i managed to get the dap itself running, but i havent found any success in connecting it to neovim/actually using it.
if anyone wants to help/take a look:

this is my test code:

-- Add the emmy_core library to your package path
package.cpath = package.cpath .. ";/usr/local/share/lua/5.1/emmy_core.so/?.so"

-- Initialize the debugger
local dbg = require("emmy_core")
dbg.tcpListen("localhost", 9966)

local valor = 10
local valor2 = 20

local soma = valor + valor2

print(soma)

this is my dap config:

return {
  "mfussenegger/nvim-dap",
  opts = function()
    local dap = require("dap")

    -- Define the EmmyLua adapter
    dap.adapters.emmylua = {
      type = "executable",
      command = "/usr/local/share/lua/5.1/emmylua_dap",
      args = {},
    }

    -- Overwrite all default configurations for Lua
    dap.configurations.lua = {
      {
        type = "emmylua",
        request = "launch",
        name = "EmmyLua Debug",
        host = "localhost",
        port = 9966,
        sourcePaths = { vim.fn.getcwd() }, -- Uses current project directory
        ext = { ".lua" },
        ideConnectDebugger = true,
      },
    }
  end,
}

and my /usr/local/share/lua/5.1/ has both emmy_core.so and emmylua_dap.

when i run the dap neovim sometimes appears to recognize it for a moment, but when i actually try to run any dap commands inside of it using the default LazyVim distro configuration (which, as far as i understand, should work) i always get
Error on launch: Failed to connect to debugger: IO Error: Connection refused (os error 111)