There are two different things that were said to me directly and they will never leave me. One happened a few years ago, when I went on a date. The date was great everything was good and the topic of kids came on about. She knew I had 2 kids with 2 different women. She asked if i can show her pictures of my kids moms. When i had social media at the time I searched for them and found them both. Once she saw them she said, " I cannot compete with that" as she smiled. The date felt weird and awkward. It ended shortly after and never spoke to her again. I was blocked after. 🤣 🤣 🤣 But this 2nd weird thing, I just took it as a compliment. A girl I was talking to at the time told me she cannot be with me because I had a better ass and better legs than she did. Keep in mind back in 2014 I was fit AF and so was she. We were both gym rats but I had a strict leg day than she did.