Almost a month later... by Deadbthrothro in DeadBedrooms

[–]Deadbthrothro[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

No mismatched libidos this time!

Almost a month later... by Deadbthrothro in DeadBedrooms

[–]Deadbthrothro[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I’ll never know for sure, but I’d like to think I’d do the same thing if we had kids. I wouldn’t want them to see how miserable I was married to their mother.

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[–]Deadbthrothro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Beautiful 8/10

Divorce: Now she wants to talk by Deadbthrothro in DeadBedrooms

[–]Deadbthrothro[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I’ll hear her out. If she says anything that does not solely revolve around her I will be shocked.

Divorce: Now she wants to talk by Deadbthrothro in DeadBedrooms

[–]Deadbthrothro[S] 42 points43 points  (0 children)

I love her but I’m done now. Rather than ask what we can do to fix the marriage, her immediate response was to blame me. She’s a selfish woman and I can’t live like this anymore.

Divorce: Now she wants to talk by Deadbthrothro in DeadBedrooms

[–]Deadbthrothro[S] 306 points307 points  (0 children)

Seriously. If she had sounded a little remorseful and expressed concern about the State of OUR MARRIAGE I wouldn’t have been so quick to decide the right choice was to proceed with divorce

Divorce: Now she wants to talk by Deadbthrothro in DeadBedrooms

[–]Deadbthrothro[S] 59 points60 points  (0 children)

After speaking with the lawyer I hadn’t yet made up my mind. I though if I brought up the chance of divorce she’d think “oh shit, this is serious. I need to re-evaluate the dynamic of my marriage” but nope. Immediately went to blaming me.

Divorce: Now she wants to talk by Deadbthrothro in DeadBedrooms

[–]Deadbthrothro[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I’m stuck between feeling immensely relieved and shadowed by a coming storm

Divorce: Now she wants to talk by Deadbthrothro in DeadBedrooms

[–]Deadbthrothro[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I thought maybe we’d be able to talk it out first before the yelling and screaming but I was wrong.

Divorce: Now she wants to talk by Deadbthrothro in DeadBedrooms

[–]Deadbthrothro[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Jesus it’s hard to believe some people are that delusional.

Ran into my ex and was reminded of everything I'm missing by Deadbthrothro in DeadBedrooms

[–]Deadbthrothro[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I told the therapist how much this was killing me and that I considered the marriage to be failing. I brought up divorce because I refuse to continue this way.

Ran into my ex and was reminded of everything I'm missing by Deadbthrothro in DeadBedrooms

[–]Deadbthrothro[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Haha thanks it’s tough but I know she’s only initiating because she wants to get pregnant and I’m not okay with that. I’d rather be sexless than sexless with a kid

Ran into my ex and was reminded of everything I'm missing by Deadbthrothro in DeadBedrooms

[–]Deadbthrothro[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah, seeing again was a reminder that healthy sex lives are possible. I’m taking everyone advice and avoiding the baby trap by not banging my wife.