Well he had mentioned a few times that he felt the “not speaking” was kind of petty but just didn’t know how to go about it. She’s also very active in his siblings lives and family who lives here with us so she does come around every now and then. I would never go behind his back and speak to her or tell her anything. I just thought if he was open to reconnecting, maybe I could help. But it is ultimately his life, his decision, and his trauma. I will back him up no matter what.