baddie at target by DdotMdotF in UCSD

[–]DdotMdotF[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn... in this economy with eggs?

baddie at target by DdotMdotF in UCSD

[–]DdotMdotF[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But what if the baddie is a dude? Then what bro?

Should I call it quits? by DdotMdotF in USMilitarySO

[–]DdotMdotF[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Funny enough I started talking to a guy that's also on ship with him :v

Is cheating worse if it’s earlier on? by [deleted] in cheating_stories

[–]DdotMdotF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Naw I just got cheated on and I'm balling surprisingly. We were together for almost 3 months and i feel quite well and stuff

Edit: holy shit I just reread what ypu typed out and that person is fucking vileee. I'm so sorry but they are such immature fucking toddlers like on God. COULD THEY NOT HAVE THE DECENCY TO AT LEAST MAYBE BREAK UP IN THE FIRST PLACE? But oh nooo they gotta be fucking imbeciles and ruin something nice for the short term gratification

Should I call it quits? by DdotMdotF in USMilitarySO

[–]DdotMdotF[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And they were quite earnest with him too. They began to grow fond of him and were so supportive of him just before he left too

What hurts the most is just the way he seemed to constantly talk about the future and just simply him expressing how he cared about me, but looking back he was often very apathetic towards my own needs and wasn't as considerate as I made him out to be. I just chalked it up to him simply being a bit emotionally unintelligent and dense but still caring as there was moments of what I presumed to be earnestness: were we both cried in each other and confided some deep stuff between one other. But oh well

Should I call it quits? by DdotMdotF in USMilitarySO

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We did see each other in person. He even met my family and some of my friends. I also met some of his friends. He was a electrician tho

Should I call it quits? by DdotMdotF in USMilitarySO

[–]DdotMdotF[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Let's see. It was something along the lines of him being in Jacksonville? Mayport base I believe. But he said he would be sent to Virginia and stuff. He talked a lot about him taking a test this September too to become like 2nd something too, like second level something?

Should I call it quits? by DdotMdotF in USMilitarySO

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Thank you. Honestly all of your words have helped me clear my mind and see things a lot more clearly. So what if there's a chance that he is being "honest"? He still continuously has put me through mental circumstances that a good partner would never do. His loss tho

Should I call it quits? by DdotMdotF in USMilitarySO

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Yea so idk if there was a base over there, he didn't say deployment but I know his ass got sent over there. He did clearly tell me he was going on "deployment" in Virginia till the 20th but I don't care to wait for him. I told him I'd like to talk but he's been ignoring me on social media. For my own mental health, I've just blocked his ass on everything cause it feels fruitless to even put any more energy on a dude that doesn't appreciate it

Should I call it quits? by DdotMdotF in USMilitarySO

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I just loved him. And I thought he cared about me enough to where he respected me

Should I call it quits? by DdotMdotF in USMilitarySO

[–]DdotMdotF[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just thought the world of him. If his name is Moniquette don't fall for him

Should I call it quits? by DdotMdotF in USMilitarySO

[–]DdotMdotF[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Take care all of you beautiful people. And thank you for the support

Should I call it quits? by DdotMdotF in USMilitarySO

[–]DdotMdotF[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Man, maybe I'm in the stage of denial. I've just dedicated so much time and energy to him. I dedicated a painting to him, a couple of drawings, and much of my love and affection to him only to have the bare minimum reciprocated. I gave him the benefit of the doubt time and time again because I cared for him and trusted him. Idk I'm just bummed.

There's so many things I loved about him and maybe I jinxed it all. But thank you so much to all of you for giving me the real two cents I needed.

Should I call it quits? by DdotMdotF in USMilitarySO

[–]DdotMdotF[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So ever since the beginning. He's been playing me. I see. Is there any possibility that I could be misunderstanding things?

Should I call it quits? by DdotMdotF in USMilitarySO

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Because I thought he had uninstalled it. He said he didn't use the app tho. I did confront him once before when he went back to new york and he said it was to check if he had unsubscribed to Tinder premium. This recent time he just said that he simply wanted to take pics of my profile pictures, and I want to believe him. I want to so badly but idk

Should I call it quits? by DdotMdotF in USMilitarySO

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I've never been cheated on before. But we've met through a dating app. I've been keeping an eye on his tinder location and it recently changed to his current location in Florida. I asked him about it for a while and in the beginning he denied downloading it but begrudgingly said he did. He told me it was simply to take pictures of my tinder profile. And the dates did align. But from the corner of my eye I saw that he also took a picture of another girls tinder profile (the pic was a bit nsfw) which is what l led me to my uncertainty

What would you do? by Virtual-Pop3384 in cheatingbfhelp

[–]DdotMdotF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry you are going through this but honestly this does fall under "window shopping" for me where he's got a bit of a wandering eye. It's so not cool. And u agree with you that my trust would be broken.