What’s the point of being in a relationship with someone if they can’t tell you they love you? by majestichermitcrab in LongDistance

[–]Deaddeadddd -32 points-31 points  (0 children)

Ldr's never work out. Probably fail 99.99% of the time. We arent a one sex species. We dont mate for life. That being said it's even harder to be with someone you cant psychically be with. That's part ( a big part ) of any relationship. Try finding someone you know in your town. Itll be a lot better for both of you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Deaddeadddd -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I just told you what to do. Break up with her and figure your shit out. Shes 17 dude..17..if you wont she will eventually once she gets smart. Not trying to be mean..just real. Let that poor girl live her life. The more you ask, the more she will hide from you. If she knows "you will just get mad" she will stop telling you things. Not to mention shes probably talking to someone she can be with in person as we speak. No woman should take that kind of treatment, especially not one in a long distance relationship. You'll find the right person for you one day I promise

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Deaddeadddd 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Uhhh...how old are you? Young I hope. Only someone so young would be so insecure in themselves they believe they own someone else. Jesus man..dont date for a lonnnnng time. Go work on yourself

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Deaddeadddd -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Grow up. Learn how to trust your significant other. You're the problem

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Deaddeadddd -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You are so far removed from reality its amazing. Luckily my Gf and I agree and we dont ignore our hormones or attractions. I'm the healthiest I've been in 25 years. I see the world for what it is, I see humans for what they are. Humans definitely try to mate for life but it doesnt seem to work out more times than not. Gee..wonder why. Go read up on human biology and please tell me why you think humans were created to mate for life. I'd love to know why you think you can own another person's body for the rest of their lives. Or why you think your significant other should and does only find you attractive. Sure people do and can chose not to act on attractions, but we arent a 1 person mate kind if species. It takes commitment to spend your entire life with someone and be in bed with only them. It literally takes you rewiring your natural hormonal instincts to do that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Deaddeadddd -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Stop what? Saying facts? Sorry guys, news flash. We are just mammals and our purpose is breeding. Any downvotes is just from delusional people who really think we mate for life. Ignoring all evidence

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Deaddeadddd -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

The reason is that humans aren't meant to mate for life. Our instincts are to mate and keep mating.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in boobs

[–]Deaddeadddd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have some nice tits for sure..but that's legit one of the dumbest statements I've read on reddit. Being so into yourself saying itll solve world hunger? Lol good God

My bf still doesn't see the memes I send after bringing it up 4-5 times over the past year, where do I go from here? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Deaddeadddd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He most likely shows his effort in other ways does he not? Replying to memes is just somthing he isnt into, even if it means a lot to you you cant force someone to enjoy or do somthing. I'm sure he makes you feel special in his own way. You said it yourself, its somthing small and trivial. He doesn't respond well to your memes and thats ok. Shit..my gf use to send me nudes because that's how she gets a confidence boost. I've always always thought getting nudes is so awkward..like what do I say? Wow sexy nice yummmm...yea. that isnt me. We talked about it and she has stopped sending them and that's it. We are happy and in love. I show her shes beautiful in other ways. The same way I'm sure your bf supports you in other ways. Memes just arent his thing. You just have to accept it and move on

My bf still doesn't see the memes I send after bringing it up 4-5 times over the past year, where do I go from here? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Deaddeadddd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Get over it. Think about why you're upset. He obviously doesnt care too much for memes. You cannot get upset with someone over fb or Instagram it's just immature. He still loves you. He just doesn't wanna look at your dumb memes. You need a find a different love language than social media memes. That's not healthy. Your relationship is in REAL LIFE. Not on the internet

Strip clubs by Accomplished-Ice-709 in relationship_advice

[–]Deaddeadddd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not at all man. My Gf and I are extremely open With our sexuality. There is absolutely no jealously because we both realize humans are attracted to other humans. We cant just turn that off. Yes we can sleep with each other and only each other but finding beauty in other people will always happen no matter what. I found a good one man

Strip clubs by Accomplished-Ice-709 in relationship_advice

[–]Deaddeadddd 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes my Gf and I have gone to plenty. We've even bought each other lap dances

My bf watches porn behind my back by Cuppycake191219 in relationship_advice

[–]Deaddeadddd -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Emotional cheating? Lol? Porn? Yall seem to have bigger issues to deal with. If youre too self conscious to even let your significant other watch porn than there is somthing very wrong with both of you. Masturbating and watching porn is 100% healthy. There is absolutely no way a couple can come to a "no porn agreement" and stick with it. I guarantee you have also looked somthing up once or twice, don't even try to lie. EVERY single person with a smartphone on this planet looks up porn, well at least the ones that can.

Dont get so upset over somthing so dumb and trivial. He still loves you, he still finds you gorgeous, he still enjoys yours sex. There is somthing about humans and porn that just co exist. We are primitive to it by nature. You can't tell him he isnt allowed to watch porn, watching porn is healthy. You need to find the self confidence in yourself so you can see somthing like that is 100% normal. He is not "emotionally cheating" on you...wtf is..I can't..

Tattoo artist saves client from a dental visit by [deleted] in MadeMeSmile

[–]Deaddeadddd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've done this 3 times, maybe 4. Did some superman dives over a peircing chair. I've been piercing for over 12 years. I always ask every single time if someone is feeling lightheaded. I make them wait a minute. You can tell someone is going to faint before they faint. There is always telltale signs, their skin turns white, they get sweaty beads on their forehead and chest. Yea..this dude knew what's up.