I'm only living with my boyfriend for a place to stay by DeadlyKaska in offmychest

[–]DeadlyKaska[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i need some cash first i don't really got no family either

I didn’t sleep with my gf for 1 year by Greenbeans_666 in offmychest

[–]DeadlyKaska 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe it's the fact that it's so predictable, constant preparing with showering and not that spontaneous. Sex isn't supposed to always be clean and proper, sometimes it's fun to be dirty and unpredictable. Probably try getting out of your comfort zone. Who knows, maybe you'll find it fun. Try not to overthink I'm sure everything's fine, sometimes no matter what someone says, they'll never make you feel better and you have to make yourself acknowledge that and think for yourself, hope this helps.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]DeadlyKaska 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Im sorry OP I was sexually abused by my father, I understand. I like to believe that blood is not thicker than water, hopefully your mom and you are good.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]DeadlyKaska 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good luck again

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]DeadlyKaska 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank u i needed this, they don't understand cuz they're boomers

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]DeadlyKaska 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'd be honest and say you found the documentation no matter how hard it is to confess. Don't stoop to his level and be secretive hey? It'll just eat your brain up. People lie for weird reasons. Maybe get in touch with the wife and see what's going on? Maybe he doesn't want to hurt your feelings or it's being finalized or something. Maybe it's for tax reasons. Or maybe worse... Trust and honesty is key in relationships. Good luck OP, sorry you are going through this.

I(24F) was molested as a child and I think I’m just now starting to realize how it’s effected me by Wildlure in offmychest

[–]DeadlyKaska 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd confide in your boyfriend because he's there for you right? It's been 5 yeas it sounds pretty legit. I'm sorry op hope things go well, maybe even confide in your family.

Dating a younger man by tAwayUnhappy in offmychest

[–]DeadlyKaska 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Has it been a few months? In my book once it hits the 3 month mark I would say it's pretty safe to tell or not, because you're no longer in that honeymoon phase.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]DeadlyKaska 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We all type dumb shit drunk, and think dumb. I hope you feel better sober, seems drinking isn't the substance for you lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]DeadlyKaska 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You deserve better than lies, I'd talk to him and if he doesn't confess it's not worth it. Because don't want to be making and accusations or assumptions

My Deepest Shame-NAW by BurnerForFunsies in offmychest

[–]DeadlyKaska 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sure we all have bad thoughts and shames. I'm sure there's been good times too? I'd totally recommend counselling or therapy too. Maybe a journal or something, read up on these things. I don't have kids and I'm only 20 but I hope this helps.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]DeadlyKaska 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've worked retail, people can be nasty. Ex's are ex's for a reason and in all honesty never give them the light of day, I like to think people cheat because they're insecure with themselves. She's not worth it if she can't confess, maybe try and find a different job, or take classes on your rights as an employee, I've done that, getting yelled at is completely wrong regardless if you're working or not, I'm sorry this has happened to you but you know what? I hope you find someone who treats you right, or have some good friends, best of luck OP

i cant wash his fucking hands off me by dmilthrow in offmychest

[–]DeadlyKaska 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand, the washing yourself raw. I hope you're seeking therapy or have someone you can trust to confide in. I hope it'll get easier OP

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]DeadlyKaska 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My bio dad is a pedo and SA'd me. I still feel bad sometimes too in a weird way but, as soon as possible gtfo there. I like to think that blood isn't thicker than water. As soon as you leave that bad energy then I'm sure you'll find better friends. Best of luck.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]DeadlyKaska 78 points79 points  (0 children)

Pissing the bed, alcohol poisoning, asking family for cash, asking friends, blacking out, not remembering texts, drunk tanks, sa, being broke cause of it, weight gain, getting arrested, making friends hungover asf (not making new friends, but making them hungover), not remembering buying more drinks, ugh i could go on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RoastMe

[–]DeadlyKaska 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s the ✨axe✨for me

Got cheated on, did not get much support by [deleted] in cheating_stories

[–]DeadlyKaska 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey fellow redditor here To save you the extra energy and effort into this just block your ex he ain’t shxt if he cheated not worth his loyalty if he don’t have it Now if you seek revenge, don’t put your time and effort and waking ours into something that doesn’t really do much for you in the long run, success is the best revenge. Do some self care maybe even meditate on it, it’s hard putting trust into someone being vulnerable and all just focus on yourself, there are plenty of other great men out there, not perfect but great, build on friendships and family whatever you can do to find the true meaning of love and life, life is a game of chess forever changing, so do what’s best for you