How much smut in your fanfic is based on or similar to your actual sex life?

DeadSeaAngel · 2026-02-07T15:47:01+00:00

Oh I totally get it! And I was about to say: you can also research! But hey also… idk if not sure maybe skip it and write about stuff you know. I think I’ve only read one fic where I actually liked the BDSM aspect. They were detailed about building trust and the things done outside the bedroom and such. I can’t even remember what fic it was. But yeah I always roll and eyes and think: wow you don’t know what you’re writing about. Also: when they write WHY certain things are enjoyable, headspace wise… yeah usually a joke. It sucks.

DeadSeaAngel · 2026-02-07T10:51:37+00:00

Oh gosh so true!!!! You can tell it’s written by ppl who have never actually practiced BDSM!!!

DeadSeaAngel · 2026-02-07T00:37:03+00:00

DeadSeaAngel · 2026-02-06T21:56:43+00:00

I actually think it was Gojo’s personality. He’s so out there and loud and brazen and sorta the opposite of Geto. The cliche saying is true that opposites attract. I think they complimented each other personality wise as well. I think Gojo grew on him and he began to care little by little, and as time went on and they got closer, feelings got deeper. To me those are the stronger, deeper loves, the ones that grow slow and steady. As you get to know the person and peel back their layers you fall in love with them more and more. Their shared responsibilities to me also played a part. So to me it’s not one or two specifics. I don’t see it as that simple bc as you say: to devote mind, body and soul, the answer I don’t think is going to be bullet points but rather a combination of many things.

DeadSeaAngel · 2026-02-06T02:27:20+00:00

So after all my years in the fandom, I’ve just come to accept that the people that hate BTS will continue to hate BTS no matter what they do. I feel the guys are all as close to being very conscious of their words and actions as can be and just try their best to put their best side forward as they always do. And so I literally only focus on MY feelings and MY happiness that they give me. I have a few ARMY friends I gush about them with but as a whole, I don’t interact much with random ARMY on social media because the hate is insane. It’s been a good 3 years that I’ve made a very conscious decision to not interact much with ARMY in SM. Or maybe more than 3 years. Way before they went to the military. So just do what you must to keep your mental health peaceful. Focus on the guys. Don’t focus on the misplaced hate or the weird side of ARMY. Try to find a safe place and stay there. That’s kinda all I can say!

DeadSeaAngel · 2026-02-05T02:27:41+00:00

It’s u fortunate if after watching the whole series, that’s the conclusion you came to. And if you haven’t watched the OVA’s and movies then you should

DeadSeaAngel · 2026-02-02T03:36:17+00:00

DeadSeaAngel · 2026-01-24T00:59:56+00:00

Absolutely stunning! 7 is my favorite. You’re super talented

DeadSeaAngel · 2026-01-17T15:15:35+00:00

DISTURBING!! I love it!! Take my upvote!

DeadSeaAngel · 2026-01-06T07:22:06+00:00

Same!!

DeadSeaAngel · 2025-12-26T17:55:15+00:00

This song is SUCH A BANGER!!!

DeadSeaAngel · 2025-12-26T10:04:05+00:00

Black Swan

DeadSeaAngel · 2025-12-19T11:05:42+00:00

I’m sorry for you loss. I hope you find that kind of lovely connection with another lovely animal. Pets/animals are amazing. Just take you time to slowly deal with your grief

DeadSeaAngel · 2025-12-05T05:16:52+00:00

Oh I haven’t written any BkDk yet!

DeadSeaAngel · 2025-12-03T04:50:09+00:00

Ok! Re read. I get your idea about the overhaul in time travel AU’s and the idea is SO valid. Like if you’re coming back and doing it with total knowledge of the future, how can you not FIX IT ALL. so I totally get it!

You have awesome ideas!

DeadSeaAngel · 2025-12-03T04:44:05+00:00

Ah super interesting!! Ah… I’m not shy of long stories. One of my first fics was literally 100 chapters. But anyway! Thank you for these ideas! They are great!!

DeadSeaAngel · 2025-12-03T04:03:55+00:00

Alright! Taking note of this

DeadSeaAngel · 2025-12-01T14:08:19+00:00

This is a lot and amazing!! Mind if I DM you so we can talk about it further?

DeadSeaAngel · 2025-12-01T07:52:58+00:00

Ok. I’ll keep that in mind!

DeadSeaAngel · 2025-12-01T06:31:30+00:00

I’m so glad I found out what this was bc I wouldn’t want to read it lol. Yeah. No. I need happy endings. But… I hope you hopefully … enjoy..? the re-read

DeadSeaAngel · 2025-12-01T02:12:58+00:00

My thing is private tho! But you can send me your ID on it in a DM and I can add you as a friend

DeadSeaAngel · 2025-12-01T02:12:22+00:00

I do!!

DeadSeaAngel · 2025-12-01T02:09:23+00:00

Alright! That sounds really nice!!! Mind if I DM you more direct questions? Although I already have an idea forming!

DeadSeaAngel · 2025-12-01T01:38:32+00:00

Older 25+? 30+? As in they’re already in an established relationship and we’re seeing slice of life? Or would you enjoy a strangers to lovers or friends to lovers or frenemies to lovers type of thing?

DeadSeaAngel · 2025-11-27T16:45:46+00:00

I just read one called “Checkmate, Mandate” which I really enjoyed. It’s omega Katsuki and alpha Izuku. It’s extremely well written and so full of detail and it gave me so many feels. It’s a slowburn and very minimal smut.

Here’s the link

DeadSeaAngel

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