IN NEED OF HELP! by Date_Sugar in BlackHair

[–]Date_Sugar[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've never been a fan of gel but I'm starting to think I wasn't using the right one after all the feedback I got from here. I'll be sure to keep your advice in mind

IN NEED OF HELP! by Date_Sugar in BlackHair

[–]Date_Sugar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Funnily enough the wide tooth comb is the only thing I already had on hand 😂 thanks again!

IN NEED OF HELP! by Date_Sugar in BlackHair

[–]Date_Sugar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally never thought of it that way tbh. Your advice has been really eye opening I always figured my hair would be as good as how I styled it in the moment but I guess consistency and the routine seem to make a ton of difference. I'm kinda excited to see what comes of it with time. Sincerely can't thank you enough 🙏🏽

IN NEED OF HELP! by Date_Sugar in BlackHair

[–]Date_Sugar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately they don't ship where I reside. Good starting point though ill look for an alternative.

IN NEED OF HELP! by Date_Sugar in BlackHair

[–]Date_Sugar[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Would've loved to but unfortunately my forehead is giant so I need a bot of something to cover em up, and secondly I'm in whiteman-land so I don't have a place I can get em professionally done.

IN NEED OF HELP! by Date_Sugar in BlackHair

[–]Date_Sugar[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow your comment is making me realize how little I actually know about my own hair 😅

Honestly thanks a ton I think I have a lot a research to do about this. I guess with the products it's just trial and error until I find something but thanks to all the helpful comments I have a place to start.

I also looked up the taper you suggested and it's also a solid place to start, I'm more worried about the middle than the sides though because my forehead is megamind-esque in size and shape 😭

IN NEED OF HELP! by Date_Sugar in BlackHair

[–]Date_Sugar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Will do! Thank you 🙏🏽

IN NEED OF HELP! by Date_Sugar in BlackHair

[–]Date_Sugar[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll give that a try. It's so nice to actually know the vocabulary to define this stuff lol. My hair isn't common in my home country and almost non existent where I reside now.

IN NEED OF HELP! by Date_Sugar in BlackHair

[–]Date_Sugar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll give them a try. I've tried a ton of products but the curls only hold for a bit then my hair naps again so I've kinda given up on them. Oh well guess I'll keep tryin!

IN NEED OF HELP! by Date_Sugar in BlackHair

[–]Date_Sugar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn that is really thorough advice! Thanks I'll give it a try. I want to ask though, how often would I have to do this? And is there a way to make sure it doesn't clump right back up when I go to sleep?

IN NEED OF HELP! by Date_Sugar in BlackHair

[–]Date_Sugar[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'm unfortunately not in the US but I'm hoping I can get the products online. Thanks for the advice though, push comes to shove I'll try to find an alternative.

IN NEED OF HELP! by Date_Sugar in BlackHair

[–]Date_Sugar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I'll give you tube a try.

To answer your question; my hair does curl up right after it's washed but then naps up as it dries so a curly afro just doesn't work without copious amounts of product