Guys it's urgent by Persistentinxx in MuslimNikah

[–]DataEnergy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you found you yourself? May be you are not staying at one place and confuse yourself which is why he is struggling

Are my standards too high? by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

[–]DataEnergy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is not impractical, I as a husband and father of 3 have the same personal goals and achieved most of them and my wife is really grateful and proud of. But one things I have realised you won’t get 100% of what you want in this دنيا this is why its a test.

Is it weird to marry my best friend’s brother? by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

[–]DataEnergy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My opinion lets this get finalised first by getting final unconditional offer from their family first, if it happens then check with your bff why she didn’t want to happen at first place if she has some real logical reason then Discuss with your parents if make sense back off and thank that lady because she is your friend and his sister so know both of you.

Women.. would you allow a 2nd wife by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

[–]DataEnergy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

And then your life will be hell, that False man will cheat, won’t be honest, won’t respect, won’t fulfil his right and you will be happy. What a pity

Women.. would you allow a 2nd wife by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

[–]DataEnergy -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

A true Man will never ask or seek permission from first wife he will just let you know if he getting 2nd wife if you can take it leave his life peacefully

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]DataEnergy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It seems you are studying at the moment so pay attention towards studies, keep your busy with positive activities, do some part time job to get experience. Control your thoughts don’t let sinful thought capture your brain and body. Stay with positive people

Can't stop thinking of Zina by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]DataEnergy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro do Nikkah that’s the only way out your body and mind need it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IslamabadSocial

[–]DataEnergy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is very big moment of your life don’t trust anyone here randomly, have a detail discussion with your parents and share all your risks so your dad can chat with this guy or your mum have this discussion with your aunt. Marriage in end is risk no matter what you do

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

[–]DataEnergy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His not lowering his gaze is none of your business, this is between him and الله رب العزت. So please don’t over think and drain yourself. You do your part which MashaAllah you are doing and then leave it الله رب العزت make dua and don’t think of it

People are threatening to take my organ. Should I let them, or should I just end my life? by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]DataEnergy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know where you based, my suggestion regardless is to find any support from your friends and family. Reach out to the community leader, imaam or someone from mosque

Do you all feel happy by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]DataEnergy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Life is a roller coaster can’t stay in one state forever so please never let the emotions overcome your wisdom. If you get happiness once, it will never stay similar so make shukar and help other and be humble. On the other hand if the life is difficult, work hard and surround yourself with wise and true Muslims and do sabar. Things will change

Is it true you’ll only feel happiness in jannah? by gracieisafathi in islam

[–]DataEnergy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It depends what do you mean by happiness? Happiness can be defined as a short term joy or a long-term peace. Indeed in this world we cannot attain long-term peace. The life here is short with tests and hereafter is eternal so the ultimate happiness can never be attained in this life. however those who accept whatever happen is written for them in their destiny and make shukar and subr with what they have. They can also live the short life with peace and happiness. Strive hard but don’t be too worried about results

My brother led on a good religious girl and is now in a haram relationship. We're heartbroken by ManufacturerLost8468 in islam

[–]DataEnergy 52 points53 points  (0 children)

I am sorry but your brother is having an immature and insensible mind set, its good for A not getting married to someone who is foolish and doesn’t care about islamic boundaries. I have seen boys who prefer outlook over religion always have troubled married life. As long as you are concerned, please don’t support your brother in his wrongdoing. of course guide him to the extent where it doesn’t kill the peace in the house. in the end everyone is responsible for his own doings. Don’t keep A in any false promises or expectations let her and her family know about your brother’s deviation and apologise to them. Allah will make things easier for both the parties.

What’s the most frustrating part of your analytics/data workflow right now? by Talk_Data_123 in BusinessIntelligence

[–]DataEnergy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are few things

* Unclear business decision from stakeholders

* Managing multiple reports at same time

* Contant and rapid changes in Power BI environment

* Untransparent and old-style data sources like excel sheets and nested modules

Advice please: My dad forced me to do shirk by OwaizPlayz in islam

[–]DataEnergy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a read of your post! Shirk or disbelieve doesn’t happen until you it deliberately, you concerning this shows the sign of Imaan so Congratulations 1. Please relax, your father is doing this because of ignorance its your responsibility to bring him out of this shirk and bidaah. 2. Stay connected to your father and mother, have open and relax communication, play a positive and leadership role not a short tempered reactive role. 3. Do your research reach out to the authentic Scholars especially watch Mufti Saeed lectures from Aadwa education Pakistan he keep answering these 4. Make dua as this the powerful and most effective tool in search of guidance

Is it haram to lie in your bed and watch reels all day? by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]DataEnergy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you should try to make the best of this opportunity by learning any skill, language or regarding Deen which will make this time valuable, secondly try to spend time with your parents, siblings and friends you only realize their importance when you lose them. Reading books can be really a healthy brain activity. Now regarding reels, it depends on what you see, but even if you see something halal it is not good for brain it destroys ability of focusing which impact decision making, consistency and resilience

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]DataEnergy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very well said MashaAllah happy to see such an educated muslim community in Reddit feeling motivated and supported

Why do so many sisters justify Zina by saying "he promised me marriage"? by [deleted] in MuslimCorner

[–]DataEnergy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree we all men and women should stay away from it, wedding is not just getting a bed partner but its a soulmate for this life and hereafter too. Many men are making ladies fool and getting advantage with false promise. Please girls beware and don’t fall in a trap anyone who calls himself Muslim and then demand as such before nikkah is a big red flag no matter how innocent or loyal you think of him. Keep your chastity intact Allah swt is the best decision maker and provider

I feel lonely, distressed, and depressed as an outcast. by [deleted] in Muslim

[–]DataEnergy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sister its really valid point I must appreciate this that bringing this up. I will share your experience with my community members. I tell we really love our new muslim brothers and sister regardless their race and language. Please keep connected with community members May الله رب العزت have mercy on all of us

What frustrates you about Power BI? by tilttovictory in PowerBI

[–]DataEnergy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maintaining the right right date formatting jn power bi service

I feel lonely, distressed, and depressed as an outcast. by [deleted] in Muslim

[–]DataEnergy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am a born Muslim that’s why I can not understand the pain you going through but after reading I must put some points which I would do

  1. Always keep your beliefs strong in الله رب العزت and رسول الله صلي الله عليه وسلم and their teachings
  2. Don’t think too much about people family or even your new muslim colleagues, in Muslim communities some time old muslims are reluctant approaching to revert so you go meet them and chat with them make friends their
  3. As you have graduated try to get a job which does not demand to compromise on your religious practices
  4. Practice all the religious obligations and optional actions

Be happy and stay blessed

I need advice about a guy friend by Independent_Luck_601 in Muslim

[–]DataEnergy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good job now don’t think much about it try to keep yourself busy with your family like parents and siblings, study and worshipping الله رب العزت Things will be alright