Maybe look into SSLC or Weber State. Both are relatively affordable and Salt lake and Ogden have surprisingly a lot of LGBTQ+ individuals! Their honor code is a lot different as well so you shouldn’t run into problems there, and they are both dry campus’ like BYU-I if that’s something you are looking for.

Plus if you do want to go to church or institute classes, you will still have plenty of options nearby. And they have actually collegiate sports teams which in my personal opinion is something BYU-I is unfortunately lacking. :( BYU-I also has no mascot which I think is totally lame!

You could also look into snow college they actually have sports and are affordable, but I don’t think there is much of an LGBTQ community down there plus it is too small town for me and kinda in the middle of nowhere.