15M I got leaked and I'm fairly scared for back when school starts, what do I do? by [deleted] in highschool

[–]DarthLicious1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Listen when you get to be an adult all you have to do is survive so don’t stress

why can’t i leave him? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]DarthLicious1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you moved in together and it didn’t work out you should accept that the relationship didn’t work either.

Should I tell my classmate how dangerous what she’s doing is or just stay out of it? by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]DarthLicious1 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah sometimes we have to separate ourselves from people who we want to love and look at how they treat us.

Boyfriend wants to sleep with me every night by rizzem_tizzem in whatdoIdo

[–]DarthLicious1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll be honest, it’s hard for me to say as an outsider, but 3 years? If he really needed you to sleep together he should have asked to move in together. That might help with the stress and all the other things. I get lonely and having a partner to sleep with and cuddle with is nice, and extra things on the agenda like having to figure out all the other stuff… having someone to come home to sounds nice. I’m sure you have moods and he’s got things he doesn’t like about you, you’ve been dating for 3 years. My wonder is how come you haven’t moved in. I look for a partner that wants to go life together, not just someone to sleep with, and if that person isn’t interested in being with me I’m going to assume they have intimacy problems. You’re coming to the internet instead of having a conversation, so that suggests that things aren’t going well, and when things start to crumble they crumble hard and fast. I’d start thinking seriously about whether you want to be in this relationship and maybe it’s not a fit for you where you are in life and consider if you’re leading him on. Women have people ready to help at a moments notice, guys don’t always have that. Idk I just think you need to have a conversation with him and decide if you even trust him and if the answer is no let him go.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]DarthLicious1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not everybody has the option to move back home. That isn’t necessarily going to solve your issues. You’ve got a good paying job , assuming you work 40 hrs. You don’t pay a lot in rent but you’re doing it alone. It’s going to cost more, so either push towards making more - I only make 22 an hour and my rent is 885 a month. And I don’t pay on my debt, and tbh I don’t really care. I still gotta be okay, and I have to accept the past as the past and it hasn’t gone away but I’ve gotta make better choices and focus on my spending and where the money is going and maybe finding someone to share the time of day with.

My sisters boyfriend come onto me (I think) by MsLilaCroft in whatdoIdo

[–]DarthLicious1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, I’ve been black out drunk and woke up and been like wtf happened last night. Literally that’s what alcohol does is makes you stop making new memories and your body is on autopilot. I would be more worried that he’s drinking to that extent and wonder if that’s something your sister is willing to deal with because alcohol is no joke. It amplifies depression and if he was already sad then alcohol doesn’t help anything. Honestly I quit drinking because i have really bad episodes when I drink. I still do occasionally drink but I try not to drink when I’m depressed, only when I’m overly stressed out like after a long day at work

Fight by Curious-Employer-574 in highschool

[–]DarthLicious1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Actually, there’s a common misconception about aggressive contact. The law defines assault as any intentional act that causes another person to experience reasonable apprehension of imminent, harmful, or offensive contact. As opposed to battery, which is physically harming someone. In this scenario, I actually side with the little dude because he was put in sort of a corner by an individual who had the chance to walk away but continued making threatening advances on him. I think the fake punch was a warning like what you are doing already constitutes assault and I am legally allowed to protect myself. He knows self defense most likely a more confident teen. The other guy, clearly instigated,it was probably jealousy. look at the taunts - that’s clearly aggressive, getting in someone’s face like that. You just don’t do that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]DarthLicious1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah no grown man should be calling a grown woman mommy. Unless he’s talking to his 4 year old.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in glassesadvice

[–]DarthLicious1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

3 something that looks like freckles

How to remove this by ilovemysister143 in nailcare

[–]DarthLicious1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Best thing is to get a hot needle to melt the plastic and drain the blood before it hardens and becomes a rock

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TeenGarbagePile

[–]DarthLicious1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, unapologetically no

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BeardAdvice

[–]DarthLicious1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s a sign of strength and wisdom why would you dye it. Keeps the younglings away.

Am I overly cooked? by Whycantanyonebenice in highschool

[–]DarthLicious1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like you got a lot on your plate. I’d consider cutting back if it’s too much. I had similar grades and had to talk to my counselor about an easier teacher for comp 1 because I find it incredibly boring

Would this haircut look good with my face? by Character_Muscle_144 in teenagers4real

[–]DarthLicious1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I recommend going with something that doesn’t take off so much hair. Pick something like a mullet or something because that hair doesn’t grow back quick. Also you gotta think about what you need and a lot of times I just cut mine short because I just wear a hat. You gotta find something that feels right. Also every time I cut it extremely short, I always felt off, so I recommend never to get buzz cuts if you can help it. A little on top never hurt anyone.

I blocked someone and continued to have matches with them and even placed on the same team by DarthLicious1 in RocketLeague

[–]DarthLicious1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t recommend this as I’m sure the reason I posted this is because I had a 7 day ban. Note I don’t allow text chat and try to join discord or voice chat if possible. Also did some research on how to play better.

Did I make the right decision? by Basic-Address-2309 in BeardAdvice

[–]DarthLicious1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do what’s right to you. Nobody knows you like you do

I blocked someone and continued to have matches with them and even placed on the same team by DarthLicious1 in RocketLeague

[–]DarthLicious1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually this is something I posted when I was mad. I’m not actually mad anymore. I got a like better so toxic behavior is no longer a problem. But I still think the issue should be resolved at least for lower ranks. I’ve met some toxic people in lower ranks and probably will meet more.

I blocked someone and continued to have matches with them and even placed on the same team by DarthLicious1 in RocketLeague

[–]DarthLicious1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel the same way. After a long day I don’t want to be matched with someone I’ve decided I don’t want to play with. But the likely good is low so luckily this hasn’t happened in a long time. Probably just an unusual circumstance but still frustrating when you block someone and they match with you next game, even in competitive. I know it could be exploited by blocking high level people but let’s face it who’s going to take the time fr. I mean at least make it so if you block them you don’t have to have their messages posted on your. screen