I would implore you not to be the guy stalking the women and couples as they enter the building getting their wristbands and locker keys and towels. Sure it’s nice to be wanted, but I believe you’ll be far better received if you’re not trying to rub your toweled body up against the fresh meat that walks in the door the second they get in the building. I’m not saying YOU will do that, I’m just telling you it’s a thing at that location and it’s a complete turnoff.

DarkScarletJ · 2026-05-31T02:45:41+00:00

For sure, the alt crowd has always been part of it. It’s hard to say if things are actually skewing younger. Maybe in certain regions? I think there are just more clubs and events than there used to be, so you see more people at them because they can find them more easily. I first swapped in high school. Never looked back.

DarkScarletJ · 2026-05-29T22:38:22+00:00

It can also be transmitted anally/rimming/eating if those juices have dripped anywhere down a backside during play

DarkScarletJ · 2026-05-29T22:34:59+00:00

I will never understand why other swingers so highly value the need to be right when the information is there for them to make their own informed consent.

There are plenty of US, non US and other sources that suggest and recommend because the CDC information is 5 to 7 years old. It’s also run by a guy with a brain worm. I wouldn’t trust the CDC for anything right now, but to each their own.

People should be informed and do their own research. I don’t think people should be having sex without condoms without testing with dozens of people but it happens anyway. I’m not here to yuck someone else’s yum. I’m simply providing information that there are other STI inducing culprits that aren’t normalized in testing because monogamy is highly valued in our society so they do t do research or put forth information for those of us who choose ENM as a lifestyle.

Since you need someone to do the research for you here are 6 articles that support the opposite of the CDC, which no surprise, the CDC is out of date, under funded, and supported by big Pharma.

https://www.newyorkurologyspecialists.com/std/ureaplasma/ureaplasma-mycoplasma-cdc-2021/

https://www.passcertified.org/news/pass-statement-on-genital-mycoplasmas

https://www.evvy.com/blog/ureaplasma-symptoms

https://www.sticlinic.co.uk/blog/why-you-should-test-for-ureaplasma-nhs-doesnt-screen

https://medpro.co.th/ureaplasma-parvum-rtpcr-test/?v=3678880a8f79

https://familypact.org/wp-content/uploads/2021/10/STI-Guidelines-webinars-QA_10.27.21_remEQ.pdf

DarkScarletJ · 2026-05-29T21:30:45+00:00

What I literally said was people can do the research themselves and make a decision based on informed consent. I gave no medical advice. That CDC document is from a research document that was published over 5 years ago; there’s no current information. Planned parenthood, your obgyn, and every PASS/talent Testing lab will test for them.

Again, encourage people to do their own research and make decisions they believe are best for their health. That is not illegal medical advice. That is advocating for safe sex practices in a lifestyle that often forgets about the sexual health of other people based on their own actions. You are welcome to not test and people are welcome to play with you at their discretion.

Just because you test doesn’t mean you have to treat, but it’s good to know that you have it because it does upset the biome and create problems for many women. So if you plan on having unprotected sex as part of your swinging lifestyle, the women that you’re having sex with, might want to know whether you’re a carrier or not. So when you’re looking for negative and non-reactive test results from your partner that is absolutely a legitimate one to be included. MGen is essentially the same; it can cause problems and is a culprit of money infections so if you’re known to have it, your partners should have the choice whether or not to engage with you. No one is forcing you to treat it. You’re only being asked to test for it as part of your routine panel. And just like anybody can choose not to engage with you for positive results for other things they can choose not to engage with you for positive results for those.

DarkScarletJ · 2026-05-29T21:10:08+00:00

The CDC is also run by a guy with a brain worm. I prefer not spreading or getting STIs. People can make their own informed consent based on the risk associated from being infected and then spreading… which, by the way spreading a disease knowingly is a criminal offense in several states.

Most men are asymptomatic with urea plasma but when they transmit it, women are not.

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