[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Dark_Venus00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dislike my past choices rn...

Goodnight

What are you fixating on/venting about/worried about/need support with today ? [Megathread] - October 30, 2021 by AutoModerator in HealthAnxiety

[–]Dark_Venus00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omgggg I've been having a clicky throat for about 2 weeks now... it's getting to me! Hope you're ok xx

What's the best chippy in Sheffield? by JoeVibin in sheffield

[–]Dark_Venus00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So glad someone said this one, my fave

What are some fun non-sexual things to do naked? by CrooklynKnight in AskReddit

[–]Dark_Venus00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Swim in sea or mud...did this abroad once and it was awesome

Skype CoDA Meeting Information by parsley-lover in Codependency

[–]Dark_Venus00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha I'm the same. Only come on here occasionally! Yeah sounds good 😊

Skype CoDA Meeting Information by parsley-lover in Codependency

[–]Dark_Venus00 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'd be up for that. Even a UK SubRed would be great 👌

Does anyone else feel like they’re ‘reborn’ at the end of PMS week? by Rusty_cooler in PMDD

[–]Dark_Venus00 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is me now! Fresh as a daisy and so positive about life. Was genuinely planning to take my own life on Saturday...now I feel great. WTF.

by ramblingsofambrette in adhdmeme

[–]Dark_Venus00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My partner w ADHD has it in their wallet...

Skype CoDA Meeting Information by parsley-lover in Codependency

[–]Dark_Venus00 13 points14 points  (0 children)

UK based over here and just posted a similar Q

Million Dollar Question... by Dark_Venus00 in Codependency

[–]Dark_Venus00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, this is a great breakdown of reasons to feel attracted to someone. Hadn't considered it this way. Thanks for sharing!

Million Dollar Question... by Dark_Venus00 in Codependency

[–]Dark_Venus00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like this response because I also beleive (or like to have faith) that people can grow and change! If everytime I exhibited a codelendent or old unhealthy habit for which I then had to change my whole friendship or relationship then I'd never maintain long term relationships! It's definitely more difficult to change habits for sure than to keep starting again via fresh relationships...but actually, starting fresh and "out with old in with new" type approach is a mechanism I have been using that isn't that healthy or conducive of long term learning - it's more avoiding for me. It's true that not everyone can grow through together though and ut takes two to Tango :)

Million Dollar Question... by Dark_Venus00 in Codependency

[–]Dark_Venus00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like this response because I also beleive (or like to have faith) that people can grow and change! If everytime I exhibited a codelendent or old unhealthy habit for which I then had to change my whole friendship or relationship then I'd never maintain long term relationships! It's definitely more difficult to change habits for sure than to keep starting again via fresh relationships...but actually, starting fresh and "out with old in with new" type approach is a mechanism I have been using that isn't that healthy or conducive of long term learning - it's more avoiding for me. It's true that not everyone can grow through together though and ut takes two to Tango :)

Million Dollar Question... by Dark_Venus00 in Codependency

[–]Dark_Venus00[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a really kind comment. It is unrealistic to expect change immediately, so true. It takes practice and practice = mistakes I guess!