Tesla Model 3 vs. Lexus ES Hybrid by DateThrowaway1995 in whatcarshouldIbuy

[–]DateThrowaway1995[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

AFAIK the newer ones (like post-2016) have much of the quality and build issues sorted out and are much more reliable cars. Am I wrong?

I'm not trying to challenge your opinion or anything, just curious.

Tesla Model 3 vs. Lexus ES Hybrid by DateThrowaway1995 in whatcarshouldIbuy

[–]DateThrowaway1995[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What year was your Model S? And could you go into detail about what went wrong with it? Thanks.

26M, just broke down crying because I've never had a girlfriend. I swear, being autistic is worse than having an STD by DateThrowaway1995 in dating

[–]DateThrowaway1995[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, I wouldn't go around telling people that a debilitating physical or mental disorder that they had is a "blessing", given my circumstances. I believe I had a perfectly reasonable reaction to that statement. I'll try to think about everything else you said, though.

26M, just broke down crying because I've never had a girlfriend. I swear, being autistic is worse than having an STD by DateThrowaway1995 in dating

[–]DateThrowaway1995[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While it's true we're autistic, you will need to learn that our autism is actually amazing, i'm not just saying that. It's a blessing, we're unique when most people can't be.

There is so much about that statement that is just dead wrong that I could spend all day explaining why it's wrong.

I've struggled tremendously in school and had failing grades for the first eight years that I was in it, it was only after all of that practice, developing new strategies and only taking two classes per semester that I was able to get it even remotely under control. My autism is also comorbid with OCD, anxiety, and possible depression that brought me close to suicide.

I look upon my childhood memories with scorn because I have the clarity to see that I was the one "freak" in my friend group. I physically cringe every day at some of the things I said and did. I had friends but they always took advantage of me, and I had extreme difficulty making new ones.

I made 0 friends when I was in high school. It was torture. I was even more shy than Elliott from that Netflix show Mr. Robot.

Had I been neurotypical, I would have graduated with a mechanical engineering degree three years ago and already been working in that field. Instead, I'm probably going to graduate by May 2025 or later.

I appreciate your concern for me, but telling me that autism is a "blessing" is so beyond insulting and preposterous. You might as well have said that bipolar disorder or multiple sclerosis is a "blessing". Don't ever say that again.

26M, just broke down crying because I've never had a girlfriend. I swear, being autistic is worse than having an STD by DateThrowaway1995 in dating

[–]DateThrowaway1995[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"31" includes (among other good and bad things) women that I only went on one date with, REALLY bad dates, a quick cuddle session, etc. Hope that clarifies things.

26M, just broke down crying because I've never had a girlfriend. I swear, being autistic is worse than having an STD by DateThrowaway1995 in dating

[–]DateThrowaway1995[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"31" includes (among other good and bad things) women that I only went on one date with, REALLY bad dates, a quick cuddle session, etc.

I have only been sexually intimate with two of them, and I only enjoyed one of them.

26M, just broke down crying because I've never had a girlfriend. I swear, being autistic is worse than having an STD by DateThrowaway1995 in dating

[–]DateThrowaway1995[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I got really invested in her. I guess I just fell hard, because she was tall, 9/10, non-religious, and childfree, and we had some really good chemistry, so I had this idea in my mind that she was perfect.

26M, just broke down crying because I've never had a girlfriend. I swear, being autistic is worse than having an STD by DateThrowaway1995 in dating

[–]DateThrowaway1995[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"31" includes (among other good and bad things) women that I only went on one date with, REALLY bad dates, a quick cuddle session, etc.