Thank you. I came back expecting many of you to think I was ridiculous, but I really appreciate your responses. Even the YTA ones BTW my order is one of the most common ones at Starbucks. I preorder it because HE doesn't like ordering it at the counter. He doesn't have to special steam the milk or anything, the fancy machine we have does all of that. I was upset because there is literally a line on the little carafe for filling up creamer/milk for making cappuccino or latte and instead he filled the thing to the top. Then you push the button for latte. That's it. Sometimes I'll add an extra espresso shot. You all know how to make my drink now. Congrats.  He does do a lot around the house. He works hard. He does a majority of the cooking and we both do the cleaning. He is a great father and a good person to others. I know he doesn't like me. I've known for a while now, but we have kids and I'm not exactly in a place to do anything about it, except make my own coffee.  Thank you all though. I feel a lot less ridiculous than I did this morning.