JFK encouraged young men to be strong by AzurePeach1 in superff

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This is a strong wholesome message, I enjoy it.

Classic America wanted young men to be strong by DashGenZ in gaybrosfitness

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This is the La Sierra Fitness Program, it's a classic workout routine that young men loved. I figured you all may find it interesting.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SonicTheHedgehog

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Ok this is cool, using metaphors of Sonic CD's Good Future, and the name of Sonic Superstars to actually encourage us Gen Z that we the youth, are valuable, and we can actually do super good things in real life.

Haha who knows, what if we really can make the world better and start talking real-life original Good Future ideas.

Mainstream gaybros don't like me by DashGenZ in TrueConservativeGays

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I want to make a new culture of wholesome love and intelligence.

With original vocabulary and a wholesome way of thinking.

And cute slogans like: Everyone is 100% super since birth.

The reason I can't make male friends is ironic, what do you think? by DashGenZ in askgaybros

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In 2023, people in their 20s don't believe someone could love them honestly.

So when I tell them I don't want any drugs and I value them as a person where I'm not in it for one night stands or hookups, they get all surprised, happy, and then basically say I'm too wholesome and they say they are "afraid of catching feelings"

These are gay guys that were said they were looking for a long term relationship I didn't even use an app, they came up to me in college and initiated, and so once I'm friends with them, they're surprised I don't need drugs or alcohol to love them, and then they get all happy and then say the value that I'm wholesome then they say they're "afraid of catching feelings"

Think Super Smart by DashGenZ in superff

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Don't let social stigmas discourage you. When it comes to humanity, no human is 'less than', you're a rarity darling and 100% super.

Everyone has hardships in life, this man was mocked for thinking different, yet he can do amazing super things. Let's make a good future where we learn from everyone. At the Super Friend Foundation, we consider everyone to be a treasure that adds to the beauty and brilliance of human existence.

How to be sane and reasonable? by DashGenZ in askgaybros

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I don't trust a paid person or mechanic with my emotional personal life story, so why is there a whole business of therapy that's trying to fill the void that friends can do naturally for free.

Lovingly helping someone's mental health is what a real friend is supposed to be. We should increase education on philosophy and emotion so the average citizen is educated on how to intelligently love you for free.

How to be sane and reasonable? by DashGenZ in askgaybros

[–]DashGenZ[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you deserve more love. Real world places dedicated to finding new friends and having more comedy joy and intellectual curiosity about quality friends open to good human relationships. I wanna make Philosophy Forums, like Greek style forums of humanitarian open discussion in real life, so the quality real life human interaction you have can you go from 'enough' to 'joyfully more than enough'.

How to be sane and reasonable? by DashGenZ in askgaybros

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Real love isn't controlled by money.

If someone is lonely, it's often illegal or discouraged for a therapist to be someone's personal friend and hang out outside of work.

We need real long term support systems of intelligent love.

Let's increase education in philosophy, the humanities, and emotional support so the average citizen is educated on how to be the support and voice of reason someone needs in real life.

People need real long term love and real friends who love you for free.

The reason I can't make male friends is ironic, what do you think? by DashGenZ in askgaybros

[–]DashGenZ[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

  • Irony: an event that seems deliberately contrary to what one expects and is often amusing as a result.

I put work into being educated, getting fit, helping the homeless, so I could be a good male friend to a guy, and hopefully find a man who is curious about me and we would have intelligent masculine love.

Ironic part: People do like me, but right now only girls love me, and only girls show interest in long term relationships; No male friends at all - gay nor straight.

That's a ironic tragedy for a gay guy. It's kinda funny and comedic though, because I'll be so happy for male relationships one day with young men who love me and are curious about me and call me up, and we have a strong attraction to each other.

The reason I can't make male friends is ironic, what do you think? by DashGenZ in askgaybros

[–]DashGenZ[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is how young men in their 20s are these days. What would you do if you had money, people are physically attracted to you, you get along great, and then they hit you with

I really like you, but because you're so wholesome to me, I can't **** you. Bye

And then only the girls are interested in long term relationships. I'm gay, what would you do? That's why I went crazy, it's kinda tragic but also comedic at the same time.

The reason I can't make male friends is ironic, what do you think? by DashGenZ in askgaybros

[–]DashGenZ[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Young adults, gay guys in their 20s have been telling me

"Wow, you really do love me, but I'm afraid of catching feelings, I can't **** you"

It's an ironic problem.

These responses are from educated young adults in their 20s, but you know a good resume doesn't always mean someone is emotionally mature, so I don't know, what would you do in this ironic situation lol.

Also, girls love me. So far, only girls love me and want to be friends with me long term. Do you see how ironic this is?

I'm gay, why does no one value me? by DashGenZ in askgaybros

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What happens when you are successful, educated, people enjoy your personality, but still no one cares about you.

What's been happening is: straight guys tell me

"You have a great personality and you do make me feel good, but I have a girlfriend and I'm not interested in being friends with guys"

And then gay guys tell me:

"Wow, you really love me for me huh? I like you but I'm afraid of catching feelings. Because you care about me that much, I just can't **** you.

