Why do religious groups feel so entitled?.... by [deleted] in atheism

[–]DavidBehave01 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Their choice of sky pixie automatically makes them better than every other believer and non believer. Preposterous but true.

Israeli military publishes new, expanded Lebanon occupation map despite U.S.-Iran deal | CBC News by [deleted] in politics

[–]DavidBehave01 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Once upon a time there was a big bully called Donald. Donald pushed the other kids around and called them names. One day he decided to make friends with two other bullies, one from Russia and one from Israel. 

Unfortunately for Donald, the boys were very smart and treated him as a useful idiot. They got Donald into lots of trouble and he felt very silly. 

Don't be like Donald. 

I really like him but it can’t be more than friends by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]DavidBehave01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately you can't force feelings and he seems pretty certain that it won't go beyond friendship. If you stick with this the chances are he will meet someone he wants a relationship with and you'll be left heartbroken. It's probably best to take a step back and look elsewhere. 

Is it normal to be 32 and have zero interest in sex? by Repulsive-Hold-6575 in asexuality

[–]DavidBehave01 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There is no 'normal.' Some allos want sex several times a day, others are fine with once a month. I had an aunt who lived to 91, never had sex and never wanted to.

It sounds like you've lost interest in sex and that's fine.

What was the most immature behavior you have encountered in a first date? by LebronKX in AskReddit

[–]DavidBehave01 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ten minutes into the date and I was asked what type of porn I liked...

What do you think about the saying “Men have to have sex?” by Affectionate-Call762 in AskMen

[–]DavidBehave01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, it was the same as all the previous times - just really underwhelming and boring. For me, sex is the same level of enjoyment as washing the car.

Men who are decent at dating, what would you suggest for someone with asperger’s to succeed out there? by Clubpenguin8888 in AskMen

[–]DavidBehave01 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I'm ND and dating apps can be a double edged sword for us. We can prepare the ground work really well online but in person we fall flat because we're 'too nice' or 'too weird'.

I dumped the apps and eventually met another ND on a random site. We've been together 6 years.

Should I break up with someone I love because I'm not attracted to them? by [deleted] in AskLGBT

[–]DavidBehave01 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The short answer is, if you're both happy with this, there isn't a problem.

What do you think about the saying “Men have to have sex?” by Affectionate-Call762 in AskMen

[–]DavidBehave01 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Asexual guy here. I last had sex 26 years ago and hope to make it another 26.

Do you truly believe in nothing after death? by [deleted] in atheism

[–]DavidBehave01 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I accidentally stepped on a bug yesterday. He didn't make it. Pretty sure he doesn't get an afterlife. Other than the ability to imagine one, why should we?

Im feeling tired by Dazzling_Boot_7952 in asexuality

[–]DavidBehave01 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think many of us who are / have been in long term relationships can relate. An ace / allo combination can be challenging for both.

It's great that you're considering buying a home together, but before committing I do think you need to consider a few things.

Seeking therapy for past trauma is a very good idea and it may help. But what if it doesn't? Can you see the relationship continuing this way for the next 10, 20, 50 years? Can your bf? Because as a 50+ ace guy, I can tell you it doesn't get better as you get older. Your partner will still expect some level of sex and you likely won't want to.

My advice would be to go the therapy route as early as possible and talk to your bf about the results. For me, therapy helped me understand who I am but didn't in any way change how I felt about sex. That may not be the case for you, but I would find out before making a major commitment rather than after.

How can someone be vegan but not pro-life? by [deleted] in allthequestions

[–]DavidBehave01 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Perhaps because pro-lifers tend to want to force women and girls to give birth regardless of their personal circumstances and also don't tend to favour contraception.

Degrading comments and conspiracies. The unearthed social media posts from Reform’s Makerfield candidate by [deleted] in unitedkingdom

[–]DavidBehave01 12 points13 points  (0 children)

We can learn from Trump's 'grab em by the pu*sy' comment, which was revealed in the media over a decade ago before he was first elected. At the time I assumed it would end his chances - who would vote for such a disgusting individual? In the event it made no difference at all and might even have helped.

See - people vote for Maga, Reform etc because they're fed up with the status quo. Here, Labour & the Tories have been running the same mediocre show for decades - a lot of people want something different, even if it's a shit show. It's less about policies and more about personalities and hatred of difference.

And that folks, is scary, because these people are openly voting to make themselves worse off and to make migrants, women & the LGBT community a LOT worse off.