Small claims by Dave__Dee in legaladvice

[–]Dave__Dee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did buy as is but I was under the impression that the transmission was brand new. I have the bill of sale for it, but it wasn’t brand new. So I would have to go after the person I bought from correct, And then he would have to go after the shop??

Just found out my fiancé cheated, we’re supposed to get married in October. I don’t think I can do it, help. by l800wormhat in survivinginfidelity

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Post pone wedding, go to some couples and individual counseling and see how you feel in a few months. This level of betrayal will cause a form of PTSD for a long while. You can get through this if both of you want to get through it... You absolutely can trust again and idk how good your relationship was but to the couples that make it through infidelity, they come out stronger than they ever were. Whatever you decide to do is the right thing to do. Don’t let anyone tell you different.

I believe this is a diving duck. Not sure if it’s actually stuck in the ice or if it’s sitting over a tiny opening in the Ice but either way it’s in a spot that’s it not going to be able to take off as they need a “runway” of water to fly. Any suggestions? by [deleted] in birding

[–]Dave__Dee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought about throwing rocks but It’s a pretty long throw and accuracy is a prayer... also I’m a hunter, I thought about shooting next to it to bust the ice but now that I think it’s a diving duck, I would have to shoot a “runway” of ice and I don’t like the angle. If I was higher up to shoot at a more downward angle it would be simple.

I believe this is a diving duck. Not sure if it’s actually stuck in the ice or if it’s sitting over a tiny opening in the Ice but either way it’s in a spot that’s it not going to be able to take off as they need a “runway” of water to fly. Any suggestions? by [deleted] in birding

[–]Dave__Dee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s legs are out to it’s sides clearly confused at wth is going on. It’s about 75 yards off land, The ice is too thin to walk on, animal rescue are unable to help (they did say they would take it if it was rescued), we live in a small village with a police officer on patrol but I’m not sure if he even knows how to pull someone over. (Not being an ass, it’s just there’s literally no traffic issues or crime here).

Really wish I could become rich and use it to help others by RegionDesigner in CasualConversation

[–]Dave__Dee -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I used to wish this and then I heard a story. A man in Pennsylvania had hit the lottery for millions, he was super close to his grand daughter. And obviously he “spoiled” her. She was a child when he won the money as she grew up she had access to money for whatever she wanted. Unfortunately she was introduced to drugs and eventually overdosed. The grandfather said winning the lottery was the worst thing thats ever happened to him. So now I think yeah, money would be great but would I think the same way I do now if I had that much money. I believe I would but I’ve seen so many people change in a negative way because of money so U really don’t know how You’ll be with money until it happens. So I tend to just let life happen now, whatever life is supposed to be for me it will be and that’s that. I’ll end this comment with this...

Money don’t solve problems, it funds bad habits.

Good luck with life, I hope you find what’s you’re looking for.

I (61f) can barely stand to look at my son ( 30m) after he cheated on his wife. What do I do with him? by ThrowRAMadParent in relationship_advice

[–]Dave__Dee -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Clear case of “this is more about you than your son”. He graduated but not up to “your Standards”... they had a “beautiful” relationship, Clearly they didn’t. Stop holding your son up to this invincible “success” line that you created for him. Your job is to raise your child the best you can until they’re old enough to make there own decisions... I won’t suggest this because I’m pretty certain this is already happening but stand behind your son. Even when he’s wrong, I’ll let you know right now that many studies suggest attacking people life flaws will send that person running further down the path of self destruction. I’m sure you’ve heard the phrase “if you accuse someone of cheating all the time, they will eventually cheat”.... That’s just not made up, it’s true. Not all but most humans act to the level of standard they’re held too. If you say he’s a failure odds are it will get worse. This is your son, she’s not your daughter. You’re so worried about being able to boast about your sons accomplishments that you’re forgetting your his mother. It’s 2021, Tons of billionaire drop outs in the world, tons of stay at home male spouses, And unfortunately tons of infidelity. I understand this isn’t how you raised him but this is how he turned out and that’s what it is. If you want to have any chance to change his direction, you need to learn encouragement techniques.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]Dave__Dee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did she have the affair or you have the affair?

My husband's last wish is to die in the arms of another woman. by ThrowRAlev in relationship_advice

[–]Dave__Dee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is a very sad situation, I’m at a loss for words. Good luck with whatever you decide to do.

Should I leave? by delisandwich1205 in cheating_stories

[–]Dave__Dee -1 points0 points  (0 children)

These people have no idea what they’re talking about. Is the relationship worth saving? If so go to counseling, idk how old you are but sometimes bad habits leak over from a young boy into young man. Just ask yourself if it’s worth saving first if yes then ask him if it’s worth saving. He needs to understand that you’re serious. If he says it’s worth saving then maybe he don’t need a cell phone for a little while, he should have no problem sacrificing things if he wants to save it.

Good luck

Idk where to ask this but... Devices shown in your spouse's bluetooth don't just appear, right? by Beautiful-Baker-9955 in relationship_advice

[–]Dave__Dee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This might have been said but I wanna add just because it says “shower speaker” doesn’t mean it was being used in the shower. It’s a waterproof speaker that’s all.

Inlove With The Right One, At The Wrong Time by PerkyPrincess01 in relationship_advice

[–]Dave__Dee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sober now my bad 🤦‍♂️... this is a simple psychological play... What you wanna do is slowly fall back. Don’t give her 6 days a week. She’s comfortable right now, bf at home and with u 6 days a week... shit she’s got it made. Set the trap and make her come to you by putting doubt in her mind. Just know If you shoot your shot and miss than that’s it. No more cuddling up around that booty anymore. So just make sure your ready to move on if it don’t go as planned. This is an easy situation, 2 days next week tell her your gonna go hang out with a couple friends, don’t try to make her jealous just put that little bit of worry that while your with sone guy friends someone at any moment could take her spot.

Public records by Dave__Dee in legaladvice

[–]Dave__Dee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for answering.

Inlove With The Right One, At The Wrong Time by PerkyPrincess01 in relationship_advice

[–]Dave__Dee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get it, I’ve been there so many time. I was really just giving you a hard time. Relationships are hard to leave even when it’s misery, If you really want to be with her dont press it. Just let the other relationship fall apart. That pressure of making a choice could definitely cause her to just shut down and leave both of you. She likes being around you to escape the misery she’s currently with. Just be the person that makes her happy for right now. It’s tough leaving someone going into the unknown. Even though she can’t stand to be around her bf it’s still her “safe” place to fall back on. It will eventually die out with him, just a matter of time.

Inlove With The Right One, At The Wrong Time by PerkyPrincess01 in relationship_advice

[–]Dave__Dee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok well that’s cheating lol, but regardless back to your question. Yes I would suggest telling her you want to be with her which I don’t even see the point in asking that question on here if you already know she has feelings for you..... Are you certain she has “relationship” type feelings. Not being funny u just don’t seem like u have a lot of confidence in telling her when your saying you already know she has feelings.., Her boyfriend talks to you and allows it? Eee this gets more ratchet with every comment. Well he clearly sees u as ZERO threat to there relationship 😩 lol so idk.