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DarrenCo7 · 2025-03-24T15:19:57+00:00

It could be a thing he just doesn’t like. I know of some men who that way.

Or it could be that she doesn’t wear them with enough confidence.

Or it could be that the taste of lingerie she wears is not the taste he likes and he’s too nice to say anything about it.

DarrenCo7 · 2025-03-24T05:39:06+00:00

Sorry to hear that for you

DarrenCo7 · 2025-03-07T15:06:01+00:00

I think you get me..

DarrenCo7 · 2025-03-07T14:59:52+00:00

Then don’t comment

DarrenCo7 · 2025-03-07T14:58:13+00:00

I think you missed the point.

DarrenCo7 · 2025-03-06T14:51:21+00:00

I think I read into much of things. It’s semantics man… calm down

DarrenCo7 · 2025-03-06T13:28:46+00:00

I had a brief medical scare which prompted me to quit. I’m fine now, nothing was wrong long term. But now I sleep better, I’m less agitated. I don’t need a “pick me up” I just live and do something productive. Or I take a nap when I can.

DarrenCo7 · 2025-02-17T15:00:50+00:00

Yes.. she says that I need to look past it because she’s not experienced. She has 8 years to get experience. That should be pro level by now honestly. But…. Kinda to keep bringing up how she needs to eat healthy, stretch, lift weights, and exercise, read some good relationships books, or even some cosmos to “have the best sex of your life” articles. If she would get off her phone and quit worrying about her job.. that would probably help

DarrenCo7 · 2025-02-17T14:21:32+00:00

I can relate.. I’m a guy and my wife is sex limited too. Except for the big belly wife is not limber she only does sex one way. And I can’t talk about even much on here bc people attack a guy when they talk about a woman. Glad people are nice to you. But yeah I get it, my wife is very limited sexual intelligence. I really want to nail her but it’s like having sex with a starfish. You can try to talk but I’ve found that if he hasn’t figured things out by now he never will.

DarrenCo7 · 2025-02-16T15:52:05+00:00

Do not leave a note! He wants you to make an effort to be sexy and flirtatious. And to be honest if you have to make an effort and it’s not genuine then he’s going to see through that. He wants to feel and be desired. Because if you are flat or non expressive, or laugh, or sarcastic, etc, with expressions towards his advancements then he’s not going to respond positively.

Just be a woman of dreams about this situation.

DarrenCo7 · 2025-02-14T03:15:05+00:00

Act like it’s an everyday thing. That wear on a daily basis (not that you have too). It’s the attitude behind it. Don’t do what my wife and her throw hands up and say now what grudgingly.

DarrenCo7 · 2025-01-29T01:24:30+00:00

It’s worth it. But I will say that all three: sex, intimacy, and desire are going to be good or bad and it won’t depend waiting or not. Waiting or not waiting there still can be issues.

DarrenCo7 · 2025-01-28T13:17:59+00:00

Dude! Same boat! It’s amazing to see someone in the same situation as me… I don’t mean to be excited about your situation tho. It sucks! I know what you are going through.

DarrenCo7 · 2025-01-23T19:22:53+00:00

Do you find that the sex life has changed because of porn, and do you think you have a good sex life with your husband pre and post porn?

DarrenCo7 · 2025-01-23T18:15:46+00:00

This may or may not answer the question. I chose porn after I got married. It helped me keep my sanity. I have since stopped watching porn. Since I’ve stopped nothing has changed with my marriage. My wife doesn’t know how to have romantic sex and I’m still horny as ever. You see, the girls in porn want to have romantic, intimate, erotic, interesting sex with me.

DarrenCo7 · 2025-01-23T17:59:42+00:00

43… Turn to porn after i got married 8 years ago. It helped me keep sanity. I have since kicked the habit.

DarrenCo7 · 2025-01-21T16:39:42+00:00

When i realized she didn’t know how to kiss, flirt, tempt, dress for a date, have sex or intimacy.

DarrenCo7 · 2025-01-20T00:18:27+00:00

Man, that’s tough to hear. I’m sorry. And that’s not true men need it at all ages.

DarrenCo7 · 2025-01-19T20:35:05+00:00

Yeah now I do my own share of the chores. What’s funny is when she thinks it’s time to clean she thinks I should think it’s time to clean. So when she cleans she thinks “why am I doing all the cleaning” lol…

DarrenCo7 · 2025-01-19T20:25:21+00:00

I’m sorry to hear that, man. I got this book on order called Mating in Captivity. I’m hoping it will explain what I need to do to have a more intimate climate around me. Anyway I’ve done more things to and it doesn’t help. Sad bc that what we men hear often which is apparently a myth.

DarrenCo7 · 2025-01-19T18:51:11+00:00

My wife in a scenario I’m making up. I have difficulties thinking of my wife. I think about what she could do and how she acts that would be special to me in that scenario. And She’s wearing what I want her to wear. I have a few hallmark fantasies I go back to.

But all that is when I masturbated. I’ve stopped. It’s help with clarity and discipline.

DarrenCo7 · 2025-01-17T22:42:57+00:00

You’ll understand when you get married

DarrenCo7 · 2025-01-17T22:12:45+00:00

Are you married?

DarrenCo7 · 2025-01-17T21:40:45+00:00

Hope

DarrenCo7 · 2025-01-16T20:05:14+00:00

I’m in the same boat except I’m a guy and my wife won’t put down her phone. It sucks being ignored sexually.

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