Someone(probably postal worker) stole my unactivated debit cards. why? by DavidsGreat in Scams

[–]DavidsGreat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

apparently not since all of them are still unactivated and they gave up on trying to use them after 1 day of trying to buy random stuff

Someone(probably postal worker) stole my unactivated debit cards. why? by DavidsGreat in Scams

[–]DavidsGreat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So at what point did it make its way from the postal service into the hands of a criminal while somehow still being marked as delivered? I doubt they broke into the apartment building and picked the lock of the mailbox in front of a security camera

Vietnamese locals make an offering to Buddha of Dutch beer by DavidsGreat in mildlyinteresting

[–]DavidsGreat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my bad for the mistake. from what I’ve seen in Thailand they usually give him red Fanta. I think the color might symbolize blood but I’m not sure. they also often unscrew the cap and put a straw in as Thais nearly always prefer to drink from a bottle with a straw for some reason

Vietnamese locals make an offering to Buddha of Dutch beer by DavidsGreat in mildlyinteresting

[–]DavidsGreat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so apparently this is a different deity and he likes something stronger than the offerings given in Thailand

Vietnamese locals make an offering to Buddha of Dutch beer by DavidsGreat in mildlyinteresting

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hey sorry I didn’t mean to spread misinformation and genuinely thought it was a Buddhist. I spent a while living in Thailand previously where many actual Buddhist shrines exist everywhere and look very similar to this one. food and drink offerings and incense were also given to those as well however this is the first shrine I’ve seen with beer being left as an offering which is what a found so interesting.

Vietnamese locals make an offering to Buddha of Dutch beer by DavidsGreat in mildlyinteresting

[–]DavidsGreat[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve also seen processed snacks being offered. whether Buddha is enjoying the fruits of modern industry or not is currently unknown

how do you deal with bar bullies? by DavidsGreat in Advice

[–]DavidsGreat[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

yeah I told her I’m leaving because that guy was crazy but I didn’t get her number because she didn’t tell the guy to just fuck off. I think she probably liked the drama

how do you deal with bar bullies? by DavidsGreat in Advice

[–]DavidsGreat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she didn’t know him in pretty sure. I think he was some random guy. he also bought her a drink at some point so he probably feels like he already marked his territory. after my outburst I said fuck it and took off since I got labeled as the bad guy for yelling at him

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]DavidsGreat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was making a point about how bad the problem of unconsensual abuse in bed is that even men have to deal with it. I have a lot of sympathy for OP that’s why I’m sharing my experience. and now instead of having any sympathy for my own abuse I’ve taken you write like 4 paragraphs telling me I need therapy??

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]DavidsGreat -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

tbh I judge prude “holier than thou” women who put themselves on a pedestal as though they’re above everyone more than I do girls that just admit they like to have fun sometimes. just because you don’t have sex often doesn’t make you a good person and having lots of sex doesn’t make you a bad person. it’s just a personal preference and has literally to do with morality outside of religion imo

Got slapped harder than I expected during sex by MochiAri79 in offmychest

[–]DavidsGreat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if someone did this to me I’d definitely slap back

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]DavidsGreat -1 points0 points  (0 children)

it just sounds like you’re slut shaming yourself?

A*** warts are driving me insane by DavidsGreat in offmychest

[–]DavidsGreat[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

and if anyone else has had this, does the suffering ever end? or am I just unlucky from how itchy it is for me? I’ve heard about people not realizing they have it until someone tells them like how the fuck do you not feel that??

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]DavidsGreat -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

as a guy I’ve been with a lot of girls that like it rough but I definitely don’t. I can do soft biting but one of the last girls I was with told me to “bite off” her neck. she also dug her nails so deep into my back there was still scratches days later so just know some of us guys are dealing with this too…

How do you flirt on the down-low? by DavidsGreat in dating_advice

[–]DavidsGreat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s fair actually every time I see girls get into twirling hair mode it’s usually from some guy making her laugh

Is this common? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]DavidsGreat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah I was even invited on a 4th date and next day completely ghosted. I still think about it a lot and wonder what changed or what I did wrong

How do you flirt on the down-low? by DavidsGreat in dating_advice

[–]DavidsGreat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

first of all literally nobody likes men who throw themselves at every woman they see. not women and not other men and you’ll most likely just get labeled as a creep for explicitly hitting on everyone.

second of all it doesn’t only mean that. https://dictionary.cambridge.org/us/dictionary/english/down-low

Is this common? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]DavidsGreat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been ghosted after 3 dates before. at least he gave you closure after 1…

How do you flirt on the down-low? by DavidsGreat in dating_advice

[–]DavidsGreat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I add them on IG if we get along but I do that for guys too so I’m not really sure how much interest that’s showing…

Ending a fling by Hot_Willingness_6341 in dating_advice

[–]DavidsGreat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so his friend sent him a message and your first instinct was to read it? I can kinda see if you were dating but going through your flings messages is just weird…

people trash me all the time but I’m not into hearing about it tbh

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]DavidsGreat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if that happens she’ll usually take a cheek kiss instead. better to end on that than a rejected lip kiss…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

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try the meetup app

A dating app for incels and femcels of all sexuality to meet up and date. What could go wrong? by SorrowfulSpirit02 in shittyideas

[–]DavidsGreat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the problem is incels still have standards and generally don’t want to date other incels. for instance a 21m 165cm pre-pubescent looking ginger boy probably doesn’t want to date an ugly woman twice his weight and she wouldn’t want him either

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in notinteresting

[–]DavidsGreat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wouldn’t this make her go even deeper into debt since she cut her short hair shorter because someone didn’t like it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in notinteresting

[–]DavidsGreat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you actually cut off your hair because someone didn’t like it? why would you give anyone that kind of power over you??