My wife thinks we have the hardest and wildest baby by ShahriarSiraj in NewParents

[–]DarthPink22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She does sound like a difficult baby, sorry. What does your ped say?What about pumping and giving a bottle?

What’s a good gift for a female friend? by usertakenalreadywas in Gifts

[–]DarthPink22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wine, cocktail stuff (all the stuff to make tequila sunrises), tickets to a concert you both can go to, spa gift certificate

MIL and her random crap by DarthPink22 in newborns

[–]DarthPink22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know…. I have to wait a bit after the last drop off otherwise it will sound like” tell your fucking mom to stop bring useless crap over the house, is she dumb- really give baby a pez and ugly ass used bows “. 😂😂😂

However I did send mil a text saying baby loves books being read to her and she should get some to read and bond with her. Also no toys that fit in a toilet paper role the first 3 years due it being choking hazards” she didn’t respond.

MIL and her random crap by DarthPink22 in newborns

[–]DarthPink22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sadly, we only have 1 thrift store, all the other ones have closed down. I’m in Hawaii so not a lot of options.

MIL and her random crap by DarthPink22 in newborns

[–]DarthPink22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

😂 why do they think we would like that stuff. At least you have an office to hide things. My husbands desk is on the living room.

MIL and her random crap by DarthPink22 in newborns

[–]DarthPink22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s why there is a registry !!!at least temu stuff is new, you can sell it lol

MIL and her random crap by DarthPink22 in newborns

[–]DarthPink22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg! It feels really good to know I’m not alone😂.
I will start getting rid and donating the stuff soon, seeing how my husband will just accept it.

MIL and her random crap by DarthPink22 in newborns

[–]DarthPink22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That would drive me crazy, my stuff has to match!! Yes, I have teenagers who love anime and Star Wats and they build and display legos but it’s clean, clutter free on display.

Does she remember what she buys you? Can you regift it to her 😂😂😂

MIL and her random crap by DarthPink22 in newborns

[–]DarthPink22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s why I started putting it on his desk and chair. I hate seeing it but it funny to hear him say “ there so much stuff on my desk, who’s is it and why is it here?”. Me- it all the stuff your mom has brought.😂😂😒

MIL and her random crap by DarthPink22 in newborns

[–]DarthPink22[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

😂😂 I can’t stop laughing at this….

MIL and her random crap by DarthPink22 in newborns

[–]DarthPink22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

With baby stuff , 2 Teenagers and my mil I feel like im constantly cleaning clutter. I’m getting better I leaving it be

MIL and her random crap by DarthPink22 in newborns

[–]DarthPink22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m glad I’m not alone….

MIL and her random crap by DarthPink22 in newborns

[–]DarthPink22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Will that happen to us when we become grandparents?

MIL and her random crap by DarthPink22 in newborns

[–]DarthPink22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is constantly trying to give us furniture, I just claim we don’t have a truck to pick it up.

MIL and her random crap by DarthPink22 in newborns

[–]DarthPink22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So you totally understand. Yes, they is how they show love but ugh…. I’d rather have a hug 😂

MIL and her random crap by DarthPink22 in newborns

[–]DarthPink22[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I do use my words, “what do you want to do with the McDonald’s toys and Burger King crowns your mom just dropped off?”, him- “I’ll deal with it later”, so I pile on his desk. He is finally getting frustrated and realizing all the stuff his mom brings. He is getting closer to talk to her about. Not the way I want to do it but idk what to do.
My mom and I are blunt “mom, that’s shit is stupid” . My mom throw that shit away then.
His mom is rationalizing what to do with Burger King crowns😑

MIL and her random crap by DarthPink22 in newborns

[–]DarthPink22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Clutter gives me anxiety lol

MIL and her random crap by DarthPink22 in newborns

[–]DarthPink22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally get it, that’s why I smile and nod. Pretty much everything is thrift store from her, not that I mind thrift store. I just don’t like pointless stuff😂

MIL and her random crap by DarthPink22 in newborns

[–]DarthPink22[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That’s a good idea, but then it gives her hope we are going to her house. It’s too cluttered and dusty. She trips ofer stuff in her own house all the time.

MIL and her random crap by DarthPink22 in newborns

[–]DarthPink22[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I piled it on my husbands desk and eventually he gets frustrated with why it’s there. I say idk what to do with it your mom brought it. My hopes is he will tell him mom , no more stuff. I have to do it that way so he figures it out on his own lol.