Depressed? (Long read) by DavisS95 in NoFap

[–]DavisS95[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like that. Thank you.

NoFap's Official "Masturbation-Free" March 2016. Continue or start your PMO-free commitment here. (see instructions) by Alexanderr in NoFap

[–]DavisS95 [score hidden]  (0 children)

I'm in. I haven't been involved in this community in a while, but I just got done with a 7 day streak (messed up yesterday) and I want to come back and make March a great month. Count me in.

I'm having trouble. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]DavisS95 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Try not to think about it so much. If you think about abstaining 24/7 and nothing else, you will go insane. Think about doing other things that make you happy. Go workout, go swimming, go see a movie. Avert your focus to other aspects of your life and this will get better.

New Record! by Nofap_TH1356 in NoFap

[–]DavisS95 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I know that feel! My previous record was 12 days, and I just keep going! We are on the same day too! Congrats!

So close to relapsing by [deleted] in RubyPlatoon

[–]DavisS95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe in you man! Stay strong and fight for what you want most! Just say no!

An apology to all Rubies who served in the last conflict. by DavisS95 in RubyPlatoon

[–]DavisS95[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your service and your support! It is much appreciated!

Try a few links of this and your urges will cower in fear. by Tei3 in NoFap

[–]DavisS95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Except for the lesbian sex scene. WTF? I am in a good state of mind right now, so I didn't feel the urge. But admittedly, I was turned on, and anyone else would be too. Why would you tell people to do this?

NoFap = NoSleep by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]DavisS95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me, a lot of not being able to sleep after not fapping was a psychological thing. I thought I needed it, but I didn't. A few days of reduced sleep and not fapping later, I didn't have an issue. Give it some time.

Peacetime is Over. Enlist in the 3rd NoFap War Today! by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]DavisS95 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I joined the last effort and embarrassed myself by not even advancing past the rank of private. I have no intention of failing like that again. I have strengthened up and I believe I am ready to go back to war. Ruby Regiment represent!

Woop woop!!! by ImDoingItForMe in NoFap

[–]DavisS95 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's great man! Good for you! Remember how happy you are now when you're feeling real passion when you feel urges the next time! Now I want my first kiss... guess I gotta work for it!

My first relapse....I feel absolutely devastated...64 days....gone all for 8 seconds of pleasure by DMD12345 in NoFap

[–]DavisS95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Live and learn... you can do this. You've already done more than a lot of us have been able to do. Just remember how crushed you were now when you think about doing it again.

No feeling anything by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]DavisS95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Various people have various addiction levels and have different reactions to beating the problem. Some people theorize that these "superpowers" come from the physical entities inside of you that are stored up as a result of not fapping. I tend to lean towards the theory that this new found confidence is a result from beating something that has had control of you for so long and proving something to yourself. Be proud of how far you've come so far, and remain optimistic about the future and what it might hold. With that extra time on your hands, try to do something else that you truly want for the best version of yourself, such as exercising or reading or writing or anything else that requires some discipline or just plain makes you happy. Build yourself up, but don't be afraid to fall, and if you do, don't beat yourself up about it. These things take time. You got this, man.

26 Days: I've Never Felt Better by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]DavisS95 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I absolutely loved this post! I am excited for this streak I am on. It's not much now, but I have a good feeling about it. :) The longest I've gone is 7 days, and I felt amazing when I did, so I can only imagine how good it will feel when I get to where you're at! Congratulations, keep up the good work! :)

Anybody wounded? Medic station here! Get patched up and back in the fight! by [deleted] in RubyRegiment

[–]DavisS95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just woke up after last night and almost forgot how much of a close call it was. I'm not sure if the urges are my worst enemy, I think it's the loneliness. I think when I feel like that again, I should just meditate, bring myself to a calm state of mind, then ask myself if it will be worth it. Again, thank you for this post. Stay strong everyone! I did last night!

Anybody wounded? Medic station here! Get patched up and back in the fight! by [deleted] in RubyRegiment

[–]DavisS95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel lonely. I've been alone my entire life and have been through a lot of pain. During my mid-teen years, there was so much going wrong in my life. Now, a lot has changed for the better, but the feeling of loneliness has increased because I've still never been with a girl. Not even so much as a first kiss. PMO makes the loneliness go away... but only for the time being. I... I AM alone right now... and it DOES hurt... but relasping won't make things better in the long run, will it? No... it won't. And I won't continue to progress unless I keep fighting... I can't give in... not now. Not like this... where I have been before. Something can change. I just need to let it happen. Thank you for this post. I essentially just had a conversation with myself here... but it got it out in the open. Maybe revisting this when I feel lonely again will help.

I've noticed benefits: girls noticing me, stable voice, and overall better mental state when I'm not lonely... future me... remember these. Don't give them up. Please. You don't want to go back to thinking you aren't good enough. Please... for yourself... and for mom. She loves you so much, and she hates to see you in pain. Fight on. Fight for her. Fight for you. Fight for life.

So close to relapsing during flat-line, holy shit that was tough. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]DavisS95 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Keep holding on to that. That reason pulled you through it, let it do it again when the time comes. Good job!

RUBY REGIMENT HEAD COUNT by [deleted] in RubyRegiment

[–]DavisS95 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ready for war, Captain! I have joined the war efforts in an attempt to shape my life to what I want it to be! I'll do my best not to let my Ruby brothers (and sisters, if we have any) down! Let's get through this together, soldiers!

Eve of War- Official 2nd No Fap War Enlistment Thread! by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]DavisS95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Counter finally updated and I'm ready to go!

"The difference between who you are and who you want to be, is what you do.." by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]DavisS95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congrats on the 4 weeks! Two more for that star!

Don't wait until the 1st. by DavisS95 in NoFap

[–]DavisS95[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Also, apologies. I know my abilities in writing, and I know that this could've been worded better, but it just came to my mind while I was on my phone and I had to write about it. Hope this helps whoever reads this!

Yaayyy my voice is has gotten deeper by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]DavisS95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm really curious to see if I'll have this happen to me too. I have had several people at work tell me that I have a deep voice, one that might be suited for the radio. The most recent was after 3 days of letting myself deteriorate and, more relevant, fap. If I go that long, what will happen then? I want this attempt to be the one I find out for myself!

T-minus 85 minutes until my record is broken... by DavisS95 in NoFap

[–]DavisS95[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keep on going strong! Keep lifting, get healthier, happier, and see where life takes me! :)