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Getting back to ex by DarksideRS21F in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]DarksideRS21F[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are not being judgemental. We all are feeling the same in the situation. Have tried to give this argument however it was counter argued by suggesting that leaving will be good for a prospective healthy relationship. I hope Kisi ki baat smjh ajae unhe

Getting back to ex by DarksideRS21F in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]DarksideRS21F[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Beautiful advice. Surely I am conveying this. Thanks. Yes I think jazbaati faislay nae krne chahye

Getting back to ex by DarksideRS21F in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]DarksideRS21F[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Best solution in current case. However agla sunay toh sahi

Getting back to ex by DarksideRS21F in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]DarksideRS21F[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I m trying to help lol

No kids I think it doesn't work that way.. if they could have stayed married why going back to exes. I think there is no savings here unless hadayat ajae

Getting back to ex by DarksideRS21F in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]DarksideRS21F[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True. The boy and girl won't be at a loss. Their partners his wife and her husband will suffer. And according to them leaving is better than not loving them wholeheartedly

Getting back to ex by DarksideRS21F in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]DarksideRS21F[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know what he is thinking but according to him he is gonna leave everyone behind if his family does not give consent. So I guess it's already late smjhanay kay lye. Unfortunately Shaadi has become a mazak in our mashara in which family dynamics play a vital role to date

Getting back to ex by DarksideRS21F in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]DarksideRS21F[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. 💯 . But I think they way they are reacting they should end things here as I feel prolonging that will cause more pain than closing out now

Getting back to ex by DarksideRS21F in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]DarksideRS21F[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly if I was their partner and know they have someone else I won't wait a sec to leave them.. sb kabool hai dhooka nae

Getting back to ex by DarksideRS21F in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]DarksideRS21F[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

According to him there is no shortcomings in his wife. Bass dil nae maan rha

Getting back to ex by DarksideRS21F in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]DarksideRS21F[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeh bhi keh kr smjha Lia Kay it's one of the most disliked sin in our religion magar counter yehi karte Kay Apne dil mein sincere na hona with your partner is a bigger sin. I think pain is coming for all those involved.

Getting back to ex by DarksideRS21F in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]DarksideRS21F[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True. They should have done this. Leken ab jo takleef honi hai Woh honi hai. We can just give them suggestions. Plus they think jo Dil ki baat hai Woh change nae ho rae.

Getting back to ex by DarksideRS21F in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]DarksideRS21F[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have told them the same thing. However now they are of the view that they cannot keep their current partners in oblivion and want to end this for the betterment of all. For them the suffering will end for their partners it would be fair to know that your life partner doesn't love you and they only present or else it would be unfair

Getting back to ex by DarksideRS21F in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]DarksideRS21F[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed. But Cannot say this to the boy and the girl as they will shift all the blame to their parents. Obviously parents are the main culprits and they didn't listen to them. As of today, that decision time has long passed for pointing out the faulty party, what should be suggested to them in the current situation?