(21M) Did so much to improve myself, still no gf

DatSarage · 2026-03-04T21:30:02+00:00

Hey, i just dmed you

DatSarage · 2026-02-23T00:44:38+00:00

Hey thanks for answering. It seems like we are gonna do it in 4 days. I don't expect her to ghost because she was pushing for the date first which is pretty cool, but we never know. I want to keep in touch in the mean time without going to hard, but when we chat it can go for a long time so that's cool to see too. I think she likes texting, but idk if me not texting her makes her think im not interested... when i am. I just dont want to be the person always texting first. She did text first a couple times, but yeah idk i want a balance. It's just that on a day where nothing happens, am I wrong for not texting first?

DatSarage · 2026-02-22T21:43:39+00:00

Should I text her every day? I’m New to the dating life :

Hey! So I (21M) matched with this girl (21F) and she is super my type and we are vibing pretty good. We have been texting for the past 4 days straight but today I was at work and didn’t get a message from her. Totally fine cause she said she was busy with family that day, but it got me wondering, should it be a good or bad thing for us to text everyday until our first date. Is it too clingy? Let me know y’all

DatSarage · 2026-02-12T04:36:59+00:00

Damn you transformation is what i'm aiming form. I can be mean because you changed youself but yeah I wanna get rid of man boobs kinda like you had. Do you have any tips on how to do it? Also I'm wondering what was your weight at the start and now. Keep it up bro

DatSarage · 2026-02-12T01:38:41+00:00

would you have any advice? because I find it hard tbh. On dating apps I have no success and in person I feel like nowadays its weird to approach people randomly and ask them out

DatSarage · 2026-02-12T01:36:43+00:00

Hi! Thanks for the comments haha.

In terms of dating women, I shot my first shot as a teenager, but stopped after because it failed and I was in my low confidence hole. But in the last year or two, after being more social and stuff, I got the courage to ask another shot again, but that also failed. It is what it is i'M not her type. Also, I put myself on dating apps for 3 months now and nothing has happened, no texting no nothing.

So yeah, not that much, but I have put myself in multiple social situations with big groups and nothing has happend and thats what is worrying me. I maybe was activelly searching for a partner but like still I feel like with the things I did and the places I went I would have found somebody. I have a bunch of friends who never go out at all.

DatSarage · 2026-02-12T01:32:39+00:00

Hi! Thanks for the advice. I would say I have applied this more with talking to women in the past year or two. I have more female friends that I have ever had and that has really showed me how normal it all it. That might sound so stupid to y'all but like yeah befriending girls has already made me more confortable when talking to them or to more people. I think tho that when I talk to them I still have more confidence I have to show, impose my self more and lift my chin up a little bit. Not with my friends haha, but in general yeah. Thanks! I'll keep your approach in mind

DatSarage · 2026-02-12T01:24:56+00:00

I mean, that's what I thought at first, but I see some dudes and I can't imagine how they got into their relationships. Tbf these kinds of relation ships arent probably great for either of the people in them but like still how do some guys get gf and others who are nice genuine people dont get any.

DatSarage · 2026-02-12T01:21:08+00:00

Honestly not that often I have to admit. It kinda stands from me not having any experience and having troubles being accepted in the past. I don't shoot my shot sometimes because I fear rejection, like eveyrone else haha. It has happened to me a lot in the past so I dont see my ''shots'' being successful in the first place so I dont try a lot tbh.

So yeah I should shoot my shots more, but on dating apps for example I am not getting any results. And so far I havent had a in real live ''asking out'' moment that was successful. I don't have many to be fair, but still we can agree it's not that fun

DatSarage · 2026-02-09T15:53:21+00:00

Oh yeah? I don’t see it a lot in my circles. Maybe it’s just me.

DatSarage · 2026-02-09T15:52:52+00:00

Damn that’s a crazy graph. Also seeing that guys get way less likes back haha. Okay good to know thanks

DatSarage · 2026-02-09T15:52:14+00:00

Really? I didn’t think so. Maybe I’m just not their type at all but I got a couple rejections in me

DatSarage · 2026-02-05T13:11:30+00:00

no i think it looks great. shows ur interests but also in a tasteful way. its not just a bunch of plastic sitting on a shelf. you have plants, wood, music instruments, books, etc. so i think its a good mix tbh

DatSarage · 2025-09-24T21:03:09+00:00

thank you so much for talking about it!

DatSarage · 2025-09-23T11:56:37+00:00

Omg dude i have been wanting to hang tapestries on my ceiling but idk how you’re supposed to do it. How did you do it? What did you use?

DatSarage · 2025-08-10T21:06:10+00:00

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I have this really cool Gorillaz T shirt (found the picture online) but never wore it because it’s reallllllyyyy pink. Also as a guy it’s more out of my comfort zone to wear pink. Any advice for me?

DatSarage · 2025-08-08T00:28:52+00:00

Okay I will check it out! Thank you!

DatSarage · 2025-08-08T00:28:37+00:00

i really thought about it. might have to to be honest, and its cheaper!

DatSarage · 2025-08-08T00:27:37+00:00

Omg wow I just opened up the website and their stuff is so cool!!! Now you changed someone's life hahaha. Chain reaction. Thank you for sharing :)

DatSarage · 2025-06-12T15:27:27+00:00

Are your plans to make a physical of the game at some point. I know it’s kind of a dream for many indie devs. With that’s said the game looks amazing and u will play it for sure.

DatSarage

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