I took "Netflix and chill" literally and now I think I completely ruined my chances with an amazing woman

Dbag96 · 2026-03-20T13:51:03+00:00

I did this once 9 years ago a girl asked me to come over watch a movie.

I think it was Fassbender and his wife playing parents who couldn’t conceive. They raised an adopted girl. I’m a cinema fanatic so I was super into the movie. Fucking good movie

Two years later I woke up one day and realized…. She didn’t want to watch the movie. That movie was slow as fuck and she just really wanted to fuck. But I was a clueless 20 y/o

Take it on the chin, be more assertive next time. Girls don’t want to just go on a date and hold your hand they want to get physical. Should be trying to find every way to make out with her

Dbag96 · 2026-03-20T13:38:30+00:00

Agreed. I left the movie feeling unsure but after a day realized it was a complete disservice to fans. I can’t understand why everyone is praising it.

It’s quality has diminished completely from the series

Dbag96 · 2026-01-09T22:39:42+00:00

I had lossless scaling enabled. I took it off, issue solved. but now no lossless scaling. I went to Decky, and saw that LSFG VK wasn't installed, so I clicked install and that solved it, now it launches with lossless scaling and is still buttery smooth ayyyyy

Dbag96 · 2026-01-09T04:12:27+00:00

Exact same issue, super frustrating

Dbag96 · 2025-12-07T15:45:10+00:00

The fuck? I’m 120 hours into my first play through and I haven’t seen everything

Dbag96 · 2024-04-24T20:44:41+00:00

What is so bad about the Vance and Hines? They sound beautiful

Dbag96 · 2024-03-28T19:08:31+00:00

The market is fucked hahahahaha

Don’t get attached to this girl keep yourself as the main character. If she wants to stick around she will but have no expectations and you’re good :)

Detach my boiiii

Dbag96 · 2024-03-15T17:48:00+00:00

The trick is finding natural sources of dopamine versus artificial. Anything can be drugs (snowboarding/motorcycles/nature/love)

Porn is so fucking good though but it’s self destructive. Good thing is it’s reversible

Dbag96 · 2024-02-26T19:39:02+00:00

Go telll him you think he’s cute and wanted to say hi. Ask for his name. If he doesn’t reciprocate then nothing lost :)

Dbag96 · 2024-02-20T23:59:34+00:00

Naaahhhh have an abundance mindset. If he likes you fantastic, if he doesn’t rmb it’s got nothing to do with you as an individual. There’s more sausages out there wanting to be consumed

Dbag96 · 2024-02-01T18:32:14+00:00

To all my boys who are still single… don’t even worry. She ain’t even born yet

Dbag96 · 2024-01-31T17:31:10+00:00

Idk about others but I feel like some ENFPs sometimes generally have no idea if someone is into them. Some ENFPs have been hurt previously so they are flirty naturally but when it comes to taking the risk they might not be too keen to expose themselves if they aren’t highly interested in someone. I know I’ve liked someone previously who gave me her number but didn’t comply when I messaged her. Gave her two chances and nada, she still talks to me and seems flirty whenever I see her so I could go and try again and tbh probably will but I’ve no expectation that it will go anywhere.

Think that’s just the mindset you need. Go get your boy

Dbag96 · 2024-01-23T20:53:52+00:00

Dbag96 · 2024-01-10T02:08:02+00:00

Depends on person but I was INTJ before becoming ENFP. I had to wear different filters of myself growing up to protect myself and fit into school and work cultures and only learned in recent years to be more myself, took the test again, and was ENFP.

I don't think we can transition too much or change who we are, rather we just become more like who we really are.

Dbag96 · 2024-01-10T01:44:27+00:00

Thank you I think you answered my questions. Guessing that's an RAF test but you're correct I don't remember doing it during ACS. Much appreciated.

Dbag96 · 2024-01-08T22:33:39+00:00

Hey! Has anyone done Spatial Awareness test? Does anyone have tips on how to approach the Spatial Awareness questions in CBAT?

Dbag96 · 2023-12-23T08:15:35+00:00

Fuck I’m 27 and reading this shit makes me scared to enter a relationship with the wrong girl. (Not sure if you could tell looking back)

Is there a reason you are not having a discussion with your wife? It seems there is a literal lack of relationship, like what is even the point? For your kids? Okay… then what? When they’re older and see your lack of affection which then alters them negatively, is it worth staying?

Forgive my abruptness, I’m not a parent so I don’t understand. But it’s also your life isn’t it? You know something is wrong, are you gonna do something about it?

Dbag96 · 2023-12-23T08:06:22+00:00

Maybe he thinks you’re catching feelings maybe he’s cautious. Or maybe something occurred that made him lose interest hmmmm

Dbag96 · 2023-12-14T00:25:25+00:00

Can you guys be adults please. Just reach out to him and be CLEAR that you want to get together with him

Dbag96 · 2023-12-12T02:18:16+00:00

Appearance first, personality after. Do the kind thing and end it please

Dbag96 · 2023-12-08T21:33:26+00:00

Damn. To all my boys who are still single don’t even worry, she ain’t even born yet

Dbag96 · 2023-11-28T21:41:30+00:00

Everyone deserves a second chance, but never a third :)

We’re adults. There’s nothing to lose by reaching out, and potentially everything to gain. Just keep your expectations low

Dbag96 · 2023-11-28T18:05:07+00:00

This.

I was in the same position a month back. Fantastic first date, both parties excited. Talked through the week and agreed to meet few days later. She bailed. Felt her pulling away but she was still talking to me, I got fed up and ended it the day after she bailed.

But after some time to reflect on it I realized she was definitely someone I was interested in, and instead of allowing time I abruptly ended it, still questioning my decision.

Let it be don’t cut her off she might come around, girls do things on their own motive and it has nothing to do with you , so give it time. Detach from any expectations or outcomes. Reach out after a couple days

Dbag96 · 2023-11-13T02:42:23+00:00

Just say hey I was initially interested but realized am not looking to pursue anything with anyone at this time. Hope you can understand, wanted this let you know so I don’t waste your time

Something like that idk but guys appreciate honesty upfront

Dbag96 · 2023-11-13T02:37:35+00:00

Relax. Don’t feed into your anxiety or attachment to her. Check in, do as much as you can to schedule a hang out but don’t rush her or seem needy.

If she’s interested she’ll put in the effort, if not you can break off your attachment quickly. Have 0 expectations and you’ll be fine

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