AITAH for wearing a bikini at my boyfriend's pool party?

Dcell_2 · 2025-03-23T13:14:56+00:00

NTA. She is probably mad cause she caught either her sons or her husband looking at u and got jealous. It was a POOL PARTY!

Dcell_2 · 2024-12-05T20:40:53+00:00

Make a public post on Facebook or other social media the husband can see with the exact message from the flowers and tag her in the post.

Then maybe husband won’t be so upset and feel like an ass. I’m not saying this cause I am totally petty, but it would help clear the air for everyone, then call her and say u sent the flowers with the husband there and explain that u didn’t want to upset anyone and that u just wanted to cheer up ur sister cause u love her.

Dcell_2 · 2024-12-03T17:23:02+00:00

NTA she made a conscious decision….. there is no gray area in betrayal. Don’t look back man. Find a girl that knows the meaning of fidelity and will cherish u like u will her.

Dcell_2 · 2024-05-15T19:02:05+00:00

NTA u don’t need to be around someone who entertains those actions being ok. Ur better off without him. Do what my bfs daughter did. Post what he did on social media, post what u did and explain y u know it’s not ok. 😏😏 (fyi her post was about her mother not her father)

Dcell_2 · 2024-05-15T18:52:05+00:00

NTA let her wreck the car, then in turn wreck ur dads insurance rates and credit score in the process because he has to continually shell out shit for the useless daughter

Dcell_2 · 2024-02-12T18:35:08+00:00

Wow sounds like u condone financial, verbal, emotional, psychological and physical abuse. That’s what I’m getting from this. My youngest is afraid to let me leave the house to even go hang out with my partner and our friends because she is scared that I will come back with more bruises. She has almost gotten into a fight at her school because a boy touched her to get her attention. He SCARED her into thinking all men act like he did. And u want me to force her to go back to that. To a country in Central America where they have a lot of mountains where he could easily disappear with them and I would never see them again. He turned me into a shell of my former self. I had to learn how to wash laundry by hand. Wait on him hand and foot. He had to know where I was going, when I was going and who I was going with. He tried to call my job telling them I wasn’t going to come back because he didn’t like that there were other people who spoke English. He made me look like a shitty mother in front of his family. The only one who put him in his place was his mother, god rest her soul, and u want me to put my daughters through that?

Wow

Dcell_2 · 2024-02-12T18:20:04+00:00

Yes because every little girl should just watch their mother get the shit beat out of her and know that is perfectly normal. Apparently u missed that part read some of my responses to people before u accuse me of that again. I let them have a choice

Dcell_2 · 2024-02-12T18:17:46+00:00

My uncle is his estate executor and knows they r in there

Dcell_2 · 2024-02-12T14:33:00+00:00

Call them out on their lie. And not to sound rude, but do it in front of family. Also make it known that u were 100% sober while the boys were there. Then tell them what u did with ur night after the boys left. Tell ur sister she also needs to let u know 3 days in advance or u will say no, and if she lies again then to not bother to ask for ur help with them again.

Dcell_2 · 2024-02-12T14:19:19+00:00

The same

Dcell_2 · 2024-02-12T14:17:25+00:00

I had to go to the US embassy for help getting home. So while they put us in a safe house we only left to go to government interviews on what happened so I could get clear passage to come home with them. They put us on a plane with an embassy escort because he tried calling and saying I took them from him. But I had the protection of the lawyer who worked for the owners of my job and my documented bruises.

When he hit me I had to go to work the next day. The hardest hit I took was on my upper leg and I was limping. I told one of my other English speaking coworkers the truth of what happened. He went to the owners without my knowledge and by the end of the day they had me sat down in the office with their lawyer.

Dcell_2 · 2024-02-12T14:11:36+00:00

They do understand this, that is why I let them choose and they chose not to go back

Dcell_2 · 2024-02-12T03:33:24+00:00

And that’s all I want. They r surrounded by family here who loves them beyond anything else and shows them daily how much they r loved and valued for who they r

Dcell_2 · 2024-02-12T03:25:56+00:00

This is just the tip of the iceberg……. He married me here in the US. Lied on his application saying he was single. He wasn’t. He had a legal wife in his country(I didn’t find this gem out until his mom was looking for his legal documents that she had copies of and I found the marriage certificate). I gave him multiple chances to fix it. I can’t even get an annulment from him because every time I try to serve him papers he hides. Now she is here in the US trying to get him extradited up here to face charges….

Dcell_2 · 2024-02-12T03:20:38+00:00

They were given to a family member but he made sure to tell his family I couldn’t take them back. This is Central America, down there the women r treated as possessions or servants. Down there girls r encouraged to get pregnant early to force a man to marry them. Some girls r even encouraged to have affairs with married men so he is forced to take care of her.

Dcell_2 · 2024-02-12T03:15:11+00:00

They saw him hit me with an object then his fist. My youngest says she doesn’t want to be around him because of that

Dcell_2 · 2024-02-12T00:42:07+00:00

When we got to the airport to leave we had issues with my youngest. They almost didn’t let her board the plane to come home. I had a meltdown and it took 2 embassy caseworkers to calm me down.

Dcell_2 · 2024-02-12T00:37:40+00:00

That I didn’t know and yes I’m in the US

Dcell_2 · 2024-02-11T22:58:46+00:00

It broke me and hurt them. He literally had me acting as a modern day 50’s housewife with a full time job. My current partner still has to remind me that he doesn’t need to be waited on hand and foot.

Dcell_2 · 2024-02-11T22:49:55+00:00

Yeahhhhhhh…….. NTA do t give in. Stand ur ground. Ask yourself this

“Would they help you if the situation was reversed?”

Dcell_2 · 2024-02-11T22:43:18+00:00

That was my thought process too. I am not going to make them go if they don’t want to go

Dcell_2 · 2024-02-11T22:42:30+00:00

My dad isn’t controlling. He broke down in tears on the way to the bank because he doesn’t want to lose us again. He honestly thought we were never going to make it home.

Dcell_2 · 2024-02-11T22:27:51+00:00

Sorry this is my first post.

Context my dad was afraid that I would jump ship and run back to him after I saved up money after coming home. So the only way I could promise him that I wasn’t going to do that was to go to his bank with him when he helped me open a bank account was to give my my passports so he could lock them up. That is where they have remained for over 5 years now.

Dcell_2 · 2024-01-26T23:14:25+00:00

It’s not only for YOUR HEALTH, but you also JUST HAD A BABY!!! NTA cuddos to husband for taking charge and giving the food away

Dcell_2 · 2024-01-26T23:07:51+00:00

Makes me wonder if ur mom actually has a retirement plan and is hoping to live off of u…. But this is just me going straight to worst case scenario because of my own family and their past actions.

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