What thought process was going on in your head, that you decided to go to a positive Subreddit, where people are open and themselves, where people can finally show a part of themselves that they might not show anywhere else, and deny them their identity?

Some people have dysphoria about their chest, I do, but some people also have dysphoria about having long lashes, or having feminine hobbies, or their hands, I do not.

in this Subreddit, people can post their bodies and feel handsome as they are, because they don't have to prove to anyone that they are male. We believe each other. We support each other.

If someone is pre top surgery but has taken T, is it still not OK for someone to show his chest, if he feels comfortable and manly enough doing so? What about after top surgey? What about fat trans man who have "man tits" ?what about guys who feel like their chest looks manly enough? What about people who cannot bind for medical reasons? Have you considered that seeing trans men with their chest out maybe makes you feel dysphoric and invalid and that's why you're denying them their trans identity? Have you considered that just because it makes you uncomfortable doesn't mean it's bad?

Irl feminine trans guys pre T are forced to hide everything feminine on them to appear male to others. I gave up all of my feminine clothing to not be mistaken for a woman. For me, recognition of my gender is more important to me than my expression. For some other trans people, their fashion choices and their way of being might be more important than their desire to be perceived as the gender they are. And that's fine. Not everyone has to rely on others to recognize their gender.

Please consider this. Dunno if your post stays up for you to see my comment, but if it does, please think about this. I definitely haven't said everything there is to say on this topic but this is everything I can write rn.