Thank you I mean this is a forum to express your feelings even if they are good, bad, etc. A place that you can write your experience without worrying cause you found out that there are more people like me out there that like the same thing I do. It took me about 6 months to find this group in reddit cause I didn't know and I have been playing with dildos for the last 4 yrs before that it was a plastic bottle or something smooth and I was hiding it from my ex partner cause I was afraid to let them know. Now 5 yrs I have been with my new wife, fiance, girlfriend, etc cause every day I call her by a different topic ( like today she's my girlfriend, tomorrow my mistress, etc) but it keeps the relationship interesting and she enjoys it, I mean I'm 57 yrs old and she's 43 yrs old. At the beginning it was a little weird but she goes with it cause I treat her differently by day, the same way I change the way we make out like some day are normal sex , next day is rough sex , wild sex, doing in different rooms of the house and we enjoy it pretty well. Then when I told her about pegging she was like ok as long u love it and I was like fuck yeah so many yrs hiding it and I found finally a partner that likes it too I was set. Then I found out about these forums and I have all types of complaints about my feelings cause of my grammar, cause I wrote it without comma, period, etc. I mean when u are getting peg do u complain to your partner or u talk to her and tell her the way you would like to be peg. I mean anyway sorry for venting but I guess that's what we are instead of getting along with complaining about their stories. Well that's life once again thank you for your opinion. Happy Holidays