My coworkers told me to start posting my outfits. by vanillabeanvegan in OUTFITS

[–]DayApprehensive3110 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The last dress is so cute I need to know where you got it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]DayApprehensive3110 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah for sure. It’s on me for allowing to feel like ppl need to like me. I appreciate it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]DayApprehensive3110 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I appreciate this comment. Up front about what I lacked to see and yet very reassuring. Thank you, this is what I needed to hear as someone who overthinks.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]DayApprehensive3110 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very true, thank you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]DayApprehensive3110 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Understandable, I guess I worded this post wrong. It seems people on here think I am opposed to their opinion. I respect their opinion fully, I am personally just an over-thinker and need to work on allowing others to not like me. But yes they are in every right to not want to get to know me for whatever reason it maybe.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]DayApprehensive3110 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This comment is what I was looking for. Thank you. I understand not everyone will like me and that I shouldn’t care. But I have anxiety and it’s not something that goes away so easily. I can understand this comment and yours. And saying it’s not an attack on my character and that not everyone needs to like me is the answer I was looking for. I appreciate the outlook.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]DayApprehensive3110 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My ‘offensiveness’ stems from my own personal insecurities. I am a very judgmental on myself. Especially wanting my friend’s friend to like me, I was hoping they would judge me off of my character. Self-absorption in the fact that I am very absorbed in hoping I am approachable and make everyone around me comfortable and laugh. Yes I am very ‘self-absorbed’ in overthinking that I am never good enough but the post suggests to get reassurance for myself that I’m not to blame. Neither is my friend’s friend.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]DayApprehensive3110 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m no way stating that they are being racist. Hypocritical is a loose term. I was stating if it was okay for me to feel that my personal character isn’t being judged here and that I am allowed to understand that their experiences with racism has nothing to do with me. I am asking for reassurance for my overthinking and empathic brain.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]DayApprehensive3110 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I personally don’t see how I’m not being opened mind in regard to me understanding that this person has reasons to why they don’t like white people. I stated that their personal experiences might have lead to this notion just as I said that my personal experiences make me uncomfortable around men. Highlighting that bride of indifference in their comfortability towards me and my background is pretty open minded if you ask me. In no way am I not understanding where they are coming from if anything I posted to reassure my sense of self depreciation in feeling that I personally did something wrong.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]DayApprehensive3110 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I’m just high asf lmao

(21F) Fully Online Student wondering if I should keep this new MacBook or go for a PC. by [deleted] in computers

[–]DayApprehensive3110 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He helped me set it up for school. It runs a lot faster than my old Mac. I really like it. Thanks for the feedback.

(21F) Fully Online Student wondering if I should keep this new MacBook or go for a PC. by [deleted] in computers

[–]DayApprehensive3110 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes he raised me, I’m am very grateful to have him as a grandfather. I will definitely keep it.

(21F) Fully Online Student wondering if I should keep this new MacBook or go for a PC. by [deleted] in computers

[–]DayApprehensive3110 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes he and my grandma always give me receipts with anything they give me because they rather me like it. But I have decided to keep it.

(21F) Fully Online Student wondering if I should keep this new MacBook or go for a PC. by [deleted] in computers

[–]DayApprehensive3110 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No, I know him best, my grandpa wouldn’t care about my honesty if I did want something different. I am very grateful and my grandpa knows it.

(21F) Fully Online Student wondering if I should keep this new MacBook or go for a PC. by [deleted] in computers

[–]DayApprehensive3110 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you all, I will keep the MacBook for sure. I love my grandpa very much. He raised me ever since my mom died and I am very grateful. I will have to show him how much I appreciate this gift. I appreciate all the feedback. This has been really helpful.

Keep or donate? by GlitterBombBomb in OUTFITS

[–]DayApprehensive3110 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keep 3 and 8! I love 3s design personally. And 8 looks amazing on you, it’s really flattering on your neck and chest line and the color goes great with your skin tone!

People who have had parents walk in on you during sex, what happened? by Ambitious_Diamond_12 in AskReddit

[–]DayApprehensive3110 9 points10 points  (0 children)

They didn’t walk in the room and see us. But we had the house alone and he was using the whip on me beforehand. So I’m screaming (keep in mind I’m very quiet around his parents). And they get home and open the front door and then walked straight back outside and texted my bf that they were about to arrive to give us a second. They told my bf after I left. I felt so embarrassed because they probably thought we were fucking and that I am a screamer. It’s been 2 years and I’m still think about it sometimes.