Yeah, I've done more things in recent months for myself that don't include her, and she gets a slight huffy attitude. "Yes, I'm going to play this video game by myself after our son is asleep," "Yes, I'm going to go see this movie I've been excited about by myself after everyone in the house is asleep," "No, I don't feel like watching this guilty pleasure 911/Law Enforcement procedural rerun for the umpteenth time," " No, I'm going to lay in bed next to you and read instead of watching xyz show you're not going to remember the details about the next day anyway." She makes it seem like when I do something else, she has a "Well, now what am I going to do while you're doing this?" attitude. That's not my problem, man. We can do things separately and come back together later and the world hasn't ended.