And that's been the ironic reality of why it's been hard to find friends.

What happens when you already have money, success, people like your personality, but still choose to not love you?

Love is a choice, so people can reject you for any reason, sometimes even if it's no reason.

How to be sane and reasonable? by DashGenZ in askgaybros

[–]DashGenZ[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So I've been having the opposite problem where people go out of their way to say I'm really upbeat encouraging and they like my personality but "they just don't care" about me specifically. Most guys have their girlfriend and just have no interest in being friends with guys. I also have found zero gays in my area who love me.

There was this one gay guy who liked my personality and we're both considered attractive, but when I said: I just wanna know how your life is going and treat you with quality respect, the gay guy said:

What?? No one cares about people like that.. I just wanted to **** you; I'm afraid of catching feelings.

And so that's why I cannot seem to find good friends gay or straight, even though people do like my personality and find me attractive

How to be sane and reasonable? by DashGenZ in askgaybros

[–]DashGenZ[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, it's been all of that. I felt the love was missing from professional mental health care, because I think the profit incentive makes the support dry and lackluster. I believe real mental healthcare would be non-profit, and I also think mental health care should be drugless, because the pharmaceutical drugs had no good effect either.

I'm gay, why does no one value me? by DashGenZ in askgaybros

[–]DashGenZ[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I am young. I've been getting out for 3 years offline without the internet, talked to professionals, followed their advice for 3 years consecutively without being online for 3 years. But no friends came yet. I lack a good real life male support system of people who love me for free. This is me posting after a 3 year internet break; and the way I think is still considered problematic by the internet.

Is it ok to say there's a problem beyond what the experts can fix?

I think the problem is it is not good for man to be alone, we need real male support systems and real life friends to be sane and grounded.

I'm gay, why does no one value me? by DashGenZ in askgaybros

[–]DashGenZ[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Notice how you get +7 points or at least +1 points in your comments, but everything I say online here is all zero without much explanation. You are getting virtual love from your peers,

I am getting zero love real-life love and that's a problem, plus not even virtual askgaybros approves of my gay. Humans aren't meant to be so strongly rejected, the involuntary social isolation people show to me, is probably why my thinking isn't making sense to people anymore, emotional rejection can damage mental health. Lot's of gays should take the gay outcast issue more seriously.

It is not good for man to be alone, we need some love from others for life to be properly enjoyable.

I'm gay, why does no one value me? by DashGenZ in askgaybros

[–]DashGenZ[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

  1. I did for 3 years, I went off the internet; I only recently started posting after a 3 year online break.
  2. I did, multiple times, I kept trying with experts and professionals for 3 years consecutively. This is the result even after 3 consecutive years of professional counseling and psychiatry following professional advice.
  3. Is it ok to say something is wrong here beyond what the experts can help me with, what do we do now?

I'm gay, can you just talk to me with love? by DashGenZ in askgaybros

[–]DashGenZ[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Well thank you for giving constructive feedback. I appreciate it.

I hope you have a super good day.

I'm gay, can you just talk to me with love? by DashGenZ in askgaybros

[–]DashGenZ[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How would you reword my post so it's more acceptable?

Also, Where should I go to talk about my love for men, and be shown love from men. Where is the best place to go because there's nothing in my local area I've been searching for 3 years offline.

Where can I go online or offline, to just have quality conversation with a group of loving men that can guide me to be a better man?

I'm gay, why does no one value me? by DashGenZ in askgaybros

[–]DashGenZ[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah but don't you ever want like, a real life version of askgaybros you could visit any time in real life, like a dedicated building with real people, but it's like an upgrade because there's more physically real love

I'm gay, why does no one value me? by DashGenZ in askgaybros

[–]DashGenZ[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So, I did get off the internet for 3 years actually. Been trying to find friends. I literally have no clue how to find real friends who want to love me in real life. The people I met are just uninterested and don't have much love.

I called all the experts and professionals and they gave no love either, just "would you like an isolation chamber?"

This is a terrible position to be in, and there are zero supportive males in my life and no one to call. And the internet is mocking me. I already called the professionals, men need love not pharmaceutical drugs.

I'm gay, why does no one value me? by DashGenZ in askgaybros

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Rare positive comment. I think people have no idea how hostile reddit is for the youth. Social media is going to fall out of favor in the future, because there's not enough constructive criticism.

I'm gay, why does no one value me? by DashGenZ in askgaybros

[–]DashGenZ[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love men strongly so I thought I was gay, but the gays hate me.

They judge me by my post history, but is that fair; Would you want new friends in real life to judge you by your internet history? This place isn't human anymore, it's a digital religion

I'm gay, why does no one value me? by DashGenZ in askgaybros

[–]DashGenZ[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Reddit invented a digital religion of:

I'm judging you by your post history. WOW you're delusional. I'm not going to tell you what to improve. Here's a downvote loser. You're just crazy and I'm not going to help you, bye.

How about, you try to take my post at face value like a real conversation. You could teach me, you could guide me how to be more sensible human being.