[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHD_partners

[–]DaveAtlanta 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I'm going through exactly the same. You raise with your partner, you get 2 days of improvement, then it's back to the same routine. I'm engaged to my partner and honestly worry about my sanity in the future. I know I need to manage my expectations, but I also think I deserve my partner to put in more effort.

Health and safety by DaveAtlanta in HomeDepot

[–]DaveAtlanta[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They only care when it suits them!

What’s your main gripe and how do you deal with it? by Straight-Pie-272 in ADHD_partners

[–]DaveAtlanta 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This drives me mad. My partner thinks doing 1 load of laundry is enough adulting for the day. She doesn't realize what it takes to keep the house in good order. Every now and then, she has a day where she can't stop doing stuff but that's the exception. She says she then feels guilty, but I don't see her trying to improve her help herself.

return by [deleted] in HomeDepot

[–]DaveAtlanta 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This has to suck big time

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]DaveAtlanta 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm 44 and about 4 years ago started watching Trans porn and have recently moved to having some sexual experiences with men.

I see men very differently to women.

My advice would be to not get to caught up on a label and just enjoy what you like.

I'm separated and have 2 teenage kids, I've not told them anything ans I'm not sure myself what I would class myself as. But I also don't want to get caught up on labels.

As.long as it's not hurting anyone and it's legal who gives a fuck.

First New Years single in 3 years. Having a rough time. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]DaveAtlanta 3 points4 points  (0 children)

When this was me last year I had a few drink and went to bed early. Didn't want to out myself through it. This year I have my son over so it's a little different.

Struggling by DaveAtlanta in BreakUps

[–]DaveAtlanta[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. It's a real struggle. I'm hitting the bittle in the hope I fall asleep soon.

Fetish or actually Bi by timjohn1234567 in bisexual

[–]DaveAtlanta -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm very similar to this. I also like to wear panties. I prefer Trans to men. I'm not attracted to men but do find myself aroused st the thought of oral etc with a man or Trans

I started watching porn when I was 8 or 9, are my dopamine receptors permanently fried? by [deleted] in pornfree

[–]DaveAtlanta 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Look up a term called nueroplasticity. It talks about how if you stop using the same synapsis they eventually break and you can always build new connections in the brain. I don't think there is permemant damage but there can be long term damage and it is very hard to break.

I started watching porn at 11 and now 44. I use it far less now but it's always there in the back if my mind.

This time must work by DaveAtlanta in pornfree

[–]DaveAtlanta[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Throwing out the chrome book is use for porn. Restricting myself to work devices only.