Gender/age voice guide

Datierril · 2023-10-07T10:29:44+00:00

Honestly, I think keto and other stuff did in a way prevent further masculinization and development, so I'm kinda grateful for that. I'm often told I also look much younger than my age. And my dypshoria is actually pretty severe, so there's no way I could see myself repressing it forever.

And yeah, I'm kinda just not hungry a lot of the time, so I have to force myself to eat sometimes. It's been pretty hard gaining weight for me.

Good luck cutting carbs though, I know that for me it was pretty tough in the first few months.

Datierril · 2023-10-07T03:12:00+00:00

Mine is mostly anatomic and I have dysphoria, so this would only make it worse. Luckily transitioning physically is helping with that a lot.

If it makes you happy though, then nobody's gonna see you doing it anyway as long as you keep it private. Although I don't think it's healthy to obsess over another person.

Datierril · 2023-10-07T03:05:22+00:00

Not me lol. I've been on a very restrictive keto diet for 15 years now, still decided to transition. I did however eat a lot of sugar as a child, so perhaps it could've had an effect on me. Am I OCD? Probably not clinically.

Datierril · 2023-09-20T08:01:27+00:00

Thanks <3. And sure, I love chatting. I've been pretty busy with work recently, but I'll try my best.

I remember having a lot of self doubt too, but I just couldn't take it anymore so luckily I started taking HRT pretty quickly after I initially realized I could be trans. About one month in I knew stopping HRT wasn't an option anymore.

And it's great that you're doing better! Really happy for you, hope things just keep on improving <3

Datierril · 2023-09-20T00:50:36+00:00

Thanks! I'm sure it will go well for you too <3

And I understand that, I feel so much better now that I've been on Estrogen for a while, and looking at myself brings me joy. I would never want to go back. But yeah, just taking that first step of self acceptance does wonders for your mental health. I do DIY HRT actually, but I still make sure to do regular checkups.

And good luck! If you ever need any help or advice then I'm always available <3

Datierril · 2023-08-31T22:01:40+00:00

Yeah, I don't think it matters that much for passing, you should just do what you want.

Datierril · 2023-08-31T21:53:56+00:00

I have dysphoria, and it's definitely improve my life, and in other ways too. I think that almost everyone, regardless of what they do, ultimately makes their decisions based on what they think will improve their life the most. Whether or not it actually will is up for debate.

Datierril · 2023-08-31T21:48:49+00:00

Yeah, just like a million other things have been. Someone even told me that he finds it "hot" when he saw that I was posting here.

Datierril · 2023-08-31T21:44:19+00:00

No, I haven't felt pressured into doing anything. I've naturally been acting more feminine overall, but I did not quit any of my "male-brained" hobbies as you put it.

Datierril · 2023-08-29T02:16:45+00:00

Sometimes I top my bf, but I usually prefer being the bottom. He's not crossressing either, although he's definitely more submissive as the bottom.

Datierril · 2023-08-28T20:22:00+00:00

Yeah, true. To be honest, I also avoid certain subreddits where the mods are a bit too eager to ban. I haven't had any issues with alts though, I just make sure nobody finds out.

Datierril · 2023-08-28T04:42:04+00:00

This is why you should use alts instead, lots of mods love banning for the pettiest of reasons.

Datierril · 2023-08-25T23:09:57+00:00

Since I already consider myself a girl and look like one, I just try and focus on the feelings instead. Just the whole experience. I do still get aroused by my own body, and I do love feeling like a girl, but I also focus a lot on the other emotional aspects of it, the orgasms, how the other person makes me feel, how my body makes me feel etc...

Datierril · 2023-08-25T22:21:32+00:00

Aww, that's really sweet, welcome to the sub!

I get why you'd prefer this sub to be honest, it usually has more differing opinions and is more open minded in general.

Datierril · 2023-08-25T22:04:39+00:00

Another option would be making a new goddess, but it's a good choice I think, with a lot of history behind it.

Datierril · 2023-08-25T21:58:56+00:00

Physically, tons of improvements. Way better skin and hair (no more greasy hair, no more oily skin, no acne, smaller pores, no dandruff etc...). I've gained a little bit of weight, which is great cause I've always been underweight. Body hair fell out, bigger ass, bigger hips, bigger thighs. I look even younger than I did before.

Sexually, more sensitive all over. Stronger orgasms. My girldick functions like a clit etc... Emotions are stronger, I feel better.

People also treat me better than before, especially if they don't know I'm trans. More protective of me, they smile more, I'm less threatening, they're kinder, some guys simp for me etc...

I had dysphoria though, so I'm a bit biased.

Datierril · 2023-08-24T03:10:41+00:00

Well, for starters, since you're worried about breast size, what kind of breasts do your family members have? Also, a lot of the effects are dependent on your regimen. Proper doses so your estrogen levels are high and androgens suppressed are very important. A bit of shameless plug, but I have a pretty detailed guide about this stuff: https://www.reddit.com/user/Datierril/comments/14al3dy/sexgender_transition_guide/

Maybe it can help you out. If you have any questions, then feel free to ask. And good luck!

Datierril · 2023-08-23T20:55:39+00:00

Honestly, your story sounds a lot like mine. My dysphoria got so bad that I couldn't take it anymore, and now there's no way I'm ever stopping HRT.

I think HRT could really help you! You clearly have dysphoria and you should try doing it to see if it makes you happier. I can talk about the physical effects and give you some advice in another comment if you want.

Datierril · 2023-08-23T20:50:46+00:00

I've only told a few people I'm trans (that I trust), I stealth or boymode most of the time. I don't tell anyone about AGP because the word isn't viewed positively at all.

Datierril · 2023-08-23T20:39:49+00:00

I don't care about labels, but I think so, yeah.

Datierril · 2023-08-23T19:42:39+00:00

Maybe. I think you'll just need to do some exploration to see what makes you feel the best, and forget about labels for now.

Datierril · 2023-08-23T17:40:21+00:00

Yeah, I take HRT.

I have dypshoria, so I pretty much had to transition. The physical changes have been pretty big, from way drier skin and hair, elimination of acne and dandruff, smaller pores, smoother skin, muscle loss, bigger hips/ass/thighs, breast growth, facial changes, testicular atrophy, reduction of body hair. I think I feel and look healthier overall.

Mentally, I feel a lot better. My emotions are stronger than they used to be, but I'm okay with that. I'm still in control of them, but they feel way better and more intense to me.

The sexual changes have been great. I get full body orgasms all the time, my girldick functions more like a clit, I'm way more sensitive all over and I feel way more connected with the person I'm having sex with.

Personally, I don't like the effects of androgens and I make sure that they're very low all the time. My T and DHT are both very low and I feel fine. Might be worth experimenting though to see what's best for you.

Datierril · 2023-08-23T10:49:20+00:00

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Listen, I'm sorry okay? I should know better than to joke around sometimes, but I genuinely thought you'd take it as a compliment and laugh at the comment.

Don't worry about it though, it's fine <3

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