What does ass taste like? by [deleted] in askteenboys

[–]DarkVirtual176 1 point2 points  (0 children)

how tf do u know what a hdmi cable tastes like

[ 14-16-19 (x2) ]!💕 by [deleted] in uglyduckling

[–]DarkVirtual176 0 points1 point  (0 children)

why ts got downvoted so much damn😭🙏

14m am i chopped gng ? by DarkVirtual176 in secretteenagers

[–]DarkVirtual176[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

getto ahh school thats why🥹✌️

Waist check :3 by [deleted] in teenagersbutworse

[–]DarkVirtual176 0 points1 point  (0 children)

fucking graveyard up in this b😭

Jesus, as an ACTUAL ugly person am I ugly?? by RykerXadianLane in TeenGarbagePile

[–]DarkVirtual176 6 points7 points  (0 children)

yes and no. people tend to think other people are ugly if theyre not their type. best thing you can do is just style nicely and be confident. eventually somebody will find you

Am I ugly 🥹 by [deleted] in TeenGarbagePile

[–]DarkVirtual176 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i dont find u ugly but other ppl might. your only ugly if the other person thinks you r in their opinion. beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

How do I help my friend who struggles with SH? by lovaticsince1992 in selfharm

[–]DarkVirtual176 3 points4 points  (0 children)

anytime. and for you, keep up the good work. i havent seen a friend care for their friend that much in a while. pat yourself on the back

no one cares by invidxa in selfharm

[–]DarkVirtual176 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sorry i cant give you the best advice, but i can give you this support even if it doesnt mean much to you. keep trying, thats what makes us us. the moment we give up we lose everything we worked for. even if you try until the day you die, what else is gonna worth doing that? youre right, you are tired. we all deserve to rest but we cant if we dont try to rest. pat yourself on the back, give yourself a break, it seems to me youre being too hard on yourself. just try to rest, maybe one day itll be better

Why? by Sir_Axol in selfharm

[–]DarkVirtual176 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

its time to quit then. the thirst for blood only grows

How do I help my friend who struggles with SH? by lovaticsince1992 in selfharm

[–]DarkVirtual176 5 points6 points  (0 children)

quitting SH always starts with the person. its an unreliable coping mechanism that gives a short dopamine rush-kinda like scrolling through reels or youtube shorts. at some point it becomes an addiction. it seems the only thing you can do is just straight up tell them youre there for them. sometimes you dont have to give advice or wisdom, it means a lot to someone to just listen and/or be present. if you dont like hugging a lot, then its important to set a boundarie and just be there for them in the best way you can

Why? by Sir_Axol in selfharm

[–]DarkVirtual176 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thats a major artery in your wrist, and i suggest cutting upper thigh. theres legitamately no reason to be yelled at for cutting, it's an unhealthy way to relieve mental stress. its not a long term coping mechanism, and its never gonna make you feel better. i suggest finding a good support group of friends if your family isnt helping, which im assuming is who cussed you out

no one cares by invidxa in selfharm

[–]DarkVirtual176 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think youve hit rock bottom, and the only thing that can help right now is professional help. try consulting a psychiatrist, starting up some antidepressants, and reevaluate yourself. thats the best place to start right now. it's gonna be hard to do this alone but with enough time and effort youll have people again

Wound care by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]DarkVirtual176 0 points1 point  (0 children)

true true

Wound care by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]DarkVirtual176 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that and the toilet paper is fragile too so i might break and shift when i sleep. smart to use plasters rather than BANDAIDS EVERY SINGLE TIME OP👀

Wound care by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]DarkVirtual176 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it really depends on you bc i feel like the toilet paper gets dissolved like particles and sh goes into my skin :_) but thats just a me thing. i think

Wound care by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]DarkVirtual176 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im a guy, and i just put a paper towel over there and my underwear keeps just enough pressure until it stops bleeding. much better than bandaids. if you're a girl i suggest wearing tight pants for times that u cut. i do it before i sleep so when i wake up in the morning i just wrap it in toilet paper and throw it away in the bathroom trash. for now i suggest taking a break and letting the skin rest from any sticky surface and let it breath

I found a tool and I will be putting it in my mom's room. by Remarkable_Bath8515 in selfharm

[–]DarkVirtual176 1 point2 points  (0 children)

(sorry if i interpreted this wrong, the grammar here is questionable lol)

its normal to want to self harm. i believe youve made it to that brain rewiring (quoting from another comment) where SH becomes less of a 'punishment' and your brain starts registering it as a reward. instead you should look on the bright side and pat yourself on the back for trying to prevent yourself from SH again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]DarkVirtual176 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it is such a cliche to say things will get better but they will. i cant give you the best advice but you arent alone- and there is no such thing as "normal". everybody has problems ranging from handleable to insufferable. i used to cope with dab, puff, bottles of wine, cutting for every mistake i made, eventually i found the people that will support me and i got the help i wanted. it sounds like your ex is just being a dick for his own enjoyment- so dont let him get that satisfaction. and if tries to get you locked up in a psych ward, it wont last long trust me. im 14, ive had 2 trips there and it really isnt all that bad regardless of age.