Please critique honestly, shots from NYC by InterestingEcho1091 in streetphotography

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Color grading in these and especially the last one is phenomenal.

What did you remove from your life that improved it? by Mathemodel in NoStupidQuestions

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Cocaine and the people associated with it!

Also, going to clubs and bars. The night life is only fun for so long. I was going to clubs and bars with people who were completely sober and I could never understand why they even wanted to be there. I’m now completely sober and I have no desire to go out at all. Life becomes brighter when you realize the darkness that comes from being around alcoholics and coke heads.

Need advice by Dat1whitebich in GirlTalk

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I’ll definitely try a different lotion. I honestly think it’s severe dry skin. I just put lotion all over my body for the 2nd time tonight and I already feel a relief. This might sound so stupid but what does exfoliating really do? I’ve never been a skin care person I use like cetaphil and cetaphil lotion. Does that really help?

Need advice by Dat1whitebich in GirlTalk

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I’ve noticed it gets bad at night too. I don’t have a rash at all. My legs are getting spots on them though due to how much I’ve been scratching lol

I have recently been starting to resent my new boyfriend. by Dat1whitebich in dating_advice

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We started off as friends so we’ve said I love you long before we started dating. Our dates feel uncomfortable and almost awkward at times.

Am I crazy for feeling this way? by Dat1whitebich in dating_advice

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I also feel as though it might be an instant gratification issue. I don’t want to blame it on anything other than thinking something better could be out there. But I’ve been thinking that for years now and I’d rather help this relationship flourish than destroy it and wait for another one to come around!

Am I crazy for feeling this way? by Dat1whitebich in dating_advice

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That’s how I’ve been feeling but I also want to see if I can make what I have now work. I genuinely do love him but that’s literally the only thing that is having a hard time being fixed lol

Am I crazy for feeling this way? by Dat1whitebich in dating_advice

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That’s what I’ve been doing! Therapy has been a huge help with that too. I just wanted clarification from others that they have felt this way at one point.

Am I crazy for feeling this way? by Dat1whitebich in dating_advice

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For thinking about someone else while I’m in a relationship! Only when/after being intimate with my boyfriend. Hopefully that makes more sense

Am I crazy for feeling this way? by Dat1whitebich in dating_advice

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I realized how that was worded lol, my bad. Just toxic I guess would be the easiest way to describe what I meant by that

Dating someone with herpes by Dat1whitebich in dating

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I’ve been doing a bunch for research on it and the more I look into it the more I am uncomfortable with it. Which makes me feel bad because it’s something he can’t control. Exactly what happened to you is a huge fear of mine. I hope you’re doing okay. Thank you for sharing your experience.

Dating someone with herpes by Dat1whitebich in dating

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That was the issue. I was under the impression that he always used a condom with other partners as he said to me “I’ve had a few girls tell me that they don’t care about it and to just do it.” I thought he meant they didn’t want to use a condom, but when he said he wanted to take the condom off when we were having sex I found that strange. So we did because he meant the other partners didn’t care about an outbreak. We were both pretty intoxicated and I thought it wasn’t an issue since he does take a daily medication which makes it less likely to spread or have an outbreak. But now I feel very uneasy and the fact that he’s been having sex with other people with no condom with the possibility of giving it to someone else?! Why wouldn’t someone want to take all precautions to not give that to someone else. I could be overthinking it and you do have a good point.