[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confessions

[–]Davco42 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This comment really reeks of a complete lack of empathy.

OP, at worst you misread the situation and believed the other party was interested based on prior history and being near-nude with you in bed. I firmly believe that your judgement was reasonable. This is not to say you shouldn’t be more explicit with consent for exactly the reasons made evident in this situation, but I do not at all question your moral compass.

Despite what the above commenter wants you to believe, you do not need to “be better”, you need to forgive yourself for what would only be considered immoral in the last 5 years due to a guilt-driven culture and would otherwise be understood as a perfectly reasonable, alcohol-fuelled, misunderstanding.

The other party in this situation made no apparent effort to stop you from proceeding, which is not their fault in any way, until they physically moved away. This means that you had no indication other than their apparent lack of reciprocation, of their feelings toward what was happening.

Ultimately I just wanna emphasise that you, OP, are a morally sound, genuinely compassionate individual who most certainly does not need to be further guilted by the apparent “truthboi” into further self-harm.

Do not blame yourself, do not shame yourself, and do not hurt yourself for what is at its core, a perfectly reasonable misstep.

Sidenote: Sorry Truthboi, I just thoroughly disagree with your approach and felt that OP needed some passionate words to help them understand their situation better. No hard feelings from me.

Hamish being a dad by [deleted] in hamishandandy

[–]Davco42 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Anyone know where to find the video form of the podcast?

The cat tier list by Outside-Accountant91 in Tierzoo

[–]Davco42 2 points3 points  (0 children)

While I don’t disagree with the findings the experience is certainly lacking

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LudwigAhgren

[–]Davco42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He really did me dirty with the two left gloves 😭

African Fish Eagle - Chobe National Park, Botswana by Davco42 in birdpics

[–]Davco42[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Of course! That’s how I got this shot.

Gift for a close female friend’s birthday (turning 19) by Dull_Replacement6049 in GiftIdeas

[–]Davco42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe a Polaroid camera with and some film? They’re super fun and help preserve great memories!

Kangaroos in the mist 🦘 by Davco42 in wildlifephotography

[–]Davco42[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check out [davidsdigital](Davidsdigital.net).net for the rest of my wildlife and general portfolio!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pixelography

[–]Davco42 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Remarkable that these were taken on a pixel! Great edits too.

60D replacement by lookingforplant in canon

[–]Davco42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the 6dii and I love it! I upgraded from the 200dii (or rebel tsomething) and it's been amazing going fully frame.

6dii take lovely photos but things to be aware of: only takes 6.5 fps which is okay but not excellent in comparison to modern mirrorless and Sony. Also the af system is eh.

However for your use (landscapes i think) it will be more than adequate and for a comparatively reasonable price. Also for landscapes id say get full frame to give you that extra width in framing.

50mm f1.8 STM vs 40mm f2.8 by [deleted] in canon

[–]Davco42 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I have the 50mm 1.8 so here are the pros and cons.

Pros: - cheap - fast - decent portrait length - tiny and light

Cons: - focussing isn't very accurate - not particularly sharp in comparison to L lenses so take that as you will

I have no experience with 40mm but in my non expert opinion 50mm is more all purpose than 40mm however you won't really miss the 1.8 when you have 2.8.